Forgiving others' mistakes is not necessarily a virtue; ignoring one's own mistakes is the most irresponsible release. The following are 49 healing quotes that I carefully prepared. You are welcome to read them.

1. We all need to think clearly about three questions: first, what do you have, second, what do you want, and third, what can you give up. For most people: it is easy to evaluate their current situation when it comes to what they have; they also have clear ideas in their hearts about what they want; the most difficult thing is that they don’t know or dare not give up what they want. This is exactly what determines the ability of what you want. Whether it is truly realized, no one can get everything without giving up.

2. People are like tops. The more people they pass by, the more freely they spin. I'm afraid that later on, I won't be able to control the inertia of rotation, and I'll habitually miss whoever I meet.

3. Don’t take other people’s evaluations too seriously. As long as you have a clear conscience, you don’t have to worry too much.

4. Deep words should be spoken lightly, and a long road should be walked squanderingly. The big world must be felt honestly, and the painful wounds must be gently rubbed. Give brave blessings when you are surrounded by others, and believe that you are worthy when you are not understood.

5. If two people want to be together well, there must be one person who can endure it. Those sadnesses and grievances, I really want to say, but actually I understand them all. We are not as happy as we seem every day, and we all have times when we are very tired. I can see your fatigue. I want you to be happy, even if you are sad, as long as you think of someone silently accompanying you, you can feel warm even in a far away place.

6. Listening to you tell your distressed story stimulates my incomprehensible heart.

7. Simple things become complicated if you think deeply about them, and become cumbersome if you think about them too much. Complicated things become simple if you take them lightly; if you see them through, they become relaxed. The original work is from a famous scholar. A broad mind is the Tathagata. You don’t have to be so meticulous in your life! There are hundreds of turbulences in the world, and there are always reasons. All kinds of experiences in life are all due to good fortune.

8. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them; many things can only be understood after they are lost. Between gain and loss, we realize that life does not have so many so-called attachments. Don't blindly immerse yourself in the memories of the past, feel yourself, feel sad about yourself, and forget the beauty of reality.

9. If you pursue, you will be disappointed; if you live, you will have troubles. The so-called forever, the so-called past, what cannot be reached is forever, what cannot be forgotten is the past. Sometimes, there is no next time, no chance to start again, no pause to continue. Sometimes, if you miss the present, you will never have the chance.

10. Listen to the sad music and the beautiful and silent melody in your ears. My heart is broken without trace, I am moved by heaven and earth, but I cannot move you. The dream is gone, the heart is broken, and you are just preparing to leave. Smiling is not because you have been happy for too long, but because you have forgotten to be sad for too long. I stand in the corner where you can't see, waiting invisibly.

11. No matter how bad the world is, your own world must be wonderful; no matter how dark the human heart is, your heart must be bright. Don't use bad to fight bad, don't use darkness to fight darkness.

12. We can be ordinary, but we cannot live without dreams. For it, we will never retreat, never give up, and never hesitate. Thank you for all the encounters and partings, just like the lines engraved in the bottom of my heart by time. I have been sad and melancholy, but what remains is more warmth.

13. Knowledge arms the mind, and wisdom controls the mind.

14. If you don’t speak when you are sad, you are the most vulnerable; if you don’t speak when you are silent, you are the most lost. True concern is the comfort of the soul; true possession is the companionship of life.

15. The more you care about a person, the more frustrated you will be; the more you value a relationship, the more heartbroken you will be. If others don't take you seriously, why should you take it seriously? If others don't care about you, why should you be so devoted?

16. There are too many things in the external environment that we cannot control. Instead of wasting time complaining, it is better to spend time thinking about the parts that we can control.

17. Life is just a train bound for the end. I hope someone will stand on the platform in autumn and go to a warm future with you.

18. I know that time can heal everything, but I don’t know how long it will take.

After parting, we can see each other and talk. Even if we are still attracted to each other, even if we still have feelings for each other, what we consume is still the past, and what we feel is still the past. It's hard to be in love again, it's hard to be moved, and you're still disappointed after the passion. It's best not to turn around after you leave.

19. I know that everyone has to walk step by step on their own journey. Nothing is perfect. I know it when I am tired. To save everyone's tears, you must wipe them yourself. Once you figure it out, you will feel relieved. Standing at the intersection of life, my heart is smelling the moist air. It is inevitable that there will be sadness and disappointment in my heart. I understand better that there are too many things that go against your wishes, and too few things that come true, and beautiful things often appear inadvertently and surprise you.

