A scholar dies for a bosom friend, and a woman worries for herself.
A scholar is willing to risk his life for his bosom friend. Women are happy to dress up for people who like themselves.
Feeling: In the original text of Warring States Policy, this is what Jade Jean said when she made up her mind to avenge her precious trusted intellectuals. Yu Ji, a native of Jin State, was born in the Warring States Period. Zhibo was awarded the honor of a national scholar. Zhi Bo failed to conquer Zhao Xiangzi and was defeated and killed by Zhao Xiangzi. I changed my name. In order to change his appearance and voice, he did not hesitate to paint all over his body, swallow coal, pretend to be a beggar and seek revenge.
After many attempts to assassinate Zhao Xiangzi in Xingyi, Yu Rang was finally captured. Knowing that he would die, he begged Zhao Xiangzi to take off his clothes and let him put them on to realize his wish. Zhao Xiangzi agreed to his request, and Yu let his sword stab his clothes three times, and then committed suicide. Yuqin became the representative figure of Zhao Yan's generous elegy several years before Jing Ke stabbed Qin.
"A scholar dies for a confidant, and a woman worries about herself." These two sentences sum up a typical psychology of people, and there have been few bosom friends since ancient times. For thousands of years, people of different times have given these two sentences different meanings and often quoted them.
Petty people can't do great things, and evil and shameful people can't do famous things.
People who pay attention to small things can't achieve great fame, and people who don't bear the burden of humiliation can't build a good reputation.
Feeling: We often say that those who achieve great things are informal. In the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong hit Qi Huangong with an arrow and hit his hook, which was a usurper; It is cowardice to serve the palace for a long time and not die for him; Being imprisoned by Lu means humiliation. These three behaviors can be said to be unbearable shame for most people.
If Guan Zhong is poor all his life, depressed by imprisonment, refuses to be an official, and refuses to visit Qi Huangong because he is ashamed of the shame he has created, then he will be humiliated all his life. And imprison son son has these three problems at the same time, but he is in charge of Qi's political affairs, rectifying the world in one fell swoop, making Qi the first of the five tyrants nine times, and his reputation spreads all over the world and shines on neighboring countries.
The sly rabbit has three caves, so it must be protected from death.
The sly rabbit has three hiding caves, so it can only avoid death.
Feeling: This is what Feng Xuan, a counselor of Qi State, said to Meng Changjun. This means telling Meng Changjun that if he wants to consolidate his political position in Qi State and remain invincible forever, he must have many safe exits. These two sentences later formed the idiom "Coward rabbit has three holes", which means that the more exports you can guarantee, the better, so as to avoid disaster. It can also be said to be a joke. People live in many places, and there are places to live everywhere.
Don't forget that people are kind to me. I have virtues to others, and I must never forget them.
Don't forget others' kindness to yourself; Don't forget your kindness to others.
Feeling: Although these simple words express a reference concept of the ancients, they still have certain reference significance today. Because even today, those ungrateful or ungrateful behaviors will be widely despised by people; Give others a little help, a little benefit, you will never forget. Repeatedly mentioned, it is also despised by the public. This famous saying can be quoted to explain interpersonal relationships.
It's never too late to see a rabbit love a dog. it is never too late to mend one's ways
It's not too late to say hello to the dog when you see the rabbit; It's not too late to repair the sheepfold when the sheep are lost.
Feeling: The author uses these words to explain that mistakes should be corrected in time, experience should be summed up and losses should be reduced. It's not too late to release the dog after seeing the rabbit, although the time is short; If a sheep is lost, repair the sheepfold immediately. Although the lost sheep can't be found, it will not be lost again. Use this sentence to explain that mistakes should be corrected in time, and don't stick to them, otherwise it will cause even greater disasters. "Better late than never" has become a common idiom with a high quotation rate.
During the Warring States Period, after King Xiang of Chu acceded to the throne, he reused treacherous court officials and the country declined day by day. Zhuang Xin, the minister of Chu, said to King Xiang of Chu, "You and some people in the palace live a luxurious and lewd life. Regardless of national affairs, the country will perish sooner or later! "
King Chu Xiang was furious and cursed Zhuang Xin. Seeing that King Xiang of Chu did not listen to the advice, Zhuang had to hide in Zhao. Five months later, the state of Qin sent troops to attack Chu and captured Yingcheng, the capital city. King Chu Xiang panicked and fled to Chengyang City. At this time, he thought of Zhuang Xin's suggestion and sent someone to invite Zhuang Xin back, saying, "I didn't listen to you in the past, so I got into this situation." Now, do you think there's any way to fix it? "Zhuang Xin is telling the story that it is too late to mend.
