After a while, we were just mottled shadows. No one is more special than anyone else, and no one's life is not worthy of respect. On the way of growing up, our life is approaching a fixed end. We know that the true meaning of life is to accept impermanence and normality, accept the painful hospitality of setbacks, still live with hope and see tomorrow ... We are cramped at two o'clock and one line every day, losing too much happiness in life and getting rid of the shackles of spirit. Release the most sincere feelings from the bottom of my heart, cry heartily, laugh heartily, and accept the boat with rough fate. Let's cross today and say goodbye to yesterday. Tonight is the past, tomorrow is the rebirth, thank fate, tomorrow … live happily …
The most important moment in life is always the next moment.
Xi Murong wrote in "Youth is a Too Hasty Book":
"All the endings have been written and all the tears have started, but suddenly I forgot what kind of beginning it was, in that ancient summer that never came back."
Every graduation season in June, we have to say goodbye.
But it seems that we can never face the end of a relationship or a thing with peace of mind.
As a result, I often fall into the predicament of self-pity.
In fact, the meaning of the ending has long been hidden in the concluding remarks of those world famous books we have read.
Every sentence is a classic, and every sentence is real life.
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Anyway, tomorrow is another day.
Margaret mitchell's Gone with the Wind
The Bible says, "Don't worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow has its own worries;" One day's difficulty is enough. "
No one really knows what tomorrow will be like, whether it will be cloudy or sunny.
But that's not important. The important thing is the day after tomorrow and tomorrow.
The road ahead is not so smooth, but more unknown and adventurous.
As long as life is not over, tomorrow is a new beginning.
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As long as you go straight up, the stairs are endless.
At your feet, they are also growing up.
Kafka's lawyer
Some people say that growth is a cruel thing.
On the contrary, I think growth is the most wonderful thing in the world.
Never afraid of losing, never care about winning or losing, so many gorgeous scenery along the way, we must stand on tiptoe and go all out to see it.
Everyone should grow up, which is the only way and the unavoidable way.
Some people may hinder your success, but no one will stop your growth.
People who don't want to grow up can only be dragged forward by reality, and then they are black and blue.
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All human wisdom is contained in these four words:
"Waiting" and "Hope"
Dumas, The Count of Monte Cristo
I once asked a person what "everything is fine" means.
He explained to me that everything must be fine in the end.
The older a person grows, the more afraid he is of returning to zero.
Without the courage to come back, I also exhausted my passionate and persistent self.
Kant said: "As long as this road is right, then nothing should stop me from going along this road."
Isn't life just waiting and hoping?
Setbacks will come and go, and nothing can discourage me, because I still have a long life.
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Go, go, go, go to the earth ...
So, I walked into this world.
Gorky's childhood
When we have to face the world independently, I believe that no one is not confused and not afraid.
Sometimes, you have to learn to take the first step, otherwise you can only live in your own daydream forever.
The world is not as good as you think, but it is not as bad as you think.
All the beauty in the world can only be enjoyed after hard work.
You finally came to this world, so you might as well travel well.
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The light that blinded me,
It's dark for us.
When we are awake,
Dawn is coming, and there will be plenty of time.
The sun is just a morning star.
Walden Lake in Thoreau
Life is a process of constant loss, and pain is always the eternal theme of life.
I like San Mao's sentence very much:
"People are sad because we can't keep the years; What is even more unbearable is that one day, youth will pass away like this. A person's life lies not in the length, but in whether he lives happily. "
As you get older, you understand more and more:
There is nothing perfect in this world, and there is no complete despair in life.
If you have experienced the worst ending of pain, injury and blow, and you can move on as usual, then believe me, you are not far from the life you want.
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This man may never come back,
Maybe come back tomorrow.
Shen Congwen's Border Town
Cai Kangyong said in "Qi Pa Shuo" that he would regard meeting a person as the last time, so every farewell became precious.
I used to think that "life is like the first time" is very beautiful, but later I found that saying "goodbye" is very beautiful.
Eighty percent of people in life have actually seen the last time in this life.
For us, the meaning of parting is to remind me to have a good drink when we meet, and to wave hard when we meet again.
I didn't meet you at the best time, but I met you and had the best time.
Parting is only a temporary parting, and all the past is a preface.
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What I did today,
Far better than what I used to do, getting better and better;
Today I will enjoy the rest of my time,
Better than anything I know.
Dickens' A Tale of Two Cities
He Jiong has a famous saying:
"About tomorrow, there are two possibilities. One is better than today, so be happy today; One is more bitter than the other, so today is more worthy of happiness. "
You should understand that it is a normal state of life to go against your wishes.
Sadness is a day, and happiness is also a day.
Sad people, the past is just a memory, and the future is unknown.
People who can control the present can happily embrace their lives.
I have read such a sentence: "Today is always the tomorrow that people who died yesterday expect."
Yes, as long as we seriously welcome the arrival of each day and then naturally accept the end of each day, there will be unexpected beauty.
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You must never talk about anything with anyone,
I miss everyone when I talk about it.
Salinger's The Catcher in the Rye
It is often said that the best thing in the world can't be called out and has been lost.
People are like this, always thinking about the past, but never answering.
No one is destined to be with anyone for life. You must get used to regret and learn to let go.
If you think too much, you will be tired; If you love too much, your heart will hurt.
Fate is always like this, let those who have no chance miss it and let those who have the opportunity meet it.
One day, you think of someone for no reason. TA once made you look forward to tomorrow, but it never appeared in your tomorrow.
Then there will eventually be someone, and TA will give you a longer company in the years to come, even if TA has never been to your youth.
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Soon, you fell asleep,
When you wake up, you will be,
Part of the new world.
Kafka by the Sea by Haruki Murakami
In each of our lives, there will be a particularly important thing.
It may take us a long time to learn this thing, that is, to know how to turn over a new page in our lives.
Romain rolland said: "When people reach maturity, they should be able to get rid of frivolity and exercise stable rationality. Lucky or unlucky, you can work hard. "
In life, when an event comes, if you don't have the courage to face it and solve it bravely, it will definitely come back.
Real maturity is a process of constantly saying goodbye to the past self.
I died tonight, and I will be born again when I wake up tomorrow.
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Goodbye.
Cervantes' Don Quixote
Life is meeting again and again, and then parting again and again.
Now, you may pass the exam smoothly and face a new life in the future;
Maybe after graduation, I will break into a complex society soon;
Or maybe two people who love each other can't get together in the end. ...
But no matter what outcome you will experience this summer, if you fail, start all over again. If you can't forget it, just smile and put it down.
Let go of yourself, look forward and say goodbye to the past.
Even if life is not beautiful, you may be greeted by all kinds of ups and downs.
It doesn't matter, time is God's best gift to us, and we ourselves will get better day by day.
Because the most important moment in life is always the next moment.