2. Make others feel important.

3. If you are strong, you must show weakness.

4, want to be round.

5, be generous, small things should be confused.

6. Failure to express yourself is different from obedience. Failure to be self-righteous is beyond everyone. Failure to brag is success, and failure to be conceited will continue to improve.

7, low-key life, not publicity.

8. Don't make people think you are smart.

9, long-term, catch big fish, don't give up the whole forest for a small tree, it is a blessing to suffer.

10, anyone who becomes a big enterprise is a person who abandons small profits for big profits.

1 1, low land goes out of the sea, low man comes out of the king.

12, don't show all your feelings on your face.

13, a big belly can hold things that are hard to hold in the world, and there are people who open their mouths and laugh at ridiculous people.

14, rather negative than negative.

15, be as big as you are, and your personality charm will be as big as you are.

Don't let others know all your secrets.

17, talk less and listen more. A close mouth catches no flies.

18, the dragon is flexible.

What is the larded school of dealing with people?

Is how thick-skinned and black-hearted people stand in this world,

Knowledge is a part, mainly because you have to be cruel to others and yourself.

Why many heroes in history can't get a good end, because they are not cruel enough. Because of Liu Bang's kindness in pushing clothes, Han Xin refused to listen and killed them, and was beheaded by Jiuzu. Xiang Yu's heart is not vicious, and the Hongmen banquet missed the opportunity. It is unwise to commit suicide in Wujiang River. Cao Cao and Liu Bei were cruel and cheeky when they talked about heroes. They would rather I was negative to everyone, and everyone was negative to me, and Herry Liu was the world.

The first chapter is about the life of larded school. The first chapter is about how to make a family endure hardships.

Endurance is the weapon to achieve great things. Put down your face and sit on the bench to keep warm. You can't afford to hide.

If you can't bear it, make a great plan. Soft kungfu in life: those who can bend and stretch "endure" are invincible;

Only when you have patience can you achieve great things. Chapter two, when you are strong or weak, you should be stupid and converge. Stupidity is also a skill. Sima yi's specialty-pretending to be crazy and selling stupidity, keeping a low profile, secretly accumulating strength and hiding it. Be like a pool of autumn water when you are stupid. Don't hang your emotions on your face. The third chapter is exquisite.

Be flexible in dealing with people and give yourself an image of "no offense";

Good at touching others with tears, tough. Rabbits bite more flexibly when they are in a hurry. When they don't want to, they must be kind and round. It is not difficult to deal with their friends, so don't offend people easily.

Don't be generous when you are confused. It is great wisdom for a prime minister to be confused by punting in his stomach.

It is rare to be "confused" and take the blame to block the disaster. People have to bow their heads and struggle under the short eaves to make way for life. The fifth chapter can advance and retreat, so as to be convenient to others, that is, to be convenient and smooth to oneself, rather than blindly competing for strength and winning.

Retreat is more successful, and you can only retreat if you don't give in. It's good to stop when it's time to stop. You should be better at retreating. Chapter ii asking for help. Chapter 6: The word "empty" is thick and intangible, so don't take indifference seriously and ask for help:

Endure, grind and be rough, ask for help, and be good at fighting a protracted war.

Don't worry about the other party's disapproval, and don't be afraid to run into obstacles. Doing things well is a skill that has been sharpened for ten years. It is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself. Chapter 7 The word "Gong" for help will affect the whole body, making use of the old people and children to make an issue of clever inducements.

Hold each other's appetite, master the heat, and ask for help step by step.

Relying on the internet for help, you might as well be "snobbish". Sparrows climb high, relying on your boss to do things skillfully. It is necessary to work hard. Chapter 8: Asking for help "Chong" is the way to borrow light: holding the banner as a tiger's skin, boasting eloquently, far-fetched.

Ingeniously ask people to add some real ingredients to the lie, and also do everything possible to support the scene.

It makes sense to have the cheek to ask for help, flatter others at home, praise them to the sky, flatter them with a kind word, keep them in your mouth for half a year, think about your tenth chapter, use the formula of "fear" to ask for help, shock the mountain and shock the tiger, and ask for help with the cheek, and persuade them to set a trap to lure the enemy deeper at the critical moment.

