It’s not terrible that a person is born in poverty. What’s terrible is that you don’t change it. Whose famous quote is it?

This quote does not seem to be attributed to anyone, and many books have written about it now. This type of modern inspirational quote bar does not have a corresponding celebrity bar. A German famous saying about turbulence, to the effect that turbulence itself is not terrible, but what is terrible is that it does not change during turbulent times.

Everything is just a dream, but it is just a moment of youth, holding hands with you and looking forward to it in the gap between memories. Poor Baiyun Canggu smiled, and when he opened his eyes, he no longer saw your back. But the scars are deep and my heart is sad. Every brick bleeds, tears turn into red rain and blame the sky, cuckoos cry, lovesickness comes and goes, the sky is speechless and white-eyed people cry. Where should I go to pursue it? Where does the cloud smoke go? It's not scary to like someone, but it's the habits that are scary

Well,

Indeed, it's scary...

When you are used to having someone in your life The existence of...

One day, the habit is no longer used because of him..

The process is really scary, and it is worse than not having the habit at the beginning. Failure does not mean It's scary. What's scary is that you lose the courage to face failure. Is it a famous saying?

It's definitely not a famous saying, it can only be said to be a relatively classic saying.

Hope this helps! The enemy is not scary, the scary thing is the undercover.

Think about it, there are many such things, and you are not the only one in the world who has encountered this kind of thing. There are a few people around me who are like this. They went out for a while and asked friends to help take care of their girlfriends. When they came back, it was no longer the case, and their girlfriends were already with their best friends. I've also encountered this problem. He is a friend's girlfriend. After a while, I gradually developed feelings for him. I liked him very much but never confessed to him. One day later, his girlfriend also confessed to me that I liked him very much. But I gave up. To be honest, I was very painful afterwards and felt really stupid. Because I really like her. If we come again, I will definitely be with her. What has passed has passed, and time will dilute everything. Later they got married, and a year later I got married. Now I am living a good life and I love my wife very much.

I say so much just to let you understand that there are very few people who can do this like me. No one will give up love for friendship. Love is selfish and there is no eternal love.

Maybe you can get some comfort by taking a look and just think about it.

25 truths that men must understand

1. Men are the main body of society, whether you believe it or not. Therefore, men should have a sense of responsibility. From the country and society to the family, we have no reason to escape from our actions. The responsibility that men should bear!!

2. Before the age of 25, please remember that love is usually fake or not as beautiful as you imagined. Do you understand? If you are over 25, then you should Understand this truth.

3. You are most comfortable when you eat at 70% full. When treating your girlfriend, please keep it at 70%.

4. Please take good care of your body before the age of 30. In the first 30 years, If you seek illness, illness will seek you out in the next 30 years. If you are over 30 years old, you will naturally understand this truth.

5. Career is far more important than love. If career is not eternal, then love It can only be regarded as a flash in the pan.

6. Don’t easily accept the girl who pursues you. Women chase men. If you fall into it easily, you will find that you will miss a lot of things and lose a lot of things.

7. Please believe that problems that can be solved with money are not problems. If you think that money is king, and if you have money, you have women, and if you don’t have money, you don’t have women, then women are not a problem.

8. Please always be positive. Every man has his cute things, but the only thing that is not cute is not facing life positively.

9. Don’t let the same woman twice in a row. Hurt. There is a reason why a good horse never looks back. If you have seriously considered breaking up, please don’t take any reluctant actions.

10. If you and your ex-girlfriend can be friends, Then you have to ask yourself why if you are still friends after a breakup, there are only two possibilities. You were just playing for fun at the beginning and did not give each other your true feelings. Or there must be someone who is silently giving without any regrets!

11. Never believe too much in a woman’s sweet words when she is in love. It is said that women love sweet words, but in fact, men like them more.

12. Please do not worry too much about your appearance or height. and low self-esteem. Humans are animals, but they are different from animals. Innate conditions are not an excuse to prevent you from living a good life. The human heart is far better than appearance, please believe this. If someone judges people by their appearance, then you don’t need to care too much. .Because he is just an animal in a sense. Would you be angry with an animal?

13. When you fall in love, there are only two possibilities, either you love her and she doesn’t love you, or the opposite. So, when the person you love no longer loves you, or has never loved you, you have no regrets, because all you lose is someone who doesn’t love you.

14. Please don’t deceive kind people. Girls. There are too few kind-hearted girls in this world.

15. Don’t be too radical to think that money is everything. At least, money cannot cure AIDS.

16. Please have confidence. .You are just a piece of scenery, there is no need to look up in other people’s scenery.

17. No matter how severe the blow is, as long as life is still there, please believe that the sun is new every day.

18. Love can never be a balance. If you want to be happy in love, you have to be willing to be sad.

19. If you like a girl who thinks others should treat her well, please give up as soon as possible. No one is You should be good to someone. If she doesn't understand this, it means she doesn't know how to cherish it at all.

20. Don't look for a gf because of loneliness, *** people should learn to taste loneliness. Please remember Even if you live lonely, there must be someone like you under the dark night sky in the distance. The lonely people are different, but the starry sky they look up to is the same.

21. Nothing is forever. Don’t ask how to live forever. There is a lot of helplessness. Please try your best to enrich yourself and life. Please be kind to life. Men have a lot of helplessness. Life is very tiring, but life is meaningful. When you think you have nothing, at least you still have time, and time can heal everything. Trauma. So please don't cry...

22 Always believe that people can make things happen, and God can make things happen. But we don't just wait for success, but actively "plan things". This is the only way we can Do it, otherwise you will just sit back and wait for death!!! Since success is determined by God, there is no need to pay too much attention to the results, which are difficult for us to decide.

23 Sometimes suffering is also a blessing.

24 Family It is our eternal harbor, we must cherish and care for it, bumps and bumps are inevitable.

25 Let’s be realistic in life, idealism is a luxury.

Morality. Failure is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you give up

Perseverance may not necessarily lead to success, and failure to persist will definitely lead to success. If you want to get things done, you must be in the right direction. If the direction is wrong, your efforts will be in vain. Waiting is not scary, the scary thing is not being able to wait for you

If you can’t wait, you are still yourself.

Because if you have to wait for the sunrise, you will inevitably live up to your sleep, but don’t miss every trace of the originality on the top of the mountain. Failure is not terrible, but the terrible thing is that you make excuses for failure!

There is a difference between setbacks and failures. The difference should be whether we still have enough capital to make a comeback, and new problems arise here. How can we make a comeback? Questions of purpose and meaning in life. Our current mainstream values ??are nothing more than getting promoted and making a fortune, or, to put it more nicely, a career. If we use this as a standard, being fired at the age of 20 can be called a setback, and there are still plenty of opportunities waiting. Being fired at the age of 40 can be called a failure, because by that time If you are still not competitive enough at this age, you will probably spend the rest of your life in confusion. Of course, if you can succeed in your career in your later years, this failure will become just a setback.

So to summarize, we must first define whether a certain event (such as a broken love, unemployment, or loss of something else) is a setback or a failure. As long as it can be defined as a setback, it is not terrible. The height is not scary, the scary thing is the slope.

Who said that?

Nietzsche said that divorce is not terrible, but making do with it is terrible

If you have children

You still have to consider the feelings of the children

Just think about yourself