1. Don’t hurt someone easily, everyone has self-esteem; don’t throw away a relationship casually, it will be in vain to stay with it if your heart is far away. No one will keep saying "it's okay" heartlessly; no one will let you step on the dignity of others again and again.
2. How a person views himself determines his fate and points to his destination. So it is with our outlook, which becomes brighter when better ideas are poured into it. No matter how humble your life is, you must face life bravely without escaping, let alone cursing it with bad words.
3. If you have a high EQ, you mainly want to make others happy; if you have a high IQ, you mainly want to make yourself happy; if you don’t have a high IQ and have a low EQ, the main thing is not to make others happy when you are unhappy.
4. No matter when, leave some space in your heart. Thousands of gold are easy to scatter, but popularity is hard to find. No matter whether you are rich or poor, if you make more good relationships, you will eventually be rewarded with good things. Climbing to the top is a good thing, but you must be diligent in cultivating your life energy so that you can thrive forever; be confused before troubles, be more cheerful after losses, and you will be the big winner if you don’t lose the joy of life.
5. Life is not about age, but mental youth; clothes are not about fashion, but comfort and fit; meals are not about richness, but nutrition is balanced; the size of the room is not about size, but cleanliness and comfort; health care is not about deliberateness, it is important Let nature take its course; exercise is not about summer and winter, but perseverance is important; work and rest are not about morning and evening, but regular cultivation is important; taste is not about elegance and vulgarity, but maintaining childlike innocence is not important; friends are not important, but finding a confidant is important.
6. Remember, it is better to act stupid than to act smart. It is better to work hard than to pursue pleasure. It is better to pretend to be poor than to show off your wealth. It's better to lose than to win without losing. It is better to suffer a loss than to take advantage. It is better to be mediocre than to seek fame. It is better to be confident than to be blindly pessimistic. I would rather be healthy than have fame and fortune. It is better to be diligent than to do nothing. I would rather be paranoid than give up on my ideals.
7. The road of life is long and winding, and when you are tired, replace everything with silence; when life is in adversity, remember to be patient; when life is going well, remember to be restrained; when life is going well, remember to look down upon it; when life is frustrated, be patient. Remember to go with the flow; when you are in a bad mood, you need to cultivate yourself; when you are in a happy mood, you need to dive in! To understand the true meaning of life, low water becomes the sea, and low people become kings. The saint is nameless, the great is invisible. Be expensive but not showy, flashy but not dazzling, and train yourself in the wind and rain.
8. In this life, a person must be able to withstand lies, perfunctory treatment, deception, and forgotten promises. Slowly I realized: Persistence may not necessarily mean victory, and giving up may not mean surrender. Instead of hitting the wall gorgeously, it is better to turn around gracefully and give yourself a roundabout space, learn to think, learn to wait, and learn to adjust.
9. The scenery of life is colorful. You must have a normal heart as a person. Superficial envy, boring comparisons, and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day long. We should recognize ourselves, follow our own path, and live our own life.
10. Not caring is a way to happiness. Why should you care about everything? If you care too much, you will only surround yourself and make yourself unhappy. If you care too much about everything, you will get tired. You might as well not worry about it for now, and instead enjoy the relaxation and happiness for a lifetime.