Some people say that the reality is beautiful, as long as you pay, there will always be a return. Some people say that reality is cruel, it will crush your dreams and make you the last person you want to be. But in fact, reality has no attributes. You always think you see through him, only to find that you know nothing about him in the end. To see the reality clearly, we must first see ourselves clearly, know what we want and what we lack, so as to set a goal for ourselves and work hard in this direction.
Many people warn young people that it is a blessing to lose money when they first enter society, and they can learn more when they are tired, but in fact, this sentence has no meaning, and losing money is never a blessing. If you must lose money, you must also measure it. What can you get in the process of losing money And what you get is what you want? It's unrealistic to keep your nose to the grindstone and wait for others to reward your efforts. What you learn may not be useful to you, but it will make you farther and farther away from your ideal.
Young people in their twenties have plenty of time to try and find the part that suits them best. But this time is the most important time to lay the foundation for your life. You can change jobs and learn a lot, but you must not be blind. You don't need to have a long-term vision to see the social changes in 20 years, but what you have learned will make you rely on it in 20 years. You have a skill in your hand to ensure food and clothing so that you won't become confused.
Many people have passed through their twenties, but by the time they are thirty, they find that they have no idea what they want to do. They never think that time can give us so much oppression, and sometimes they even wonder if there would be another scene if they made another choice a few years ago. But life has no chance to start over. If you feel confused, you can only learn to find your own direction from now on, and this time is a watershed, which determines mediocrity or success. If you give up and start to go with the flow, you will be precipitated by life, and your brave climbing will leave at least a moment of elegance. You will find that even if you wanted to lose something, the result was not unbearable, and everything in the world was difficult to solve.
If you have a life plan in your early twenties, you will find that life is not necessarily beautiful, but you will never lack direction. When you get used to the rhythm of this pursuit, it will become your instinct. Even if you are 50 years old, you will not be dragged down by real life.
In your twenties, you should realize that not everyone can succeed in business, but making money is really not the whole success. On the one hand, you should accumulate wealth for your life, but on the other hand, wealth can't buy the life you want, so you should find a balance point and do your best when you are struggling, but you must not give up the pursuit of a better life because of these.
In my twenties, I must cultivate a hobby and let myself have a harbor of spiritual sustenance regardless of pain and happiness. This is your world. Maybe after many years, it can only be a feeling, but when it still belongs to you, it can help you relieve stress. More and more people are becoming mediocre. They don't like going out, they just like staying at home, but when they are at home, they do nothing. Once they get off work, they lie in bed and eat until they die, but they always complain at work and have no time to rest. This is because you don't have a hobby, and your life has become a job, but work can't give you spiritual enjoyment. At this time, either turn yourself into a workaholic or give yourself a reason to indulge and do something you really like. And the cultivation of this hobby must be early, and the age of 20 is just right.