Successful people have more voice and attention. We also love to hear how they succeeded. It seems that after listening to their success lessons, we can avoid taking some detours.

If you apply other people’s success stories to yourself without thinking, you may make more detours.

These success studies are only suitable for themselves, and may not necessarily be suitable for you. You and those successful people may even have different career and life circumstances. Successful people themselves have explored many methods, found a learning method that suits them, and then continuously optimized and adhered to such useful habits, they achieved success.

Don’t blindly imitate them after watching Chenggong Xue. People read 3 hours a day in their spare time, so you read 4 hours a day. If others work overtime until 10 o'clock, you should work overtime until 12 o'clock. When I have free time, I go to the gym to exercise for an hour. You just go to the gym and exercise for 2 hours.

If you do more of anything than others, it seems that your success will be greater than others. But after you try it for a while, it’s very likely that you won’t be able to stick with it for a few days at all, without feedback or motivation. You only care about yourself, without any psychological motivation, just imitating the success of others. This in itself is a difficult thing to stick to.

If you really persevere, it means that you still have a great desire for success. But you will still find that even if you persist for a while, the changes may not be very big. Many people will ask this question, I have obviously worked very hard and made changes, but I have not made much progress at all? I can't help but wrong myself.

In fact, it is easy to pretend to work hard, but it is difficult to concentrate for a long time.

For example, successful people read for three hours a day. During these three hours, they are reading very focused and thinking deeply. You watched it for 4 hours, but only you know how many minutes you focused on watching it during these 4 hours. Some people read books just once, and every year they will summarize how many books they have read this year, and tell others that they have read a lot of poetry and books, which seems to be very powerful. But only you know how much you can remember.

One hour of reading and studying with concentration is much more useful than five hours of pretending to study hard.

For example, there are many students who work hard but never learn well. Some students just memorize things by rote. They don't play and spend all their time studying. But when it comes to exams, they just don't do well. Such children make people feel very sad. Everyone saw that she worked hard, but even if she failed in the exam, some people might label her as stupid.

That’s because it takes a lot of time to study, but less time to really focus on studying. Some children may waste half an hour just looking at the test paper in a daze.

Do you think these children have a hard time? Hard. Did you work hard? Great effort. But you just can’t learn the real thing.

They learn to be perfunctory with teachers, perfunctory with parents, and even more perfunctory with themselves, pretending to study hard. But you can't get through life just by perfunctory. Reality will always slap him hard, trying to wake him up while pretending to be asleep.

These students may not realize it themselves. Where did they make mistakes? In fact, I feel helpless. They have spent all their time studying, but some top academics can still watch TV series and play games without any delay, but they can still get high scores.

If a top student has high concentration, his learning efficiency will naturally be high. They never take much time to impress themselves. They use the results of learning to accept learning. Only when they really understand and master it will they do other things. It may take only half an hour for top academics to learn it, but those ordinary students may not understand it for two hours. Those academic masters can naturally do more things. Now that you have learned it, spending time on studying is really a waste of time.

To learn successfully, you should not just imitate other people’s forms, but also carefully adjust according to your own actual situation or status. Find a learning method that suits you, and then continue to strengthen this method so that you can slowly become more focused.

Don’t let me do what successful people do, and I might become them. You can only learn from their methods, rather than copy them all. This method may really be suitable for those successful people, but it does not mean that it is suitable for you. You cannot become them, and you cannot become anyone else. You will only become yourself.