A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Without a realistic first step, how can we talk about a thousand miles? Such an ideal is also a fantasy. There is a distance between ideals and reality, and ideals that abandon reality are illusions; there is no self-sufficient place in reality, and you have to look for ideals, unless you are given illusory wings. Ideals are based on reality, not based on reality. Ideals are always castles in the air. If they are too idealistic, the ideals will be shattered by the devil. Reality is an unshakable fact, and all ideals that do not acknowledge reality are in vain. Without reality, ideals are like kites with broken strings. If he is too idealistic, it becomes a dream. Maybe he has more capital to dream than others, but a dream is still a dream after all. Zhang Yimou searched all over China to find Jingqiu. He once deeply lamented that Jingqiu was not easy to find. Jingqiu is a symbol of purity and beauty in the hearts of countless people. Jingqiu in "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree" is a green lotus in the mud, which can only be seen from a distance but not played with. Writer Haru Shugami once said that even if his ideal woman never appeared, he could still get married and live a happy life. Knowing that life and ideals are two different things is difficult for some people. Turning life into art is a beautiful thing, and everyone is willing to do it. But life is not poetry, life requires us to compromise. Romanticism that adheres to ideals often ends in tragedy. Princes and princesses are just myths. The talented man and the beautiful woman are just a legend. Wen Qin undressed the immortal couple, but he couldn't keep the robe after breaking it. Life is not a cloud in the sky, it is the road under your feet. You should walk step by step. Clouds and smoke are just scenery on the road, not life. Just walking without seeing the scenery will be boring. When you are in the clouds and fog, one day you will fall from the clouds and suddenly wake up, and you will be completely different by then. Many times, the more a person pursues perfection and thinks that someone is perfect, the less this person dares to marry you, because she knows that what you love is the shadow you made up for yourself, not a real living person. Everyone has shortcomings, if it weren't for immortality. Perfectionism is the deification of reality. I heard that this is the reason why Lin Huiyin did not marry Xu Zhimo. Lin Huiyin is a smart and talented woman. She knows what Xu Zhimo wants? And she couldn't afford it. Can't afford to gamble.