Nan is a master of Chinese studies. He is proficient in Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism and has profound attainments. He has many wonderful comments on life, which are mixed in his interpretation of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Every sentence reflects his knowledge and accomplishment, and every word reflects a transparent texture.
Such a wise man's life speech is extremely rare, and even rarer today, which deserves our great attention and repeated understanding.
1, relying on others will never be a loser.
People can only rely on themselves, and no one is reliable. There are no reliable people in the world, even your parents and your children can't rely on them, they can only rely on themselves. ..... If you don't stand up and expect others to rely on others, you will always be a hopeless person.
2. People's snobbery is normal.
In fact, interpersonal communication, interpersonal communication and snobbery are its normal state. It is very abnormal to talk only about morality and ignore snobbery. Things are rare, so morality is absolutely precious.
3. The height is determined by the degree.
Everyone's tolerance, knowledge, vision and mind are different. If you want to achieve great success, you must cultivate your manners, as big as the sea.
4, the enjoyment of loneliness
I'll tell you an experience: in the dead of night, when a person runs to the top of a mountain or a big desert, it's very quiet. He doesn't know how his tears flow down.
This is not sadness or love, it is an unparalleled quiet comfort, every part of the body is naturally opened, and the pain and troubles in the heart are gone.
It is what the ancients said, "Empty mountains and rainy nights, all is silent." I only heard the sound of rain beating the leaves in the empty mountain, and there was nothing else. That is the enjoyment of loneliness, which money can't buy.
5, ethereal can be comfortable
If a person's mind and posture are not ethereal, it is finished, which is equivalent to putting a cup in a small pit of water as a boat and never moving. Only with the lofty ethereal realm can you fly freely in this world and this universe and get happiness.
6. Nothing lasts forever.
Everyone hopes that everything that is good will not change. Like human feelings, we all hope that love will last forever and remain unchanged; I also hope that my age will remain the same, I will always be young and so on. Visible people are always so stupid! If we understand this truth and know that nothing is constant between heaven and earth, change is of course constant? There is no such thing!
7. Great things must be changed.
"Success depends on change" ... a great man in history: a first-class wise leader who knows how to change next and will always stand in front of it with change;
The second category is contingency. You change, I change, and then change. The third kind of person is that after a person has changed, he still stays where he is. When people passed by, he scolded behind him: "You have changed so fast, I am not ready for you!" " "
8. Restrain yourself with faith
I found that a person with thoughts and beliefs has absolutely different achievements. When a person has nothing to do with himself, it is easy to be the beginning of failure.
9. The energy of life comes from "quietness"
Where does the energy come from? It comes from static, from empty. Why are we so busy that we have to sleep at night? Because people also need to be still, it is impossible to rest. ..... People often forget the static state in their lives and try to consume themselves with the dynamic state.
Sometimes when dealing with a complicated and difficult thing, I can't understand it, and suddenly my mind says that this can solve the problem. This is the role of quietness. So if you want to deal with complicated and difficult things, you must first calm down and think nothing. The more you think about it, the more your brain turns, all your nerves turn, and finally you die or get sick.
1 1, the real practice is the world of mortals.
Real practice is not only in the mountains, temples, but also in society. Live in practice, practice in life. ..... No matter what occupation you are engaged in, you should integrate your own practice into your work, face the realm of experience and cultivate people's hearts. ..... Don't be afraid of encountering obstacles against fate, it can temper your mind, improve your level and increase your wisdom.
12, the world will be beautiful if you have a good attitude.
Don't just think about yourself, think about each other. Only by getting rid of selfishness and self-love can you be comfortable. ..... how do you treat others, others will treat you, don't always complain, don't always find fault with others, don't always want to change others, first adjust your mentality and repair your heart, and everything will follow your heart.
13, the so-called exercise-correct yourself
If you embrace everything with a broad mind, you won't be confused. Seeing that everyone is a good person, everything is a good thing and everything is a good situation. Being able to constantly discover your own shortcomings and get rid of yourself is practice. What else can you practice?
14, studying is to be a person, not to make a living.
Why should a person study? ..... Traditionally, the most correct answer is the word "read". To be reasonable is to understand the truth of being a man first. If you want to ask the Chinese nation and the people of China what is the purpose of education? Say it again: to be a man, not to live.
15, associate with people who are beneficial to you.
Keep in touch with mature and reliable people to help you grow up and be reliable in an emergency. You can learn a lot by interacting with the elderly.
