If you want to do well and go far, you must have "altruistic thinking"
People who blindly ask for things usually end badly because they violate the laws of natural development.
The natural law of evolution is to achieve the overall optimum, rather than trying to realize one's own wishes. We often say, "Only by following the trend can we achieve steady and long-term progress." Following the trend is exactly the trend of this law. For example:
Human beings protect the earth's environment, reduce environmental pollution, and improve their living environment, and human beings benefit from this. On the contrary, if you pollute the environment for production, although you can make large profits in the short term, everyone knows the ultimate impact of environmental pollution.
The company’s employees put the company’s interests first. As the company gets better and better, employee welfare benefits will naturally increase. On the contrary, every employee of the company seeks their own selfish interests. The company goes downhill, goes bankrupt, and lays off employees. In the end, it is the employees themselves who suffer the backlash.
Helping others will naturally gather more popularity. No matter what you do, you will always meet noble people. There is a positive flywheel of growth, and I am getting smoother and smoother. On the other hand, if no one pays attention to you, it will naturally be unhappy.
Altruists value long-term interests and are willing to help others and provide value to others, and those who provide value to others will eventually receive rewards.
Wang Yangming also put forward the idea of ??altruism:
Benefiting oneself will lead to survival, and benefiting others will last long.
This is an expression of altruistic thinking.
The essence of altruistic thinking is to win. Li Ka-shing, Asia's richest man, once said: "Before cooperation, you must be prepared to suffer losses and let the other party get more. Only then can the cooperation between the two parties be long-term. If everyone wants to take advantage, there is no possibility of a win-win situation." So we can look back and see if the unresolved problems we usually face are because we care too much about our own interests and ignore the other party?