it looks good and reasonable, but you can't apply it to your own life. You feel that you are still the same and haven't changed. First of all, you should dare to be responsible for yourself, get in touch with the reality, walk around and listen to it, dare to analyze the situation and come up with measures or conclusions to solve problems, learn some necessary knowledge, sum up your own experience and lessons, read some books, have doubts, and the rest is for your own use, not for others.