Everyone is a diamond, but the luminous point is different.
In life, in fact, others look at you with light. You just didn't find it.
What you see is the light of others, and you will never see your own light. So you start to feel anxious, confused and helpless.
Laozi said: "Cut off the education that follows the example of saints and others, and cut off the behavior of guiding the world to learn from people who meet certain social and moral standards by establishing reputation, honor and other conditions."
Whether it is work or children's study, many people have the heart to compare, especially most parents like to compare their children's achievements.
But they forget that, in fact, we should observe children in different ways to make them feel valued.
Much like that sentence: "Everyone is gold and will shine one day!" " "Some people let light early, some people let light late. Some are dazzling, some are sparkling, and generally speaking, it does not affect the sparkle of this gold.
There is no need to compare, everyone is a sparkling diamond.
There is a line in The Legend of 1900. A pianist who has been on a boat all his life said, "All those cities, you just can't see the end. End? Please tell me where it ends. I couldn't see clearly from the gangway. I'm wearing a coat and I feel great. I thought I had a bright future, and then I was going to get off the boat. Rest assured! No problem at all! However, what stopped me was not what I saw, but what I couldn't see. In that chaotic city, there is everything, but there is no end. There is no end at all. "
Recently, I began to consider whether to summarize my past or to plan and reflect on my future life.
I clearly understand that in fact, some people may not have finished reading these words I updated, but if I put myself in the shoes, everything I updated is just paving the way for my life. Many years later, looking back, it turned out that my experience was so fascinating.
Even the memories are full of sunshine. I'm waiting for this day. I'm looking forward to it.
In fact, I don't believe that anyone will want to read these words I wrote carefully, and I don't believe that anyone will want to see themselves through words.
But I am willing to believe in myself and write about my youth. Keep the memories of youth, those sparkling memories always illuminate themselves at a certain moment!
About the author: Hello, I'm Anna, an independent post-96 generation, an editor at work and an ordinary recorder in life. The following are my growing experience and three views. I just want to be the person I like. Love writing, running, climbing, volunteering, and firmly believe that writing for yourself is the best!