20. Many things are not something I can do just by thinking about them. There are many things that I can get without asking for them. There are many people that I can keep if I don’t keep them. Too many things gradually become impossible to do; too many people gradually disappear. Growth seems to be a lost process.

21. No one will be nice to you for no reason. Either they care about you or they have other reasons and other intentions.

22. A harmonious life is inseparable from touching and being touched.

23. Throughout our lives, all we have to learn is to embrace each other.

24. If you have kind thoughts in your heart, the sun will shine on you; if you have beauty in your heart, warmth will surround you; if you have great love in your heart, nobility will follow you; if you have others in your heart, true love will be returned to you. ; Be grateful, and noble people will favor you.

25. If you are planning to get married, I would like to inform you of a very important philosophical saying: "You must tolerate the flaws of the other person. There is no absolutely happy and satisfying marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and tolerance." Respect each other.

26. No matter where a smart person falls, he will pick up something useful.

27. It is unethical to only look forward to happiness and not write about sadness. Melancholy, no matter how many flowers are blooming, I just want to smile and be safe in high school.

28. Read more books and travel more. Only by devoting yourself to fiery practice will you gain true knowledge!

29. Once the heart grows old, so will the dreams.

30. In the small space of the chessboard, even from corner to corner, the feeling of playing chess is stirring. The spark of people's thinking. —— Murai Tadayuki's "Natsume's Book of Friends"

31. I will be very happy when I talk nonsense with you. Unfortunately, this happiness is not mutual, and I have always been worried about it. Feelings will bring you a burden, so just stay friends and get through each other.

32. In order to make the future better, you must suffer a little more now.

33. I absolutely do. I will definitely become the person I want to be, and I will definitely let everyone who looks down on me look up to me!

34. The worries that disturbed my mind yesterday have become the past in a blink of an eye; when I look back, I have already seen them! There is no trace of the past.

35. When the smoke falls in love with the lighter and betrays the fire material, the fire material chooses to destroy itself.

36. You pretend to be invulnerable. If you look like this, you must be prepared to be pierced by thousands of arrows; in your life, you will either have money and security, or you will have love and happiness.

37. Don’t give up in front of true love, even if you like it. People ask you to give up.

38. Twist the memories soaked in time and let them dry, and you can still smell the smell of youth and dreams.

< p> 39. It is you who is my shoulder when I am most sad. It is you who make me gain light in despair. To me, you are my miracle.

40. Be trusted. When someone deceives, they feel like an idiot. It’s not just anger but regret. Being hurt by someone you love deeply is like a knife stabbing your heart. It’s not just pain but scars!

< p> 41. The feeling of happiness is to kiss you, look at your shy look, blushing cheeks, lowering your head, not daring to look at me, or giving me a shy smile to express your love. Turn around with a charming smile and leave.

42. Don’t think that finding a rich man will give you everything. Girls are as abundant as Coke on the shelf. It doesn't matter whether you drink it or not. If you don't like your current job, either quit your job or keep silent.

43. Is a journey in childhood really short? The distance shortens, the time lengthens, and we are lost. Is a journey in childhood really short? The distance shortens, the time lengthens, and we are lost.

44. Although we no longer love each other, although we have both left...but those days together are like old movies that we watch when we have time.

45. Girls, you must study hard, whether you are a junior college or undergraduate, choose a major that is good for employment or a major that you like, and you will have a decent job in the future. Only in this way, if you fall in love with an excellent boy in the future, you can marry him decently, and his parents will respect you and treat you like jewels. Who said that a girl’s job is not important and that marrying a good husband is enough? You must be good enough to meet a better person.

46. Thank you for the people who appeared in your life and are still by your side. They made you understand what you need most. From now on, you will never be asked to give more than I give mine. Friends, my family, my lover, I love you. It is not pretentious at all to say this now.

47. The vast majority of reasons why your expression is rejected is: the other person doesn’t like you.

48. Just like a charger, even if it is a universal charger, it will encounter those built-in batteries!

49. This is what a good life is like. On this side, hormones, vanity and desire are like fierce fires, burning until death; on the other side, compassion, kindness and love, and personality cultivation can also last forever. The end.