16, forget your good, don't forget your good.
"Don't think about giving, don't forget to accept", these two sentences have a profound impact on my life and are the spirit of Buddhism, Taoism and three religions. Don't keep in mind the benefits of helping others, but throw them away. "Gratitude" benefits people a little, and we should always remember it.
Satisfaction is wealth.
People should leave room for things and don't take advantage of good things. If you use them, you will get into trouble. The so-called "contentment is always happy."
As a man's responsibility
Know your duty, know your time, know your situation, and listen to your destiny after doing your duty. Only in this way can you be a person.
19, it is a person's life to work and rest on time.
Our daily body climate, from 1 1 in the evening to 12/in the morning, is sunny; The afternoon belongs to Yin Qi. Nowadays, many young people in the city are not full of yang-they are dizzy in the morning and have no spirit at all; I took a nap in the afternoon and my spirit gradually improved; Nightlife is coming, and the spirit is getting better and better-these people are full of yin ... This kind of life is not called nightlife, but a ghost life, which is upside down day and night.
20. Best friendship
China people talk about making friends, "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water". A good friend is not a fair-weather friend or a daily contact, but it is usually dull. But that doesn't mean that he has a heart of stone, that his friends are in trouble, or that he is ill. Usually it doesn't matter. Maybe even if you look at it with your eyes, you say hello, but it's really warm.
2 1, as an atmosphere, is popular.
Young people should pay attention. If they want to make a difference, they must understand the truth of "money gathers and people disperse"-put all the money in your pocket, and there will be fewer interpersonal relationships in society, and there will be no "real friends";
"The money is scattered and people are gathered." This is the case in Meng Changjun. When the money is scattered, people's difficulties will be solved. Of course they have no money, but they have many friends and many interpersonal relationships. When they are in trouble, they have friends to help them.
22, the true meaning of life
Be strict with yourself; Don't be as serious as yourself when blaming others for their mistakes. If you do this, your resentment towards your officers, colleagues and subordinates will be reduced. On the contrary, a social atmosphere, in a chaotic era, is often more important to others than to oneself; It's easy to ask others to be strict and forgive yourself.
23. Life is a fake play.
Life is like a play. The play has already started, so you have to go on. But you have to know clearly that you are acting ... you have to play your role well and don't pretend to be serious. In fact, the world is not our hometown, and all beings are just passers-by in a hurry. What is there to be persistent, what is there to care about, and what can you do if you say less? How about taking a step back?
24, swallow this tone
There is a simple way. If you do, you will be useful. When you want to lose your temper, do qigong quickly, open your mouth, take a breath first, then take a breath through your nose and swallow it, and then say whether you want to lose your temper. ..... That's really angry! People only have a sigh when they are angry, not pretending.
25. Don't work with good friends.
Some people can be classmates and friends when they are young, but there is no way to go the same way with them and they may not be able to work together. If you have a career that you think is a good friend and work together, friends often become enemies later, which is really not cost-effective.
26, content with plain, the most rare.
Some are content with pleasure, some are content with poverty, and some are content with plain. The hardest thing about learning is that people who are plain and content with plain can do anything.
27. Don't help too much.
There is an old saying in rural China that giving a bucket of rice is a benefactor and giving a load of rice is an enemy. He is always grateful to help his friends and relieve his difficulties; But he is never satisfied with too much help.
28. Greed hurts the body.
Don't hurt yourself when you are in wealth. On the contrary, between the poor and the poor, "it is not profitable." In poverty, people must make money for their lives, but they should not be too greedy. The so-called "people die for money", too greedy and overworked, will also damage health and endanger life.
29. It is easy to work, but difficult to complain.
The hardest thing is "working without complaints". People often say that when we do something, we should take responsibility. Experience tells us that it is easy to work and take responsibility. There are too many things to do, and it doesn't matter if you are tired. It is unbearable to be scolded when we do something. ..... People who have done great things in history are able to work hard and complain more, and even have to complain about the world without regrets.
30. The poorer you shout, the poorer you are.
People shouldn't shout poverty. People who claim to be poor are actually poor. When people cry poor, they are not satisfied, or when they want to give alms, they are unwilling to give money and cry poor. With such a cry, God gave him the poor magnetic field, and the result became poorer and poorer. If that person wants to be rich, he must be satisfied first, and satisfaction is an achievement. Contentment will make you richer and richer, otherwise you will become poorer and poorer.
