It is useless to harm others but not yourself, so we should still develop an optimistic attitude. Life is short, and we should work hard to find happiness in our lives.

Accumulating more negative emotions is what we often call negative energy. Negative energy not only fails to allow us to work better, but also produces negative consequences such as negativity, neglect, and laziness. There's definitely no benefit at all. Therefore, we try our best to nip negative emotions in the cradle as soon as they arise.

Complaining will make your interpersonal relationships worse, which means you are less popular.

Your negative emotions may cause you to hurt others unintentionally, especially when people are angry, the words they say are very hurtful. Maybe you really didn’t mean to say that. People tend to speak freely when they are angry, but no matter how many times you say sorry afterwards, you can't undo what you say in the moment.

Complaining will not solve the problem, but will complicate simple things.

It is something that is easy to solve, but if you do it with emotion and complain often, it is likely to make things more complicated. For example, when signing a contract, if you are not proactive and instead complain, the business will collapse.

Complaining will make your colleagues or leaders think you are incompetent, cowardly and incompetent.

Excessive complaints will make others feel that you are not capable enough and are not qualified for the current job, and whether the tasks assigned to you can be completed effectively. If you give your leader such an impression, your job may not be guaranteed.

Being in a negative state for a long time and complaining frequently may also cause damage to body functions.

Long-term depression, high pressure, negativity and dissatisfaction can easily breed some diseases. High blood pressure, gastric ulcers, and sub-health conditions are all very likely to occur.

We should face life positively, don’t be negative, don’t complain, work hard to live the life you want. In fact, what kind of life you want depends entirely on your own decision and your mentality. , with a positive attitude, you will be able to handle things more easily and be happier.