There are some regrets in life that you can't understand.

1. No matter what you are looking for, family, friendship or love, in fact, you will be alone all your life. Few people can really know themselves like you, even relatives, friends or lovers. They can only help you understand yourself. Your only task in life is to find yourself.

People who don't know how to love themselves cannot love others. Sometimes, pity is not love, connivance is not love, and the correct love is to combine rigidity with softness, be strict when lazy, hug when crying, encourage when cowardly, and be a street lamp in the dark. Love is the wind that makes kites fly, the dew that reunites after a long separation in the desert, the trees planted on the Gobi Desert, the birds flying in the storm, and the kite string that you are willing to let go. Correct love will not make anyone suffer, but will only make your spirit and heart go further and stand higher in any weather.

Sometimes the biggest harm comes from the people closest to you, but you should remember that you are fine, just be yourself, don't resent, don't become a nuisance, and don't always get stuck in a strange circle. The best response to injury is: let the injury end with me. Let the injury come to me not by biting my teeth and swallowing it into my stomach, but by my ability to digest and leave, accumulate my desire for a better future, transcend my resentment against the past, stop persistent accusations and spend no money, and endure the pain to erase and start over. Understand the roots of the past, dispel the pain of the past and get rid of this strange circle. I don't care about fairness, I have the determination to forget everything and the courage to leave and start a new life.

There are only a few years in life when you can really change yourself effectively. Cherish opportunities, especially when you are young, such as studying.

Everyone's life has snowed, try to clean their own eaves, understand the hardships of others, and forgive the occasional indifference. No one is a superman who never tires. But if possible, try to be a person who can warm others. This feeling is also very good.

6. Sometimes you can be selfish, you don't have to be strong, you can cry, you can do anything that others can't understand to vent your troubles (don't break the law), and remember to start when you have a good rest.

7. Many achievements, big achievements and small achievements, are all harvested in pain, frustration and difficulties. It's normal that you can't grow up just by doing simple things.

8. Pay attention to health and live well. It is not easy to come to earth.

9. Don't flinch when you are afraid. I suggest you face the difficulties. If you are a child and get beaten at school, you must beat me back on the spot, but the counterattack should be appropriate and not too heavy. Even if you can't beat him, he will think twice next time. He won't even think about it if you don't fight back.

10. I believe that as long as you believe, many things will come naturally. Belief is an ability.

1 1. If you are in love, if you are lovelorn, that's nothing. You've still been in love many times, and you've been lovelorn many times. Don't feel lucky to have been in love once. Talk about it once, and you will see your best self. If you say it a hundred times, you will find it very good. Love is not charity. When you find yourself more and more blurred and lose yourself, when someone makes you know yourself more and more, love yourself and look forward to the future, just like the sentence "iseeyou" in Avatar, being seen is true love. This button is like open sesame. When you see it, you can see yourself, I can see you, and you can see myself. When you see yourself, many doubts are naturally solved. All the incomprehension and loneliness in the past disappeared like melted snow, turned into water and began to nourish everything.

12. Stay awake at all times and be objective when awake. Please always be your teacher, friend, lover, relative and even enemy, and say iamagood girl/boy to yourself every day. Looking back on your past, you don't deserve this name? You never give up on yourself, fall down and get up again. Even if I fall down occasionally, I still live awkwardly and seriously. You heal your wounds and lick your scars, and you also bring some beauty to others. You are moving towards the unknown future all the time. You are so brave and strong, although you are timid, but without those persistence and courage, you would not have the opportunity to read my words, or even live to this day, so

13. Let go of the past. The past you have disappeared, and now you are a brand-new soul. If you care too much about the traces of the past, you are wasting the present. Please let go of the past, let go of all the good and bad, let the past really pass, don't blame the past people, don't blame yourself in the past, we are all living for the first time, and no one knows what life will be like before we live. Please let the past go, not only now, but also in the future, never.