We often hear the lament that "it's hard to be a good person, it's hard to be a good person", and we often feel the realization of "be a person first, do things later". It can be seen that being a human being is not a small problem, but a big problem. It is a required course in everyone's life.
There are two things in life: one is to be a human being, and the other is to do things. Although there are no certain rules and standards for being a human being, there are certain general principles and there must be its own techniques and rules. I can only talk about some small truths and big tips here.
1. Be an ambitious person
Mao Zedong once said, "If you are confident that your life will last two hundred years, you will swim three thousand miles into the water."
Napoleon also once said "A soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier."
These famous quotes tell us that we should have faith and confidence as a person. Faith is the beacon that guides us to success, and self-confidence is the driving force to reach the pinnacle of life. A good future comes from self-improvement, self-reliance, and self-confidence. Don’t give up until you reach your goal. Don’t let go. It is often not others but yourself who fail you. Don’t regard one failure as the final judgment of life. Escape is cowardly, avoidance is passive, and retreating appears even more incompetent. The road to success must be forged by oneself. There are confusions in life and difficulties in doing things. Nothing in the world is smooth sailing, only strong confidence and perseverance. A man establishes himself in the world, makes his own decisions, is not afraid of failure, and never gives up.
When you succeed, don’t get drunk. When you fail, don’t be discouraged. Don’t blame others and worry about others. Facing the hurdles of “mountains and rivers”, you can only move forward courageously, persevere, and use confidence to overcome all difficulties. If you want to achieve something in your career, you must be willing to do big things and take on difficult tasks. You must set an ambition and set a goal. Only then will your life have a direction. Where the heart is, there is the road. Only with ambition can you have the ability, courage and courage to be a human being. Therefore, as a person, you need to ask where your ambition is and whether you have confidence.
2. Be a kind person
“In the beginning, human beings are inherently good.” Kindness is the warmest, most beautiful, and most touching ray of humanity. Not everyone may be successful in life, and not everyone may be a hero, but they must be kind and kind. Kindness is the way to harmony and beauty. Only when your heart is filled with compassion and kindness can you move and warm the world. Without kindness, there is no inner peace, and there is no peace and beauty in the world. Love is a basic kind emotion. When we meet a beggar, we give him some money. When we meet the old, weak, sick, and pregnant women, we take the initiative to give up our seat. When we meet a lost child, we send him home and give him guidance. direction. A smile, a simple action, and a heartfelt greeting are not difficult for us to do, but they may help others get out of trouble. All people and all things are connected. When you give to others, you are actually benefiting yourself. When you hurt another life, you are actually hurting yourself. The so-called kindness is nothing more than having a great love and compassion, not harming others, not saying anything, and not lying to others. With a kind character, there is the basis and possibility to truly love your parents, others, and nature. A kind person is like a bright light, which not only illuminates the people around him, but also warms himself. Kindness does not need to be instilled or forced, it will only infect and spread to each other. Therefore, a person does not necessarily have to be upright and vigorous, but he must be kind and sincere. Therefore, as a person, you have to ask if you want to be kind.
3. Be an educated person