3 1, giving others is giving yourself.
Everyone thinks that if they are good to themselves, they will get better and better. As everyone knows, people who are too good to themselves are often not rewarded, and they are getting worse. On the contrary, if you don't do it for yourself and only want to do it for others, then God won't treat him badly, and he will get better gradually.
32, don't play means, is smart.
The most sincere person is the most successful person. So I often tell young students not to play tricks ... who will succeed in the future? Fool, a person who doesn't play tricks and is sincere in doing things with people. This is the law of heaven and earth.
33, hypocritical people, no good end.
It feels good to deal with the world by hypocritical means, but the result will definitely not be good. Even if it is good, it is "fortunately avoided". However, "luck" is one in ten thousand, and this gambling behavior is too dangerous and uneconomical.
34. Disappointment is life.
There are two famous sayings in China: "Disappointment is often nine times out of ten, but you can talk to others two or three times." ...... "Nine times out of ten, you lose what's going on in the world and no one is interested." ..... It is impossible for a person to live in this society and want to have a good reputation, high achievements and a smooth journey. A truly virtuous person often has a lot of grievances, insults and pains in this society. There is no way to complain to others, so I have to pick it up myself.
35, the best filial piety
There are indeed parents who are wrong in the world, but filial piety is the first step of self-cultivation, and filial piety can't just follow blindly. Filial piety and subtle influence on parents' faults are the true meaning of "thinking about things and not knowing people".
36. No career is not terrible, but no ambition is terrible.
Whether young people have a career in their lives is not a problem; Whether life is enterprising or not is the question. Although you are enterprising, you may not be able to achieve your career; But without ambition, like a paper that has been thrown into the wastebasket, this young man is almost scrapped.
37. Suffering is a good thing
In the history of mankind, all those who have made great contributions, made great contributions and done great things have stood up from suffering. Only those who stand out from suffering can understand the world. Therefore, for a person's achievements, sometimes it is a good thing to be younger and suffer more. ..... People who really want to get ahead, get ahead and do great things must have rich life experience.
38. Let go, but don't give up
Each has its own karma, and each has its own blessings. What you cling to will hurt you; Whoever you cling to will make you sad. Everything should be treated as a dream, let go of all delusions. But letting go is not giving up. We must do what we have to do and do it well.
39. Doing people well and doing things right is learning.
Learning is not literature, but good writing is this person's literature; Erudition is the knowledge of this person; As for learning, even if you don't know a word, you may be learned-doing well, doing right, absolutely good, absolutely right, that's learning.
40. A gentleman never complains.
People can really learn for the sake of learning, so instead of complaining, ask yourself, why can't I stand up? Why didn't I achieve this goal? It is a variety of questions about one's own knowledge, cultivation and practice. I seriously reflect on myself and have no thoughts of complaining. Take the current concept, this kind of psychology is absolutely healthy, and this is the gentleman.
4 1, people don't deceive themselves, the world is invincible.
Anyone who does only three things in his life will die: deceiving himself, deceiving others and being cheated. ..... people, because of "self-deception", will "deceive others", and of course they will be "cheated" in the end. People don't lie to themselves, who can lie to you? In other words, people have to love themselves before they can love others, and finally they can be loved naturally. It can also be said that people need self-esteem to respect others, so that others can respect you.
42, stubborn, can't do great things.
When we study the personalities of some successful and failed figures in history, we will find interesting contrasts. Some people like to accept better advice from others. But there are too few people who can change immediately, take back their opinions immediately and use others' better opinions. Liu bang is one of these few people. Xiang Yu, on the other hand, will never change his mind and never accept other people's opinions.
43. Don't brag and do more practical things.
At all times, Chinese and foreign countries, people's psychology is the same, most of them love to brag, in fact, they are rarely seen; The ideal is high, and it is difficult to do it in action. Therefore, Confucius said that a true gentleman should talk less and do more practical things.
44. Believe in the beauty of the world
Don't always say that husband and wife are enemies, children are creditors, and don't say that money is a poisonous snake and people are sinister. Believe in the good side of the world.
45. Is life alive?
Real cultivation, in the middle of patience, can really check out your mistakes and then "accept them." No matter what happens, don't complain and get angry. This is the right life.
46. Everything you do has a limit.
A person's cultivation, or learning, has different levels step by step. Like an art student, he has a new inspiration today, or painting a picture. He has a special experience, that is, he has its realm. A cement worker suddenly dropped a brick today and put cement on it. His head was very comfortable. It turns out that this is the method of bricklaying and the realm of his cement work.
