There is a reason why many people, when down and out, doubt life and never recover from it. There are also some people who, when they are down and out, seek help everywhere and hope others will help them.
Smart people often have the courage to "know that there are tigers in the mountains and walk in the mountains." Despair is where you rise and the beginning of a wonderful life.
Despair of life is like a cliff in a mountain, and a waterfall jumps straight down; There is a deep pool under the cliff; In the middle of the cliff, there are tenacious young trees and flowers, which are great.
Think about it, if the running water doesn't meet the cliff, how can it become a waterfall? Life has not encountered difficulties, how can it reflect "tenacity"?
Infinite scenery of dangerous peaks! It's terrible to go to dangerous places, but as long as you take the right path and survive the most dangerous days, life will be wonderful. Why a person is outstanding is often because he is special, dares to challenge himself, can overcome himself, takes an unusual road and sees special scenery.
You have to believe that God won't close one door, but he will open another. As long as you go straight ahead, you will have a chance to reach the other side of your dream.
When people are chattering, try to keep "silence".
As the saying goes: "People struggle for a sigh of relief, and the Buddha receives a wick of incense."
It seems to be human instinct to argue with others. Always keep quiet and tolerant, but appear too honest and unsociable.
However, smart people are often quiet, and the more people there are, the more silent they are. Others are eager to express their views, and they are trying to convince the people around them, which is often "forced by others".
"Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." Don't force others to do what you can't do; Don't expect others to do what you can do well.
Everyone is unique. You really don't have to expect others to feel the same way, and you don't have to force yourself to walk with others. Respect the differences between people, and life will be better.
Learn to listen when others talk; When others are arguing, you just walk away silently.
When starting a business, you should know how to "get rich silently".
When I was in college, my teacher reminded me: "Be good at breaking ice."
In other words, when filling out school applications, don't blindly pursue popular schools, but look for less popular schools. Because in this case, the possibility of being admitted is greater.
Everyone wants to go to a famous university, but not everyone can. Instead of breaking the threshold with others, it is better to find a less lively door to walk in.
The goal of starting a business is to make money. The booming business must be like "a steady stream of customers", but can you take a slice of it? It's really hard to say
As the saying goes, "choice is greater than effort." If you are not good at choosing and blindly pursue hot business, you will often be crowded with people and eventually fall short.
Therefore, when starting a business, you should calm down and find a way that suits you. If there is no ready-made way to go, we must "find another way" and be a person who dares to eat crabs.
If you break a road, don't let your own road become a "busy road" soon, but keep quiet and let yourself go further and earn more money. By the time others find out that you have made a lot of money and then start to follow suit, you will already be "full of pots"
Of course, after you earn a lot of money, you should keep your wealth and don't show off yourself. The goal of entrepreneurship is not only to make money, but also to save money. If you save a lot and have enough confidence in being a man, it proves that your career is successful.
When you are sought after, you underestimate your achievements.
According to common sense, the more successful a person is, the more he likes to show off himself.
Some people, with a little progress, go everywhere to give speeches and introduce their successful experiences; Some people have a glib tongue and brag about their achievements all day.
Smart people are always very low-key, just like mature ears of rice, always with their heads down, but very "substantial" and valuable.
It is humbling to underestimate one's achievements, and it is an action to retreat for progress, not to ignore one's achievements. Achievement is a stepping stone, not a hat.
The stepping stone at the foot is very thick, and life can be accumulated; Wearing too many hats can make people dizzy, have a headache and lose their way.
When interacting with people, you should learn to "burn incense in a cold temple".
What is "burning incense in a cold temple"? In other words, a very lively temple, if you burn incense, because there are too many people, the Bodhisattva may not remember you and bless you; An abandoned temple. When you burn incense, the Bodhisattva will surely remember you and bless you.
People in the workplace, if you go to a very "hot" leadership office, it is estimated that you can't wait in line for a long time, and the leadership may not greet you warmly and listen to your suggestions attentively. As for the future, whether I can help you depends on luck.
If you go to a "cold" leadership office, the leadership will soon remember you, and you will be promoted in the future.
To be a man, you don't need to join in the fun, you need to be with the right people and make the right friends. Others go to a busy place, you go to a quiet place. Others want "red people" and you want "reliable people".
One should not be frivolous when dealing with others. If he is frivolous, he will be disturbed by foreign things, and he will never be calm and in a bad mood. You can't be too persistent in your thoughts, otherwise you will be too persistent and bound by foreign things, and you will live a miserable life without being angry.
One should not be stubborn, be flexible, and look at the world from a changing and developing perspective, instead of being stubborn. If we live in a different way and look at the world from a different angle, life will be very different. Your "inertial thinking and life experience" used to be very effective, but now it is often useless.
Really smart people often have reverse thinking and wonderful counterattacks.