Family instruction and family education, as microcosmic carriers of inheriting Chinese civilization, have a subtle influence on people's hearts. To this end, I recommend some family training and tutoring experience to you, and welcome your reference.

On June 8-13, combined with the "two studies and one doing" study and education, the office branch of Yuhang Branch of Provident Fund organized and carried out the activities of learning Zheng Yimen's family rules, rectifying them, establishing them and strictly tutoring them, which effectively strengthened the construction of family rules in party member.

First, party member studied alone. Party member learned Zheng Yimen's family style in an open way, and talked about his feelings in combination with his own family style, so as to improve the overall understanding of the importance of family style. Most families contain the family style and inheritance of ordinary people, such as courtesy, thrift, hard work, respect and tolerance, and advocating courtesy and housekeeping.

Second, the department focuses on learning. The heads of various departments took the lead in discussing Zheng Yimen's family style. Only by improving self-cultivation and managing the family well can we serve the country better. Compared with party member's self-study, the Central Organization Department is more about the discussion of clean government.

Third, continue to study in depth. With the help of this activity, the branch incorporated family education into the cultural construction of the sub-center and gradually became an important part of the cultural life of the provident fund; Always pay attention to the education of family style and family rules, keep in mind that family and everything are prosperous, pay attention to the promotion of family style to political style and study style, create a good atmosphere, and consolidate the foundation of diligence and clean government.

This activity made party member re-examine the importance of rules. As Zheng Lian said, it is not difficult to obey the rules when being supervised, but it is difficult for a person not to be tempted and adhere to ethics when there is no supervision. We should turn rules into self-discipline, never forget our own initiative, and carry forward the party's fine traditions and work style.

Mencius said, "If you don't obey the rules, you won't be Fiona Fang." In other words, to be a man must follow certain rules, to be an official must abide by moral standards, to keep the bottom line, to avoid stepping on the red line and touching the high-voltage line, and to be a good official who is pragmatic, clean and honest for the people, satisfied with the leaders and supported by the people. Recently, the Organization Department of the county party committee issued a document asking party member cadres to write articles on family rules and laws. Combining with my family, family style and family rules, and comparing with Zhou Enlai's "Ten Rules of Family Rules", this paper talks about my experience and understanding of establishing family rules.

My family and I, one is the main person in charge of the department and the other is the deputy cadre of the unit. Over the years, the family rules and customs that both husband and wife abide by have been established: being innocent, doing things in a down-to-earth manner, not abusing power for personal gain and leaving no excuses.

In my opinion, establishing family rules and regulations is not a form, let alone a superficial article. It is important to take the lead in setting an example of innocence, sureness, selflessness and respect for discipline for family members with their own practical actions. I have worked in the Civil Affairs Bureau for more than five years. I have never intervened in the bidding of the bureau, nor have I ever secretly involved my relatives and friends. All of them are operated by the leading group of material procurement and engineering demonstration of our bureau. In the work of special care and resettlement, disability adjustment and disability assessment, and urban and rural subsistence allowances, I have never greeted or talked to an unqualified object.

I think family style and family rules are linked together. As a leading cadre in party member, establishing good family rules and styles is the fundamental requirement for actively adapting to the new normal of strictly administering the Party in an all-round way and promoting the "two responsibility" to take root. Be an official for a while, but be a man for a lifetime. Money is very important, but money is not everything, and morality must be noble. Zhou Enlai was clean and spotless all his life. He is strict with himself, tolerant to others, hard and simple, and does not seek personal gain for himself, his family and his subordinates by taking power. His moral integrity is admired by the world and has become a model for the whole party and people all over the country. He always used the ruler of "Ten Family Rules" to regulate himself, restrain himself and regulate the behavior of his family, leaving a precious spiritual wealth for our leading cadres in party member and setting a shining example for our leading cadres in party member.

I think it is still a responsibility to establish family rules and correct family style. Some leading cadres in party member hold high positions, so it is particularly important to use their power correctly and manage their families, children and staff around them. To this end, we must have a sense of responsibility. It is an old saying to be an official and benefit one party, but I have also learned a new truth from this old saying: a leading cadre in party member, facing the new situation and the new normal, must regard that department and unit as his home if he wants to manage it well, and the good family style and rules of this "home" are more important and should be established. Such as standardized human, financial and material management system, service commitment system, party style and clean government construction system, soft environment construction evaluation system; Constantly establish and improve the discipline of commuting, the construction of office style, and the annual assessment system. Because such "family style" and "family rules" are directly related to the quality of the party's style of work in this unit and department, and to the cause of the party and the rise and fall of this department and unit.