47. Arrogance is an inferiority complex.
I often say that arrogant people are inferior, and people who don't feel inferior will not be arrogant, because people with inferiority know that they have nothing, and they are afraid that you will look down on me, so they are arrogant. ..... So all arrogant people are poor and have an inferiority complex; Because he has inferiority complex, in turn, he is arrogant and doesn't understand life. That's the truth.
48, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, all because of selfish desires.
Some people don't even have the most basic accomplishment. When they don't get fame and power, they "suffer from loss." They were afraid they wouldn't get it, so they tried their best to climb this position. When I climbed to this position, I grasped the power in my hand, and I was afraid of losing the power I had gained. To be swayed by considerations of gain and loss is to have too much selfish desires, without really great thoughts, great personalities and great goals, and only care about personal interests.
49. Every time you kill a dog, you are a scholar.
According to my decades of experience, I even admit two words of the ancients: "Every time you kill a dog, you are a scholar." ..... is that the poor sympathize with others, the poor will sympathize with the poor, and the suffering people will sympathize with the suffering people. Dog butchers kill pigs and dogs, and have not read any books. ..... The higher an intellectual's knowledge, the better he can explain his thoughts. When he doesn't want to do it, he will explain it on purpose. People with low knowledge can't explain, my friends! Why not go? As a friend, there is no reason not to go because his ideas are not complicated.
50, the highest realm is ordinary.
The higher the knowledge, the more complicated the thought. A highly educated person, becoming a single-minded person, is the first person in the world, and he has changed from brilliant to ordinary.
Look at the world with a clean heart and live with a happy heart.
Changing mentality is changing life. The past is irreversible, tomorrow is unknown, and only now is real. Don't pay for yesterday, don't compete with the past, if you accidentally fall, get up and continue running. Even if suffering is destined to come tomorrow, there is no need to pay for it today. Try to take care of today, and tomorrow will surprise you.
What people need to change is often not the environment, but their own heart. Life is imperfect and very limited. Life is made up of a series of karma. We should experience a deeper life and develop inner spirituality, instead of tirelessly pursuing all external material life.
Climb some mountains to know the difficulty. I didn't know how to trudge until I crossed some rivers. Only by crossing some hurdles can we know how to go beyond it. You have to go through something to know. I saw some people and learned the experience. You don't know what wealth is until you have read some books. It took a lifetime to know what happiness is.
Simple things are complicated if you think deeply; Complex things, looking down is simple; It's okay. Put it down. You'll be fine. Some things are not things; Some things can only be laughed off; Some things need to be done with your heart. Grasp yourself and adjust your mentality. Being a man can do things, and doing things can be an adult. Everything in the world can be perfect, but you have to be honest inside and have no regrets in life.
Let others take a step, in fact, let yourself take a step. Life is a kind of balance. You will miss it if you have it. You want everything, and you often lose more. Don't expect absolute fairness in life. Fairness is like two ends of a scale. The more one end gives, the more hope the other end can have.
Don't complain, don't be impetuous and don't be afraid of loneliness. There is no absolute fairness in the world, only a little fairness. Peace of mind leads to peace in the world. Learn to give others a chance. Rank and honor, like clouds in the sky, can't lie down, just fall down when you lie down.
The profound meaning of life often lies in keeping your true self, calming your mind and living honestly in temptation. First repair the gas volume, then repair the gas field, and live up to expectations. You must first be atmospheric; Do good deeds and be kind to others. Satisfaction is an eternal feast. The so-called contentment is not to be enterprising, but not to envy others, to know how to cherish, appreciate and be grateful for what you have. Satisfaction with things is always satisfactory, and people are rigid without desire.
Look at the world with a clean heart and live with a happy heart. No matter how beautiful the garden is, there are unclean things; No matter how happy a life is, there are unpleasant things. There are always advantages and disadvantages in this world. Where your attention is, your heart is there. Look at the world with a pure heart, and the noise of the world of mortals will not shake your heart; Live happily, and the disappointments in life will not affect your mood.
Less care, more happiness; The pressure is less and much easier; It would be much more comfortable to complain less. Less inferiority and more confidence; Less, more comfortable; It's not that complicated. It's much simpler. People have dignity and happiness, people have cultivation and temperament, people have love and kindness, and people can be calm if they are indifferent. Casual, the mood can be calm, diligent, life can be brilliant, open-minded, and life can be happy.
