Are all women masochists?

In fact, women just don't like those rigid, clumsy and boring guys. Relatively speaking, "bad" men are more interesting. But this "bad" should have a special meaning, that is, the heroine in the old-fashioned movie turned shyly and poked the hero's head with her finger: "You are so bad!"

The real bad man is terrible, and the smart woman will smell it soon and escape in time. And that kind of fake bad man, commonly known as "being cool", will soon become a woman's "disgusting image". Moreover, now "bad" men are suspected of being OUT, which is proved by the popularity of the image of "good man" in Kuquiqi.

(2) Men like beautiful and stupid women.

In order to please the prince and keep slim, Princess Diana began to vomit after eating, which later developed into uncontrollable vomiting. Charles is not grateful for this. Instead, he recalled in disgust, "My honeymoon was full of vomiting." When Charles divorced Diana, Diana's measurements were 35-28-35 (inches), which was called "the devil's golden ratio" by beauty experts, and she was a perfect abandoned wife.

But Camilla, who is old and ugly but has made the prince infatuated for decades, even acquaintances who accuse her of destroying the royal marriage have to say, "To be fair, everyone who knows Camilla thinks she is a lovely woman. She is not only smart, but also funny. " She is the queen at the party. She can talk about Kan Kan's literature, art, politics and economy. Privately, she is a passionate and indulgent lover. When we first met, she was not as shy as a little girl. She said, "My great-grandmother was your great-grandfather's mistress. What do you think? "

Diana. Diana dropped out of high school and failed to make up the exam.

Beauty is what men value women, but love is not a poster or a one-night stand. When the attraction of beauty fades, how can life not be boring if you face a dull and clumsy lover every day? Of course, men who need to find their confidence in front of women, or who need to show their value with beautiful women, may yearn for beautiful silly women. However, what is there to be proud of a fool's admiration and worship?

Men shouldn't make women cry.

Men are not saviors, and women are not clay dolls. In love, tolerance and understanding should be; But the unlimited and absolute requirements are also unreasonable. Only "equality" can people have healthy and profound love. Both men and women are human beings and have their own temper and habits. They also have their own advantages and disadvantages. Friction is inevitable. Once friction occurs, it should be adjusted by both men and women, not by men's tolerance and commitment.

Women's feelings are more fragile than men's, while men are more careless. Asking men to take full care of women's minds, Balzac happened to have a metaphor: "It seems to ask gorillas to play the violin." It's a little friction. It's okay to shed some tears and say something angry.

Besides, women are sentimental, and a little tear is an emotional catharsis for women, which is very comfortable. If a woman doesn't shed tears for love, she will die of heartache. Looking at a lot of women who prepare paper towels every day and wait to watch Deep Rain, we know that tears are often a kind of entertainment for women, and it is her way to volatilize poetry and enjoy love.

If this sentence is interpreted as "a man can't hurt a woman", then it should be added that "a woman can't hurt a man". And in this way, it means nothing, so rest.

(4) Not for eternity, but to have it.

The third party often said this when it was a third party, and later most of them cried and shouted "Forever and ever". What's the point of deceiving yourself? The exclusive desire in love is our inevitable instinct. When you are an attacker, you are busy preparing shells. When love grows old, you think of defense, and how much you long for that safe "besieged city".

Another situation is that you are afraid to take responsibility and make an agreement in advance, as long as you are now and don't mention the future. I have a friend. What my ex-boyfriend hates most is that she always makes it clear that "we don't have to get married in the future" and "it seems that I will haunt him". My friend finally got angry and even didn't want it. Stimulated by this, the ex-boyfriend suddenly felt inseparable from her and proposed. She never looked back.

(5) stay together because you don't understand, and separate because you understand.

This "maxim" seems to have been circulating for a long time, and its theoretical basis is "Beauty comes from distance". As the saying goes, if you look at a flower from a distance, you will see a mass of hemp at close range.