The good family style and rules in our family will last forever. Although it is not written on paper or posted on the wall, it will always appear in the hearts of our husband and wife. I am determined to think about myself every day, wake up every day, and strive to be a civil affairs cadre with good family discipline and good family style, which is trusted by the party and the people.

Since 2065438+2006, Yuyao City Commission for Discipline Inspection has taken "keeping the family clean and honest, and consciously establishing a good family style" as the concrete action for party member, actively carried out the activities of "establishing family rules, rectifying family style, and building a clean Yuyao", and strived to build the party member, the vast organ of the city, taking the lead in practicing good family rules, and families and schools actively advocated the cultivation of good family style and the whole society.

Family planning education is the key to highlight the "minority" of cadres. Take the education of family rules as an important part of the study plan of Regulations and Guidelines, the education and training courses for cadres, the organizational life day in party member and the construction of institutional culture, and actively guide party member cadres to correctly understand the organic unity of "home country" and "rules and discipline" and inherit the development relationship. Refine the "Three-Character Classics" of Yuyao organ party member in the new period, guide the vast number of organs party member to learn the ideological and moral concepts of "filial piety, loyalty, courtesy, honesty and shame" advocated in our traditional family rules, and earnestly practice the code of conduct of "clean politics, clean use of power, clean self-cultivation and clean family style". In party member, activities such as searching for excellent family rules, ancestral training and family training were carried out, and party member, especially leading cadres, were asked to set rules for family members, and party member and every institution were encouraged to write a family training in person as a criterion for family management. Take family rules education as an important part of strengthening ideological and moral quality education and anti-corruption education in party member, fully tap the good family rules behind the typical example of cadres in party member, a nearby organ, deeply analyze the lessons of "family-style corruption" and "corruption of people around them" in case investigation, and guide party member, a general organ, to attach importance to family education, establish good family rules and pass on family training by combining positive learning with negative warning.

Inherit family rules and give play to the role of family "subject". Firmly grasp "home" as the main carrier of family rules, build "good family style demonstration sites" in administrative villages, communities, schools and families in the city, set up a special topic on "family style" on TV stations, and organize the collection activities of "20 tips for family education, 20 cases of good family training, 20 cases of frugality and 20 cases of the most touching family stories". Set up the website "Yuyao Good Family Style" to display excellent family style, traditional family style and the touching stories behind it in an all-round way by looking for good family training, publicizing good family style and showing good family. Up to now, more than 3,000 excellent family rules and regulations of Yuyao local historical figures, revolutionary martyrs and contemporary celebrities have been collected. On this basis, Yao Jiang's traditional excellent family rules and family training activities were carried out among the family members of leading cadres in party member, and the anti-corruption reminder education was extended to the people around leading cadres in party member by issuing the proposal of "Promoting Family Rules, Rejecting Corruption and Keeping Happiness" and reading excellent family rules and family training. We will carry out in-depth education on the theme of "nurturing honesty with children", organize young people to learn Wang Yangming's family rules in the first class, compile and distribute honesty-themed teaching materials such as "Four Colors in Red" and "My Heart is Bright", send lecturers of traditional honesty concepts to the campus, and create a youth honesty calligraphy and painting competition to guide young people to inherit and carry forward excellent traditional culture and promote the development of a good family style.

Carry forward family rules and pay attention to the popularization of the "majority" of citizens. Carry out the sorting and excavation of the integrity elements of Yuyao traditional family rules and family instructions, collect and sort out the excellent family rules and family instructions and integrity stories of Yuyao historical celebrities represented by the "four sages", and compile the book Selected Works of Yaojiang Excellent Traditional Family Instructions, which includes Kai Family Instructions, Siming Huang Genealogy, Four Xie Family Instructions, Yaojiang Family Instructions and so on. Open a column of "Yaojiang Traditional Family Style" on relevant media platforms, and upload audio-visual materials such as "Wang Yangming's Family Rules and Family Instructions" and "Yuyao Celebrity Family Rules and Family Instructions Stories" on electronic platforms to publicize the excellent traditional family style to the public. Promote the construction of "one museum and five bases", that is, the "one museum" adds an exhibition hall for Yuyao celebrities' family rules and family training in Yuyao Celebrity Hall, focusing on displaying Yuyao celebrities' excellent family rules and family training and related stories; The "five bases" are to upgrade the five municipal anti-corruption cultural and educational bases in Yuyao, integrate the elements of family rules and family training, and create a fine line for on-site teaching of anti-corruption culture. At the same time, select a number of villages and communities with profound cultural heritage and good rural customs throughout the city, as well as schools, enterprises and grass-roots stations that pay attention to ideological and moral education and have a certain working foundation as demonstration sites for good family customs construction, and comprehensively promote the construction of village rules, school rules and factory rules.

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