6. If it is paid with money, it will be paid with all the money; People who make friends fall in love with Chongqing.
Make friends with money, and when the money runs out, the friendship will be cut off; Love will disappear with age, and will fade with the lust for beauty and face.
Feeling: These words can be used as aphorisms and still be quoted as life aphorisms.
Parents' love for their sons is far-reaching.
As parents who love their children, they should make long-term plans for their children, not just pay attention to the immediate gains and losses.
Feeling: This is what Queen Zhao said that touched the dragon, and it still has educational significance. You can quote this famous saying to persuade parents who love their children blindly; Reviewing the story of "touching the dragon and telling the Zhao" is also enlightening to people today.
People with the same desires hate each other, and people with the same troubles are blind friends.
People with the same inner desires tend to hate each other, and people with the same pain or trouble tend to get close to each other.
Feelings: people who think the same thing in their hearts often become competitors, and they all want to get ahead of others, for fear that others will not get themselves, so they are prone to mutual hatred and even hatred; People who share weal and woe, or are in the same boat, are easy to get close to and become bosom friends.
These are the psychology of ordinary people. We can use "like-minded people hate each other" to show that like-minded people often hate each other, and vice versa, indicating that we should overcome the traditional psychology of "like-minded people hate each other" on the premise of common goals.
It is better to be a chicken mouth than a cow queen.
Better be a chicken's mouth than a cow's anus.
Feelings: Bao Biao notes: "A Theory of Justice" says: Although the chicken's mouth is small, it eats food, while the cow's mouth is big, and it defecates. "These two sentences show a sense of independence, which means that people should be their own masters, not vassals of others. It is better to be independent in a small situation than to be controlled by others in a big situation. As the saying goes, "Better be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix" also means this.
10 People who cherish treasures don't walk at night, and those who make great achievements don't underestimate their enemies.
Holding precious treasures, you can't walk at night; People who are engaged in great undertakings should not despise their enemies.
Feeling: Walking on the road in the middle of the night and cherishing precious treasures may be taken away by people seeking money, and killing people may lead to death. Through this comparison, the author shows that people with great responsibilities should always be cautious and not underestimate their enemies, otherwise they will be countered and bring disaster. Because "treasures" and "great achievements" will attract envy. Explain a simple and understandable social truth, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, can not be excluded, can not be sloppy.
The remembrance of the past is the teacher of the future
You can't forget what's in front of you, and
Feeling: If you want to succeed in your career, you must make full preparations, make careful plans and keep secrets. If the plan is leaked, or you are too resourceful to make a decision, discuss without deciding, and never do it, then you will accomplish nothing. This principle can be widely used in political, economic and military fields.
Three lines, one hundred miles is half of ninety.
A trip of a hundred miles, a trip of 90 miles, is only half the beginning. The closer the metaphor is to success, the more difficult it is, and the more it should be taken seriously. It is often used to encourage people to do things from beginning to end.
Feeling: The meaning of idioms can be understood literally. "Those who walk a hundred miles are half ninety", which means that those who walk a hundred miles and those who walk 90 miles are only halfway there. The deeper meaning is that the closer you get to completing something, the more difficult it is and the more critical it is. Many people are always ambitious at first, but as time goes on, they gradually lose their motivation, perseverance and determination. Finally, I did it hastily.
The similarity of twins is only known to their mother; Like-minded people are known only to the wise.
Twin children look so alike that only mothers can tell at a glance; It is difficult to distinguish things that are confused with each other. Only a clever person can distinguish them.
Perception: These words are figurative metaphors, which show that in daily life, "benefit" and "harm" are often mixed together, or they seem to be beneficial but harmful, or the benefits are small and harmful, or even though they are small and harmful, they are ultimately harmful and difficult to distinguish. Only a wise man can get rid of the false and keep the true, get rid of the rough and keep the essence, pay attention to one thing and lose sight of the other, see the essence of the problem from the outside to the inside, and be unmoved by petty gain, so as to draw a correct conclusion. With these words, interests are often mixed. Only by careful investigation and sizing up the situation can we draw a correct conclusion and be worthy of being a wise man.
