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Give vent to some famous sayings
Everyone wants to be eloquent, do things beautifully, win the appreciation of others, and show their abilities with ease. Whether you have social skills and work level mainly depends on whether you can grasp the scale of speaking and the discretion of doing things. Appropriate speech scale and appropriate discretion are the most effective means for people to gain social recognition, appreciation from superiors, support from subordinates, love from colleagues and help from friends.

1, original code

Nine out of ten words may not be surprising. If one word is wrong, it will be a good collection. 90% of the ten attempts may not be attributed to it. An attempt that fails is a public opinion. A gentleman would rather be silent than impetuous, but Ning Zhuo is not smart.

interpret

Nine out of ten sentences are right, and people may not praise you, but if one sentence is wrong, it will be criticized by many people; Nine times out of ten, the strategy is successful, and people may not praise your success, but if you fail once, complaints and accusations will follow, which is why a gentleman would rather be silent than speak lightly, not appear clumsy or smart.

First think and then speak.

In a complicated society, all kinds of relationships are confusing and all kinds of phenomena are complicated. Especially in interpersonal communication, there are not a few people who are jealous of talents. When you say nine out of ten sentences, no one may praise you, but if you say one wrong sentence, you will often be criticized.

2. Keep your mouth shut and guard against death.

Original code

Mouth is the heart door, shut up and let go of the real machine; It means that the heart is full, the defense is not strict, and the evil road is exhausted.

interpret

The mouth is the door to the soul. If the door is not well defended, all the secrets inside will be exposed. Will is the foot of the soul. If it is not firm, it may go astray like a cripple.

It is not advisable to gossip too much. In interpersonal communication, we should not only keep our mouths shut, but also pay attention to the artistic beauty of language.

3. A variety of peaches and plums do not accumulate poetry books.

Original code

It is a blessing to plant more peaches and plums and less thorns; If you don't accumulate poetry books, you accumulate jade. It's like creating a curse.

interpret

A variety of peaches and plums and less thorns is a happy road; Not paying attention to the accumulation of knowledge, but lusting after jade jewelry is like planting a curse.

A good word warms three winters, and a bad word makes trouble for no reason.

People need praise, just as seeds need sunshine. A simple compliment can inspire others and better integrate the feelings between people. "Variety of peaches and plums, less thorns", from a certain point of view, is to persuade us to be good at praising, praise and encourage more, and talk less sarcastically. Everyone who knows how to praise the art will realize that praise has the same happiness for the giver and the receiver, just as painters and musicians take pleasure in creating beauty, it warms people and fills this complex world with joy.