There is an old saying in China, "There are many rich women, but few rich men". Nowadays, the idea that girls should be "raised well" is deeply rooted in people's hearts. The connotation of "having money to support" is interpreted by many parents as being spoiled and wanting to create good material conditions for their daughters, but this is not correct.

I think the real "nurturing" is responsible "nurturing", and girls should be more strict when they are young. When they grow up, they will have broad horizons, confident and independent personality, rich knowledge and elegant temperament.

Equality between men and women, the truth that "you can be a gentleman only after suffering" applies not only to boys but also to girls. So what hardships are girls willing to suffer from childhood, which is more conducive to healthy growth? I summed up the following aspects, hoping to help parents who have female treasures at home.

1. What girls learn from snacks is more meaningful when they grow up.

Host Dong Qing, you must be familiar with it. She recalled her father's strict requirements when she was a child, saying that his father had a "famous saying" and that "no matter how beautiful a potato is, it is also a potato". So Dong Qing never looked in the mirror before she was seven years old, because she thought it would be better to read more books if she had time to look in the mirror.

Her mind is full of poems and books. The most beautiful thing about a girl is not her gorgeous appearance, but her profound knowledge and gentle and dignified temperament, but this temperament was not acquired in a short time. Learning is also a very hard and long process. Only after suffering from learning can we realize the sweetness of success. The continuous accumulation and precipitation of knowledge will always be reflected in a person's inner temperament, open-minded mind and elegant speech.

No matter how beautiful the face is, it will fade. A literate, thoughtful and cultured woman always exudes charming fragrance.

2, girls should eat the bitterness of sports, exercise their will, and grow stronger when they grow up.

Mabel Yuan, the "queen of sports", became popular by practicing "vest line" through physical exercise. It can be said that the charm of sports is really too great. Exercise will not only make a girl look more fit, but also be the key to the all-round development of personality and social skills.

Exercise can not only make children suffer physically, but also exercise their will. Because many sports are very hard and boring, you can repeat the boring movements over and over again and let the sweat flow freely. No matter what such children do in the future, they will be more practical and calm than others.

Advocating girls to love sports and be determined is not to train their daughters into "women's men". Many people say that spoiled women have the best life, but spoiled and feminine are two different things.

There are many girls in life who are too delicate and think it is more feminine. Imagine if your relatives, friends or colleagues are all quite old, complaining all day, acting like a "big lady" and crying when they are tired. Will people think she's cute?

3, girls suffer from housework, do their own things, do not rely on their parents.

Now more and more girls can't cook. Some people say that the times have progressed and women have made extraordinary achievements in more and more fields. The days when women were confined in the kitchen are over. So many girls graduated from college, but they can't even cook a bowl of noodles.

Girls should be independent and free, and do housework from snacks. I have read a survey report on primary school students' housework. The results show that the more children there are in developed countries, the longer the average housework time is, which is closely related to parents' educational philosophy.

First of all, doing housework is a necessary condition for children to live independently in the future. Many parents will complain about their children's poor independence. In fact, many times parents deprive their children of the opportunity to exercise.

Secondly, doing housework can develop and exercise children's motor skills. It is a great challenge for children to complete a housework with various motor skills. In this process, the fineness of children's movements will be improved and exercised.

Proper housework can also improve children's sense of responsibility. Children are part of the family. Let them know that you can enjoy everything at home. However, it also has the responsibility and obligation to undertake part of the work for the family. As children grow older, their sense of responsibility will become stronger and stronger.

Girls can wash their hands to make soup or walk into the workplace in high heels. Life is different everywhere!

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