1, Equality: In interpersonal communication, we must first adhere to the principle of equality. Whether official or individual, there is no distinction between high and low. We must communicate like friends in order to make deep friends. Don't feel inferior because of short working hours, lack of experience and poor economic conditions, and don't be arrogant because you are a college graduate and young and beautiful.
2. Credit: Communication is inseparable from credit. Credit is a person's honesty, integrity and trustworthiness. As the old saying goes, "A promise is worth a thousand dollars, and a promise is worth a thousand dollars". Now there is an honest principle. Don't promise easily. Once you make a promise, you must work hard to realize it, so that you will not break your promise. Between friends, what you say must be done, what you do must be done, neither humble nor overbearing, dignified but not too boastful, modest but not artificial, not condescending, nor contemptuous of inferior people.
3, compatibility: "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" often appears such a sentence: can not tolerate people. It means that there is no room for outstanding people who are better than themselves. We should not only associate with people who are similar to ourselves, but also with people with opposite personalities, seeking common ground while reserving differences and learning from each other's strengths. If you are a leader, you should also be able to tolerate subordinates who are better than yourself.
4. Tolerance: it is manifested in not haggling over unprincipled issues, being able to repay evil with good, and being tolerant and generous. Misunderstandings and contradictions often occur in interpersonal communication. In today's society, everyone has a strong personality, and in the process of communication, friction and different opinions will inevitably arise. This requires us not to haggle over every ounce in our communication, but to be modest, generous, restrained and patient, regardless of each other's attitude and words. Correctly use perceptual thinking and rational thinking to be a person with high emotional intelligence.
The last and most important point is perseverance. Persistence means perseverance and persistence forever.