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This sentence describes life by rowing, and describes the prodigal son who has no direction, does not work hard, idles around, indulges himself and is a loser all his life! So we shouldn't be such people, we should have ideals, plans and move forward towards that goal!

1. Confusion is a transitional process from one stage to the next, which is a normal phenomenon and not a problem in itself. When you come into contact with new things or enter a new environment, you will feel confused if you don't know the situation, how to choose and how to act. If you do something definite, you won't be confused.

2. In the era of quick success and instant benefit, some people are eager to find the correct answer once and for all, and some people try to solve their own problems by applying effective methods to others. There are always "big names" who keep telling short stories and telling the truth, telling young people how to live, what to do and what not to do, what is success and how to succeed with the truth established under special conditions.

3. Preachers like to use "should …, must …, know …, remember …, want … don't …, want …, as long as … then …, because … so you want …, if …, just …, only …"

4. Everyone has different experiences, concepts, conditions and preferences. How can there be a standard model of life, and there are so many things to do and not to do? The so-called rational advice of authoritative experts, the so-called classic quotes of successful people, and the so-called right and wrong, good and bad, should or should not be, are just the limited views and experiences of the preacher, not facts.

5. Understanding the world, establishing outlook on life, choosing correct values and happiness, and defining desire to create value. Know your subjective and objective characteristics, so that you can gradually get out of the state of worry, fear and anxiety caused by confusion.