Commitment should be slow and implementation should be fast. No matter whether someone loves us or not, we must try to be a lovely person. Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone, run in the sun, dream your own dreams and go your own way.
Self-confidence begins at the foot, not in the eyes of others. Hope for the best, try your best, prepare for the worst and hold the best attitude. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed and accept what is true. The sun is always new and every day is a beautiful day.
Look at the world with a clean heart and live with a happy heart.
1. Facing a wise man, honesty is the best way to solve the problem unless you are smarter than him.
2. No matter how beautiful the garden is, there are also unclean things; No matter how happy a life is, there are unpleasant things.
3. Simplicity is a great beauty, which is the most enduring and the least prone to wither. There is no shortage of beauty in the world, what is lacking is the eyes that find beauty.
4. Eat less if you are fat, go to bed early if you are sleepy, earn more if you are poor, and stay away from points. No one can help you unless you save yourself.
Never complain about what happened to you, either change or accept it silently.
6. People who are overly sensitive must live a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions.
7. I won't frown at anyone you desperately love now.
8. Knowledge is a kind of food. The more you eat, the hungrier you get.
9. Strong people can only save themselves, and great people can save others.
10, don't call me if you have nothing to do, and don't call me if you have anything to do.
1 1. Everyone is born primitive. Sadly, many people have gradually become pirates!
12, only when you don't expect anything, can everything come as scheduled.
13, more eyes, many small things will be allergic, so others look at you more, you will feel that he is hostile to you; Look at you less. You think he snubbed you on purpose.
14, there are some people who pass by us in life, but they have no time to meet each other; Met, but it was too late to get to know each other; Get to know each other, but get to know each other too late; I'm familiar with it, but I still have to say goodbye.
15, I heard that any lies can be forgiven in the first snow. So, I don't like you.
16, the oath is actually just a demagogic poison, that's all.
17, one person will change and accommodate for another person, which is love. Love your lover as much as you give in.
18, have a long sleep, listen to a favorite song, reduce your strong love, feel the clarity of life, everything is lovely.
19, please try again, for the people you want to see, for the things you want to do, for the people you want to be.
20. Look at the world with a pure heart and live with a happy heart.
Bian Xiao: It is nine times sadder to hear about love and nine times sadder to hear about the past. Bian Xiao: I'd rather be alone than with people who are out of step. Bian Xiao: What makes women forget is feelings, and what makes men forget is feelings. Classic Quotations: Look at the world with a clean heart and live with a happy heart.
Classic Quotations: Look at the world with a pure heart and live with a happy heart. 1. Facing a wise man, honesty is the best way to solve the problem unless you are smarter than him.
2. No matter how beautiful the garden is, there are also unclean things; No matter how happy a life is, there are unpleasant things.
3. Simplicity is a great beauty, which is the most enduring and the least prone to wither. There is no shortage of beauty in the world, what is lacking is the eyes that find beauty.
4. Eat less if you are fat, go to bed early if you are sleepy, earn more if you are poor, and stay away from points. No one can help you unless you save yourself.
Never complain about what happened to you, either change or accept it silently.
6. People who are overly sensitive must live a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions.
7. I won't frown at anyone you desperately love now.
8. Knowledge is a kind of food. The more you eat, the hungrier you get.
9. Strong people can only save themselves, and great people can save others.
10, don't call me if you have nothing to do, and don't call me if you have anything to do.
1 1. Everyone is born primitive. Sadly, many people have gradually become pirates!
12, only when you don't expect anything, can everything come as scheduled.
13, more eyes, many small things will be allergic, so others look at you more, you will feel that he is hostile to you; Look at you less. You think he snubbed you on purpose.
14, there are some people who pass by us in life, but they have no time to meet each other; Met, but it was too late to get to know each other; Get to know each other, but get to know each other too late; I'm familiar with it, but I still have to say goodbye.
15, I heard that any lies can be forgiven in the first snow. So, I don't like you.
16, the oath is actually just a demagogic poison, that's all.
17, one person will change and accommodate for another person, which is love. Love your lover as much as you give in.
18, have a long sleep, listen to a favorite song, reduce your strong love, feel the clarity of life, everything is lovely.
19, please try again, for the people you want to see, for the things you want to do, for the people you want to be.
20. Look at the world with a pure heart and live with a happy heart.