Chapter 1 1 Asking Laura for a "gift" is a stepping stone to asking for help. "icing on the cake" is not as good as "sending charcoal in the snow" The trick of giving gifts is not to refuse. "Benefits" are just right. Gift-giving is a profound knowledge. Chapter 3 Speaking Laura is thick and invisible. What people say, what people say, what songs to sing in what mountains, what temples to go to, just say three words when meeting.

When you talk about all of me, you must first look at the highest state of the object.

Chapter 13: Do what you like. First, choose good words to say that you will get more money when you meet something, and do what you like when you are old.

If you have a sweet mouth, you can only say "good words" that are worth listening to. You should really try to make praise more beautiful, say less bad words and say more good words.

Chapter 14 Black and colorless, beating around the bush, saying hard, saying soft, it is better to beat around the bush to persuade him to lose his temper and refuse. He doesn't have to say anything outside. There are twists and turns outside the string, and he wins without fighting, and he is persuaded from the side.

Chapter 15 is thick and dark. True and false will be combined with true and false. Handle affairs skillfully and improvise. When it's time to lie, lie in all directions, and you can "cheat" by making up excuses and refusing to say that the fake play is true.

The fourth commercial war larded school

Chapter XVI Basis of Commercial War. In order to make a lot of money and make money together, it is the right way to show off your magical powers with small strokes:

Make a fortune by laying eggs, always take the initiative in your own hands, never slap the smiling face, bear the burden with smiling face in business, and practice a pair of hard bones.

Chapter XVII Collect money in business wars, make money widely, let others make money for themselves, pave the way by reputation, collect money by honesty, make money after becoming famous, and make money. Don't make enemies easily, so that Qian Shengqian can learn to do somersaults in money-making.

1, speak with your head, be sensitive and cautious, and talk more is useless. Many successes are also a mouth, and failures are also a mouth. Always close the door at ordinary times, or you will bring yourself a lot of trouble. Don't just talk nonsense for a while, thinking that people give you a smiling face as appreciation, and talk endlessly about what you have said, so that people can thoroughly understand their family background. I have to laugh at you secretly.

Don't jump to conclusions when things happen. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. Maybe there is a better solution. Different angles have different answers. You should learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, especially when you encounter difficulties, and learn to wait, look and wait. Many times, not only the trouble is solved, but also good luck comes.

3. Learn to roll with the punches, roll with the punches. Keep the complicated things as simple as possible, and never complicate the simple things. Mastering work efficiency is a science, and controlling the rhythm is very important.

4. There is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. Don't judge anyone, just be aware. The so-called reason is simple, that is, someone rushed. No one has a theoretical basis to define good people and bad people. To put it bluntly, it is a matter of interest. Three-seven opens, indicating that great people are not perfect.

Everything is according to the rules of the game, and thieves also know that some things must not be stolen. Therefore, you must never do anything, never do anything when you are depressed. Giving others a way out is tantamount to clearing the way for yourself.

6. Be patient with those who often find trouble with you or even bully you. There is no need to always have a hard time with your wayward husband, but you must know what you are doing, save for him, accumulate new and old hatred, and justice and truth belong to you. When you see an opportunity, you must teach him a lesson once and for all. Within the authority given by law, you should punish him to death, so that he will always remember that no one will get used to your bad habits except his own father.

7, some people are used to taking advantage of you, the villain is petty, and adults are measured. If they have the opportunity, they will pit him a big one and let him bleed once. Also let him remember: there is no free lunch in the world, and there is no cheap one for you to earn.

8. Open guns are easier to hide than open enemies, but open enemies are more difficult to guard against. The villain behind you will never disappear. This is the characteristic of China. It is an unchangeable truth that villains cannot be offended and villains cannot be forgiven. Be patient with the little people and take a step back. To provoke a villain is to provoke trouble, and the top few villains in the world are not to be taunted. In the final analysis, villains also have villains' hearts. You must be slow and steady and show no mercy to such people. You can pretend that nothing has happened, the world is at peace and everything is fine, and then you can create a clear road, sneak in, fight poison with poison, and let him know that not everyone can do it. Being a good person is as difficult as being a mean person. However, throughout the ages, there have been villains in every dynasty, and they really haven't dealt with villains.

9. Money, only what you spend is your real wealth. You are rich, and you are reluctant to eat and wear when you are born. When you close your eyes, do you know who spent the remaining money? Is it unfair? As the sketch said, the most painful thing in this world is that people die and the money is not spent. This is more painful than living without money. As long as you live without money, you can still make money. Those who scrimped and saved didn't do well, and as a result, they returned to poverty because of greed, didn't spend a penny, and all their personal property was confiscated and their reputation was ruined. Is it miserable?