It runs in the middle of the 5th. When the full moon disappears, when things prosper, they decline.
When the sun reaches noon, it moves to the west; You will lose money when the moon is full; When everything is full, it will decline.
Feeling: Everything in nature changes according to the objective laws from prosperity to decline and from prosperity to decline. At the peak stage, due to certain conditions, it will be transformed into the opposite aspect. Paying attention to this characteristic of things is beneficial to people's work and standing.
People who stab me in the face 16 will be rewarded; Those who complain to me will be rewarded; Those who can slander the city and hear my ears will be rewarded.
Those who can accuse me of my fault face to face will get the best reward; Those who confess to me on the throne will get a moderate reward, and those who can tell my faults in public so that I can hear them will get a lower reward.
Feeling: These words were ordered by Qi Weiwang for comments. "Zou Ji satirizes the King of Qi" is a famous story. Zou Ji realized from a few small things in his life that people who usually say good things about him are either partial to him, afraid of him, or ask him for something. Therefore, I advised Qi Weiwang not to listen to flattery, because he was cheated.
I think Zou's speech is very reasonable, and I named the ministers. Qi Weiwang dared to offer a reward for advice, which showed a politician's mind and demeanor of seeking truth from facts and was worth learning from later politicians.
17 is not good enough to live long; The study of ancient laws is not enough to make today.
The achievement of following the ancient law is not completely higher than that of this world; Imitating the knowledge of the ancients, we can't make today's system.
Feeling: We are now studying China culture and learning from the wisdom of the ancients, but few people have noticed that the wisdom of the ancients can only be applied to the present after "transformation". So don't learn from the ancients dogmatically, but understand dialectical flexibility.
Virtue is good, but merit is unfair.
"Those who achieve great things do not seek common interests" means that those who achieve great things do not listen to the opinions or suggestions of people around them.
Perception: The principle that people who achieve great things don't seek the public, in layman's terms, is to seek a certain part.
First of all, if others are low in knowledge, narrow-minded and tolerant, they will certainly not understand your thoughts. Nonsense will shake your will and destroy your confidence and mood. Second, there are too many people, and bad things will spread and ruin opportunities.
Qin Xiaogong's Shang Yang Reform is such a scene. At that time, Qin Xiaogong supported Shang Yang's political reform, but none of the ministers of Qin supported it. Shang Yang told Xiao Gong some truth: "For ordinary people, the plan to start things cannot be discussed with them, and they can only have fun with them after success."
People who pay attention to morality, people who disagree with laymen, and people who have made great achievements don't have to consult with ordinary people. Old rules can be changed to make the country strong. "
19 saints can't catch up with time. Although shun xian, non-Yao, can not be the son of heaven; Although Tang and Wu are virtuous, they are not outstanding, and Zhou is not king. So Shun, Tang and Wu didn't become emperors.
Even the saints with the highest character and wisdom can't create the present situation and can't let go. Although Yu Shun is very virtuous, he wouldn't be the son of heaven if he hadn't met Tang Yao. Although Shang Tang and Zhou Wuwang were very virtuous, they would not be kings in the world if they had not met bad kings Xia Jie and Shang Zhou.
Therefore, even the clever Yu Shun, Shang Tang and Zhou Wuwang could not have become emperors if they had not had the chance.
Perception: the status quo is independent of human will. Even a saint can only seize the opportunity when it comes, but can't create current events.
Invisibility is the king of form. For no reason, the root of the matter is also.
Invisible, the king of form: invisible things are the masters of tangible things. Jun: rule, dominate. No reason is the root of everything: what has no origin is the root of everything.
Feelings: In ancient China, from Laozi, we paid great attention to "nothingness". In the year of Tao Te Ching, it was said that everything in the world was born, and nothing was born. This is a metaphysical statement.
In reality, we should pay special attention to the value of intangible things when doing things. Whoever can see the value of "nothing" and use the value of "nothing" is bound to succeed more easily. This sentence also tells us that we should perceive things in a subtle way and see the direction of things before they form or begin.