Jobs didn't mean that; She deliberately misinterpreted it. Jobs meant not to be stubborn, to be flexible, and to fight for his own ideals. And your ex-girlfriend just found an unreasonable reason to lie to her. In fact, the reason she said is not important at all. The important thing is that she betrayed me. You ask what is the sense of responsibility to insist on love? She didn't, at least not yet. To put it bluntly, she used to be with you, just for fun. Women nowadays are better at playing with feelings than men. Even if we get back together, we won't go far, because she doesn't love you at all. So I just want to tell you that she doesn't love you, just playing with you. Also, put it down, or it will hurt. My experience is similar to yours. Never trust her again. This is my advice to you.