Lunch break at noon, the phone rang, and it was her again.

It's been almost three years since she bid farewell to the life of a housewife. She still can't forget the ruthless abandonment of her ex-husband three years ago, forcing her to learn to return to society and live independently for the first time.

Find a job, pay the rent, and separate from the children.

With this resentment, she changed her laziness, worked, didn't fish for three days and dried the net for two days, and became very bitter. She made a down payment on the house and took out a loan to buy a small room.

It won't kill me. Her ex-husband didn't see her fall into depression, but she got better and better, which made her very lost.

I heard that my ex-husband remarried and didn't answer her phone. Even if she changed her cell phone to make a phone call, he heard her voice and hung up immediately.

This cold treatment made her very angry. Sometimes, she will call me and tell me her troubles.

At first, I patiently enlightened her, and people around me were willing to help her.

She told over and over again how her ex-husband treated her badly in the past and won everyone's sympathy.

However, one can't always live in the sympathy of others!

Over time, she repeated the pain of the past like Xianglinsao, and the people around her became ruthless.

As one of her close friends, I was the last listener to leave.

I encouraged her to start her life again many times. She always talks about the past. She can talk about it for over an hour.

In her conversation, her disgust for him is everywhere and lingering.

How deep is it to blame a person? Spend the rest of your life?

Everyone has a confused heart. If you hold hands with the wrong person, should you waste all your time for him?

Maybe I can't understand it when I'm away, but I'm fed up with being in a good mood and being splashed with smelly water from time to time-it's a kind of physical and mental torture to accompany someone to recall unpleasant experiences repeatedly.

Their divorce was not sudden. From the first year of marriage, their living habits and values are too different. As a result of the flash marriage, the two people soon found it inappropriate, and both strongly urged the other party to change according to their own wishes, but neither gave in first.

In marriage, there is no doubt that whoever has stronger economic strength will have more choices. People who have no financial resources can only endure the gradual alienation of each other.

They started with the financial AA system, and she had to find a way out to do some work to support herself.

The child was sent back to the man's hometown, and it was useless to make her cry.

Sick to death, I rely on my family to take money to go to the hospital for treatment, regardless of my husband's family.

There is no communication, no understanding, no help between them. When they open their mouths, they quarrel. She had insomnia all night, so she called someone she knew.

Before her divorce, I acted as her telephone receiver for more than a year, witnessing a newly married couple who had no common language, from the hot war to the cold war until they broke up.

She spent two years in a daze about whether to divorce and what to do after divorce, recalling the fact that she had been divorced for three years.

In her eyes, marriage is terrible. She spreads her fears and anger to people who feel the same way, so she has a group of friends who are sympathetic to her.

All the contradictions in marriage are infinitely magnified by her, so why not love!

During that time, my family also had problems. Her heart and eyes seem to have grown on me, and her men and in-laws seem to have turned into my family. I always miss her hatred and want to get back the pleasure of revenge from home.

I was supposed to comfort her, but I gradually became her role, full of hostility towards men, marriage and her.

I am a woman with a stable job and other social circles. A close friend had counseling. She advised me to leave the negative circle as soon as possible without "immunity". As long as anyone carries negative energy, I will lead her out of the social circle.

After six months of adjustment, I restrained myself from reading negative reports and discussing things with pessimists.

She called me, which is a cliche. It used to feel natural. Now, I have realized that we are not the same value group, we can't sing, but we are beginning to dislike it.

If she continues to suffer, I'm afraid I can only do so.

Disgruntled wives carry the virus, but they seem to be very strong and hardworking. In fact, they support their ambition of success with hatred. Their self-improvement and women's self-reliance are two different things.

She made new friends. She is a woman who, like her, grew up with a single parent and is insecure about marriage. Seeing their intensive mutual praise and encouragement, I can't help thinking of the first time I saw her.

We are all children who grew up in single-parent families, and similar perspectives make us have endless topics.

We grew up feeling inferior and distrustful. When we grow up, we are very vigilant and often lose people who want to be close to us.

I have realized that before I doubt others, only by trusting others first can we give both sides a chance to win.

In this world, we are not independent individuals and need relatives, friends and lovers. Caring for each other and managing the relationship between circles can bring fun to life.

I don't want to live with a grudge against anyone. I hope the whole world is the person I want to associate with. I don't want to be with anyone, and I don't want to hate anyone together.

If resentment is too tired, just let it go.

I hope this process can pass quickly, and fate will make people understand what is worth and what is not.