Your sister-in-law is also your wife's sister. She is your wife's closest relative. In terms of kinship, the relationship between her and you is also very close. In such a close relationship, what does it matter if she doesn't buy anything and often comes to her brother-in-law's and sister's house to eat? I want to tell you something: complaining too much will prevent you from having a broken heart, and you should keep an eye on things. From this, I feel that if you are really unhappy, then something is really wrong.

Sister-in-law often comes here to have a meal

A sister-in-law often comes to have a meal, which means that she regards her sister’s house as her own home and you as her own family, so she is happy to come here often Have a meal.

Actually, if you think about it again, how much can a girl eat? Does it make you feel a heavy burden? Does it make you feel financially overwhelmed? If not, then why should you care?

Sister-in-law doesn’t buy anything

Your sister-in-law often comes over to eat, so you think she should come over to buy things. It seems that you attach too much importance to material things. In fact, between relatives, especially in such a close relationship. If you attach too much importance to material things and despise spiritual relationships, let me feel that you are a bit too shallow.

Whether she buys gifts, dishes, etc., or buys nothing at all, I don’t think you should care about it. The quality of the relationship between relatives does not depend on the amount of gifts or whether they are present or not. On the contrary, if your sister-in-law doesn't buy anything, it truly reflects your status in her heart. She really regards you as her closest relatives, so she doesn't care about these material things.

If she brings gifts every time she comes to your home, this is a truly out-of-touch approach. She underestimates you in her heart and feels that only gifts can maintain the relationship between you. Don't you think it's a little sad?

Her sister never said it

Her sister never said it, which I think is very normal. After all, she is her own sister. Do you want her to tell you? My sister said, will you buy gifts every time you come here? Don't you think this approach is very heartless? If she really did this, I think your wife is too snobbish.

Her sister's lack of words shows that she regards her as her own family and takes it for granted. She never takes it to heart whether she brings a gift or not, let alone cares about it. If you have such a wife, you should feel very happy. You have married a very kind wife, a good wife who will not calculate and care about gains and losses.

Is it wrong to be unhappy as a brother-in-law?

If your sister-in-law often comes to eat and doesn't buy anything to make you unhappy, I think you are really at fault. You are not a generous, open-minded man. I feel that you are a bit unworthy of your sister-in-law's sister. You must have let down her deep love for you.

As a man, don’t be too stingy and careless in life, otherwise it will really lose the title of a man. So what do you think? All in all, as a man, you should have a certain tolerance, be able to tolerate many problems in life, and be able to take on some responsibilities. You should not worry about the small things in life, otherwise it will go against the harmony of the family. I think in the end, you will not want to see it. Arrive.