Why should a man worry about not having a wife, lest his career fail?
What should a real man worry about without a wife, lest his career fail? We often hear in movies and TV shows that one person treats another frustrated person or is about to do something to him. People with ambition say in the tone of elders to younger generations: What does a real man have to worry about without a wife? What does this mean? The following is an introduction to what a real man has to worry about without a wife, for fear that his career will fail. What's the worry for a real man if he doesn't have a wife, lest his career fail? 1
First of all, let's talk about the origin of this allusion. This sentence comes from the mouth of Zhao Zilong of Changshan in the Three Kingdoms. What kind of concept is this? It’s almost equivalent to coming from Jack Ma’s mouth. Zhao Yun led troops to capture Guiyang, and the prefect Zhao Fan was forced to surrender. He hosted a banquet for Zhao Yun, and became brothers with Zhao Yun. He even proposed to marry his widowed sister-in-law to Zhao Yun. As a result, Zhao Yun became furious. Am I so worthless? Why should I get a second-married woman? As soon as Zhao Fan saw that the situation was not right, he signaled to Zhao Yun that "he is a special group". However, Zhao Yun noticed that the last "gas-consuming heel" knocked Zhao Fan down, mounted his horse and galloped out of the city. Later, Zhao Fan tried to fake a surrender, but Zhao Yun saw through it and directly wiped out all Zhao Fan's forces in Guiyang. When Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang came to Guiyang, he asked Zhao Yun why he didn't marry that girl. Zhao Yun, without blushing or out of breath, boasted a famous saying that has been passed down through the ages: "Yun'an dares to dethrone the master's important matter with a woman? The world?" There are many women, but if your reputation is not established, why worry about not having a wife? "Actually, I just don't like him!
So, this sentence only works well if it is said by people who have achieved success and fame. Secondly, who knows what kind of evil was hidden in his heart when he said this. It has the same meaning as the idiom "contentment is always happiness". Contentment is always happiness, which originally expresses that those who have achieved success should not be too greedy and stop in moderation. Now it has become an excuse for those "waste" people to comfort themselves. The saying "What's wrong with a real man without a wife?" has become a high-sounding explanation for the failed youth of diaosi who can't find a partner. Of course, there must be some people who advocate "establish a career first, then start a family", and there should be a lot of them. But if you keep these words in your heart and work up the motivation, then show them off and you will have a certain charm like Ah Q. To be honest, the five thousand years of Chinese culture have been used most by us to do one thing - to make excuses for our own behavior. Perhaps, making excuses is a culture in itself, spanning ancient and modern times. I think that if we really insist on a certain principle of ours, just stick to it. It doesn’t matter what others think, let alone find a bunch of high-sounding reasons to gild it, because most of the time, these radiance shines brightly. All the reasons are used to defeat others and prove themselves. Why bother? Even if you defeat him, he will still scold you as soon as you turn around.
As a man, I also want to say something. I am an independent person with my own unique thoughts and behaviors. I have a strong personality. I don’t like to accommodate myself or be restrained and controlled by others. To put it bluntly, I am arrogant. But until now, I am about to graduate from college and have not achieved much, so love is not always smooth. I don’t think it’s true that a man should worry about not having a wife, but only because of his fame and fame. A man’s focus should be on his career. As long as his career is successful, there will naturally be many girls who appreciate you. That Then you don't have to work so hard to please and lick girls, you can choose a suitable person to get married and have children. There are many boys around me who are obsessed with their girlfriends. They spend all their time thinking about picking up girls. Their energy and thoughts are given to their girlfriends. How can they have time to think about fame and great career? Invisibly, some possibilities for greater success are lost. If a man is frustrated and lonely when he is young, he will have more time to think about how to gain recognition and success from others, and he will also take a breath in his heart, which will become the driving force for fighting for his career in the future.
Dear, now you know the origin of the saying "What's the point of a man having no wife?" It was a saying said by Zhao Yun during the Three Kingdoms period. It has also become an inspiring saying for thousands of years. It means as long as we Success and fame cannot be achieved without a wife. Of course, first of all, we need to have a successful career. If we achieve nothing, we are likely to be single in today's society! Why should a man worry if he doesn’t have a wife, fearing that his career will fail 2
How to get rid of the bad luck in your career
1. When you have time, you should bask in the sun more and replenish your righteousness, so that your career will be smooth. .