Therefore, this kind of marriage and love guidance has mushroomed, saying that both husband and wife should keep a sense of mystery in marriage and don't often expose their nakedness in front of each other. A friend of mine recently divorced, and his ex-wife followed this dogma. Her husband can't go in while she is taking a bath. If she accidentally goes in, she will let out a cry and cover herself with a bath towel. In case hooligans make trouble. My friend's comment is: "Do you need it? Where have I never seen her? "

Of course, it is said that psychological understanding can lead to boredom and leaving. However, I want to ask: Is it that easy to know someone? In just a few years, you met a very different opposite sex from you and were tired of her? The motto of Delphi Temple: "Know yourself." It is so difficult for people to know themselves, and it is so easy to know a opposite sex.

On the contrary, only love based on understanding is profound and lasting. In the process of getting to know each other, I also got to know myself. That kind of happiness is definitely not as strong as orgasm, but it must be deeper and bigger.

We broke up because of fate.

Fate is a Buddhist concept, which is profound and a cause and effect. Now when it comes to love, the meaning is actually very shallow. That is to say, how did you meet one of thousands of people? It is not easy to meet, know each other and fall in love; Unfortunately, there are so many irresistible factors that we have to part. This is the end of fate. This is not our fault, this is the fault of fate.

Modern people seem reasonable, but it is no different from the ancient people who ruled out the date of birth. Love is painful, love is not smooth, they do not reflect on their own reasons, but blame fate, saying that fate is unpredictable. It's like a child tripping, not careless, but hitting a stool and calling it in the way.

In modern society, love and marriage are independent and protected by law. In general, the failure of love and marriage is related to the personality of both parties except for a few cases such as malignant diseases and disasters. If personality and living habits are incompatible, rational breakup is also a way under the unchangeable circumstances; If you lack mature mind and the art of love, you should make up for it as soon as possible. There is a reason for bad love. Finding the real reason is the right way, not complaining about fate and fate.

(7) Find a person who loves you and forget the person you love.

In this sentence, the person who loves you and the person you love are definitely not the same person. "I'd rather find someone who loves you" is actually quite practical, just accepting and not paying. I just haven't heard that people who live a divided life will be happy. Moreover, it seems that love is not entirely business. If the profit is greater than the cost, it will be earned. On the contrary, love itself is happier than being loved. Psychologist Fromm said in his famous Art of Love: "Good love is first of all' giving' rather than' getting', because' giving' is happier than' getting', and' giving' is not a sacrifice, but a manifestation of' wealth' and' vitality'." Just like the poor are sad, not only because they are poor, but also because they are deprived of the ability to "pay".

It's sad enough to just love and not be loved, but isn't it selfish and cruel to put this sadness on the person who loves you? When I was in college, a classmate stole his own bike, so he stole someone else's car to make up for it. As a result, more people were stolen. This is a sad domino, because the first one fell, and everyone fell.

Inability in love is an epidemic in modern society. If you can really love someone and really suffer for love, then congratulations, your body and mind are sound, and your pain is not the world's loveless despair. Not being loved cannot be forced, but the ability to love first is worthy of blessing.

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten! ~

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Women must remember 2 1 love proverbs all their lives.

1. People will encounter countless times of love in this life, and choosing the one that suits them best from these countless times is the right way.

The first man teaches you romantic feelings, and the last man gives you eternal love. Women, what is most worth cherishing is the last man, not the first one.

3. Girls who are in love are often acting school, but they can pretend to be as cold as ice when they obviously like it. You think this is to win the initiative for yourself, but this kind of performance will only make your beloved boy run away.

In marriage, feelings are more real than love.

5. Love may be like this. Everyone has their own notes, but they can never enter each other's world.

6. Extramarital affairs can be a romantic story, but divorce is a painful accident.

7. Charming women are not all beautiful, just as beautiful women are not all charming.

8. Home is a place to nourish women's essence, and also a place to vent women's blood. If a woman regards her home as the only battlefield in her life, it is not far from dying.

9. There are many good men, but few men are determined to live with you. Don't give up easily if you can meet them.

10. Living in this world and being needed is the greatest happiness!

1 1. Woman, if you are not impulsive when facing problems, love will not be passive! 2 1 Love proverbs that women must remember.

12. Pay attention to those girls who claim to be hurt: he refused you, not because he was too good, but because he was not good enough. What doesn't belong to him is never the best!

13. There has never been a perfect man who is completely loyal to you, let alone a perfect marriage. Accepting repeated blows and learning to forget repeated injuries is a wise marriage strategy!