10, respect those who love you. Love you for a reason, don't ask why, accept it and repay it with double love. But don't cheat others' feelings, even if you are not interested in him, even if he has shortcomings, this is wealth that you can't buy with money. Remember: to despise others' feelings is to despise yourself. It is immoral to play with things and others. Love is a virtue.

1 1. Anyone who praises you behind your back knows that you should cherish it in your heart, and there is no water in it. Flattery to your face is even worse. You can laugh it off and pretend that nothing happened. Maybe I'll ask you soon. You shouldn't ignore those who praise you in public. Maybe he will poke you with his finger as soon as you turn around. Master a principle: belittle yourself more and praise others less when you meet people, unless you choose the best.

12, don't be too greedy. Small favors, saving too much is a big hole. As long as you accept it, you must find opportunities to return, look forward to the spring rain and pay for the harvest. In fact, it is a simple relationship between seeds and fruits. Don't let innocence hurt you. Remember: life is like a play. Everyone is looking for a balance of interests. Only balanced games can be played.

13, mental patients are not legally responsible. Can bite you for no reason, so stay away from people like mad dogs, stay away from each other and communicate more. To say the least, believing madness is also a kind of personality. Although it is not worthy of respect, it has its own reasons for existence and is an indispensable link in the biological chain.

14, be a living tourist. In the final analysis, as long as you treat others well, serve others with virtue, stay away from right and wrong, and be close to your family, you will have peace of mind and comfort. Optimism comes from tolerance, generosity, understanding and detachment.

Have a peaceful mind. Being in a bad mood is when you can't relax. In fact, the reality is not as bad as you think. There are peaks and valleys in life, and there is no plain sailing life at all. It is a kind of courage to pick it up. Putting it down, picking it up and putting it down requires a kind of mind. Well, three ups and downs, in the end, he doesn't take care of everything.

16, the so-called fate is nothing more than good and evil. Cherish the good and don't absolutely reject the bad. I believe that passing by is also fate. With a population of nearly 6 billion, it is not easy to meet anyone. Therefore, if you encounter bad karma, try to be tolerant and give each other a chance. If you can't get on, you can totally deny it.

17, don't let career setbacks affect your family, let alone family disputes affect your career. It's not cost-effective, and family and career will be affected or even lost. Men, in particular, should be good at carrying things. Men should swallow their tears, not flick them off.

18, treat people in a correct position, don't always think of yourself as a character, a leader, a rich man, a lover, and always feel good about yourself ... Even if you really make small achievements and make great achievements, you should be cautious, open-minded and stupid. In fact, the final outcome of people is the same, but you see yourself as complicated. As the saying goes, never take yourself seriously. ......

19. People who cheat you once will never give up the chance to cheat you again. Don't have any illusions about it. Improving one's status by belittling others will expose one's ignorance and poverty. This requires good quality and profound knowledge, so I dare not approach you!

20. Always be a happy person and dare to do things you have never done. Share your happiness with others. For example, take a trip and share with you what you have learned on the way, and you will find that the world will be better. I'll be happier myself. Office theft

1. Make people complicated and things simple. Everything is done by people. When you see people clearly, you won't be surprised by what they have done, and you won't suffer the same loss again.

2. Learn from others' opinions appropriately. If you accept it all, you will be at a loss and never know what to do.

3. Always keep your manners, be reasonable and speak frankly.

4, learn to play dumb, everyone has a bad mood, complaining and venting. It's no big deal to hear gossip as long as it's not said to your face.

It's better to be strict in the office, talk less and do more. Don't think that you will suffer. You may suffer a little loss, but it won't be a disaster.

6. If you really have a lot of brains to play with, you can certainly use them. People who are good at dancing with long sleeves are really popular in this society, but if you are not so smart, it is better to be honest, otherwise you may be the first to suffer big losses!

7. Keep a correct attitude, don't compare with others, just compare with yourself.

8. Learn to be grateful for everything. No pains, no gains. If not, treat it as normal. If you have it, treat it as a gift from heaven, and you will be happy.

9. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

10, don't doubt your working ability just because you are not suitable for this job. !