2. Go to a place with green grass at least once a week and step barefoot on the grass for 15 minutes to release the turbid air.
3. Buy a green jade ring and wear it on your little finger to prevent the suffering of "little people".
4. Place a pair of "Qilin" near the door, entrance or living room of your home to improve your career luck.
5. Hanging "Six Emperors' Money" in the center of the house can activate wealth luck.
6. Place a cup of "coarse salt water" in the kitchen and toilet and update it once a week to eliminate worries.
How to change things if your career is not going well
Don’t be sluggish when your career is not going well. Pay special attention to your body’s health and maintain good energy, otherwise it will come true. As the saying goes, "Blessings come in pairs, and misfortunes never come alone." If you want your career to run well, you must first make your own aura strong, firstly to prevent bad things from taking advantage of the situation, and secondly, to rely on your own aura to condense your fortune and make it better as soon as possible. Before going to bed every night, you can rely on yoga to exercise your limbs and stabilize your mind.
If you suffer from insomnia, avoid staying up late without sleeping, and it is best not to use sleeping pills. It is recommended to light a piece of sandalwood, which can remove odor and calm the mind. At the same time, you can meditate with the help of yoga, Buddhist scriptures and other things. When getting up in the morning and washing up, you can also continue to apply self-suggestion to yourself so that you can go out to work full of energy.
Before going to bed every day, you can also prepare half a cup of cold water, and after waking up in the morning, add half a cup of hot water. This is the so-called good luck yin and yang water. Drinking this water can cleanse the body and mind, eliminate impurities, and enhance one's energy and aura, making one look energetic and at least look like a person with good luck. In this lucky yin and yang water, you can also add a little honey or salt. The salt water can clear away heat, moisturize and detoxify people; honey water can not only detoxify and replenish qi, but also quickly relieve low mood.
In addition, red pepper is also the best food to bring good luck. When your career luck is low, it can not only restore your spirit and improve your luck, but also whet your appetite and absorb more energy from food.
1. Place some red furniture and decorations in the east, such as mahogany pendants, red, etc. This can make the family full of energy and be beneficial to career and studies.
2. In Feng Shui, yellow crystal is generally considered to represent wealth, and in the West, it is considered to be the direction that leads career and wealth. If yellow furniture accessories are placed in this direction, such as citrine Or other yellow items, etc., can bring strong wealth.
3. White crystal is good for career and health. If the white crystal is placed in the middle of the head, the diseased and black air in the body can be discharged from the soles of the feet, making people clear-headed, which is very good for career and health. Helpful. If you place white crystal on the table in the office or study room at home, the effect will be more obvious.
4. The location of the bedroom will affect a person’s career. Generally speaking, the bedroom in the north is good for freelancers; the bedroom in the northwest is good for people in management positions; the bedroom in the northeast is good for people in the service industry; the bedroom in the east is good for young people
Those who keep making progress; the bedroom in the southeast is good for people who are easy to Get help from the outside; the south bedroom is easy to get inspiration; the southwest bedroom can strengthen a person's patience; the west bedroom is suitable for relieving stress and enhancing sleep.
5. You can place mascots at home to increase your career luck. Generally, placing the right Kirin at home can bring prosperity to the family and promote career development. In addition, Kirin is also good for giving birth to children. In today's society, more and more people are infertile or have late pregnancies. Kirin can alleviate this phenomenon. occurs, but the unicorn head needs to face outward.
6. For those who are in business or politics, if you can see everything as soon as you open the door, this kind of home feng shui is very unsatisfactory, and if you can see the dining table or bedroom at a glance, it is also bad. It is a bad feng shui. This Feng Shui pattern means that money is easy for people to spy on, and it is easy to lose official position and wealth.
7. If there is groundbreaking in the direction of the house during the process of living, it means that the career will be damaged. Kirin can be placed in the corresponding position to resolve this impact.
In short, if you want your career to go smoothly, you must not only pay attention to the feng shui of the office and company, but also pay enough attention to the feng shui of your home.