14. A good reputation is a woman's most respectable dowry.

15. A confident woman will always give the green light.

16. Only a strong woman can have a strong destiny!

17. A woman who is honest with everything, including her own mistakes, will eventually win attention!

18. Love is a matter of two people, and love is a matter of one person. If you are lovelorn, you can continue to love him until you fall in love with someone else. Actually, it's only been about a year.

19. There are many fish in the sea. This is not just a man's business!

20. You will never meet a few people you really like in your life. This retreat, maybe there will be no chance in my life. Happiness in the world ultimately belongs to those who take the initiative to attack!

2 1. In the face of love, a woman's shelf should not be too low. Sticking to a man who has rejected you will only increase his contempt for you.

Love uses the classic quotations of love for a lifetime.

1. If you really love someone, you should try to make him happy. He is happy, you are happy, and then both sides have passion.

2. Women should learn to dress themselves up, don't use simplicity as a shield, don't use housework as an excuse, and a woman who doesn't understand fashion is not complete.

No matter how old you are, no matter how urged by your family and friends, don't treat marriage casually. Marriage is not playing cards, shuffling cards will cost you a lot.

4. Do you love him? Love tells him why he should hide the pain of missing in his heart. Afraid of appearance, status and identity mismatch? Don't be afraid, it is beautiful to love someone.

It doesn't matter to fall in love with a person with many different living habits. Be careful when getting married. Think about whether you can tolerate each other's differences for a long time.

6. Some people say that finding someone you like in love and finding someone you like in marriage are all one-sided. Lovers don't like themselves. What is there to love? My wife doesn't like how to live.

7. Don't fall in love because of loneliness. Time is the devil. If you are an affectionate person, you will have feelings even if you don't love each other. What will you do in the end?

8. Don't give up pursuing your plan because your looks are not as good as each other. Appearance is only a temporary impression, and the real decision on whether to combine depends mainly on the personalities of both sides. I've seen handsome guys with ugly girls, and there are too many ugly girls with handsome guys.

9. Don't get married for responsibility. You know, marrying someone who doesn't love them is the most irresponsible. Even if you let the other person feel sad at that time, it is better than letting him feel sad for several years or even for a lifetime.

10. Love can last as long as possible. This has at least two advantages: first, enjoy the pleasure of love for as long as possible, and the feeling of marriage and love is very different. Second, the longer you get along with each other, the more you can test whether you are sincere or not, and the more you can see whether your personality is compatible. In this way, the feelings after marriage will be much stronger.

1 1. Men are not bad, but women don't love them. This kind of bad does not mean cruelty, selfishness and ruthlessness. Of glib words, sweet words. Generally, a good man thinks that saying sweet nothings is a frivolous expression, so he doesn't want to do it. It's wrong to say that to others, but be glib with your wife. Why can't you be a man with a good heart and a smooth mouth?

12. It is said that marriage is the grave of love, because before I got married, I was already on my way to the grave. Even if you don't get married, you will break up at the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?

13. A woman who can only read is a dictionary. No matter how good things are, people will only see them when they need them. A woman who can only dress up is just a vase, and she will look like that for a long time. Dressing up beautifully is a necessary condition to be a good woman, not a necessary condition. You need to read more books. In this way, you will find life better.

14. Dull is true, yes, but it should be dull after passion, passion and dullness. Passion should appear alternately in waves. What's the point of living a dull and passionate life? As long as you really love him, you will have passion until you die.

15. basically no one is right or wrong about emotional matters. When he (she) wants to leave you, there is always something you can't satisfy him. Looking back on the past days together is always beautiful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional liars, whose sweet words are completely aimed at defrauding each other and sleeping with themselves. Such people are still very few.

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17. It is wrong to get married hastily. Never divorce hastily again. Try it first, it's really not good, and it's not too late to leave.

18. It is often said that masculinity means femininity. Do you know what masculinity and femininity are? Masculinity means being open-minded and brave, while femininity means being gentle and considerate.

19. What is charm? Charm does not lie in beauty. Beautiful women may not attract me, but I like dignified and elegant women. So you don't have to worry about not being beautiful enough.

20. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. Why? Not because he (she) is beautiful or handsome, nor because what he (she) can't get is good, but because when he (she) just fell in love, he (she) was naive and didn't have any selfish ideas, only knowing to love each other with all his (her) resources. And the love in the future is not so pure. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. It is her that we long for.

22. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men become bad, but men who have money become bad, even if they have no money, are not much better.

Whether a man can give you a sense of security lies not in his height at all, but in his high heart. I have met many tall and timid men. I've seen short and high-spirited men. You have to be proud to be a man. Of course, the premise is to be talented.

24. Is it forever? Of course there is! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they haven't found the one that suits them best in their life journey. That is, the one who is destiny takes a hand. Why can't you find it? The vast sea of people, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? You may find destiny takes a hand at 40, but can you wait until you are 40? I couldn't find it in my twenties, so I had to get married. I found it in my thirties and forties, but I had to give it up. This is the sorrow of life.

25. Why do you seldom see the legendary everlasting and touching love story in your life? Because such feelings are precious, are precious things so beautiful? Do gold and diamonds look good?

Classic quotations that change a woman's life

1. If you have money, get a driver's license and buy a car. When you need to go out, you can stop bowing to a man, even if that man is your husband.

2. Don't die for love, treat love as a luxury: dispensable.

3, really like a dress, don't care about money, buy it. You'd better give away the clothes that haven't been touched for three seasons in the closet.

If someone praises you for being young and beautiful, please don't be complacent except thank you.

5. Buy insurance for yourself and your car. This contract is a little more reliable than the marriage certificate.

6, at least one high-end handbag, there is always enough money (card), a bottle of high-end brand skin cream, a spare mobile phone battery, driver's license and driving license.

7. Keep exercising every day. If possible, practice yoga.

8. Don't accept charity from any man.

9. Prepare a thick coat and an umbrella in the car.

10. Praise from colleagues is like perfume-no matter how expensive it is, you can only smell it.

1 1, don't drink too much on any occasion, drunken men are used to it, and drunken women will be regarded as a laughing stock.

12, smile sincerely, don't be afraid of wrinkles. At this age, elegance is more important than beauty.

13. When you meet your ex-boyfriend, please reach out and let him know that you don't care for a long time.

14. If your ex-boyfriend asks how you are doing, please answer "Fine".

15, if you can't smoke, you'd better stop studying. Forty years old is the high incidence of cancer, and it is also the key period of health and longevity.

16. Answer anyone's phone and say "Hello". They can hear your smile.

17. If you are divorced, you'd better not remarry hastily in order to find a man. If it is not for love, hasty marriage is more terrible than being single.

18, don't trade your health for anything!

19, a woman's greatest success is to run a good family, and then run a business if her family and marriage fail.

20. Don't care too much about other people's comments: it doesn't matter if some people envy you, some people envy you and some people look down on you. They are all outsiders. Live high, for your loved ones.

2 1, it's best not to judge others behind their backs, and only say good things if necessary.

22, you can have a few friends of the opposite sex, but it is best not to make your wife jealous.

23. Don't ask God for the Bodhisattva-the Bodhisattva said that it is better to ask others than to ask yourself. When there is no way out, it is better to be strong than to succumb to fate.

24, do a gynecological examination every year, no disease, early treatment.

25. Cherish the people around you-even if they just cook and wash dishes for you.

If you have the opportunity and time, please read some good books. Accumulate slowly, and there will always be gains.

27, don't show off sexy-the most attractive thing for women of this age is intellectuality and elegance.

28. Don't force a man to lie at any time, he will hate you; Knowing that he lied to you, you will hate him. Look at the flowers in the fog, don't be too serious.

29. If you don't have the talent to make decisions, please don't try to be someone else's mistress. Even if you are as clever as a scheming superman, there will be moments when you cover up one lie after another.

30. Even if you don't have a chance to wear it, you'd better have an evening dress-even if you enjoy it by candlelight on your wedding anniversary. Romance can't be eaten as a meal, only occasionally.

3 1, you must buy high-end underwear.

Don't wear socks with holes at any time-you need to take off your shoes and step on the carpet on many occasions.

33, have time to take some art photos to keep the shadow of youth, even if it is a little fake, but it is you after all.

34. Sleep seven hours a day.

35. Keep in touch with close friends, and have at least two friends who talk about everything.

Travel at least once a year!

37. Love life, love maintenance, be a high-quality woman, and always be exquisite.