As the old saying goes, there is a friend's 1000 glasses of wine hanging on his chest. If there is a disagreement, there is no speculation.

People will meet many people in this life, but most of them just pass by and meet by chance. Therefore, not everyone needs to please and pursue perfection.

Incompatible relationships are getting harder and harder. The circle that can't be squeezed is crowded and troublesome.

The most comfortable relationship between people is usually that they don't need to please or bargain every detail, pay for each other, treat each other honestly, and get along naturally and comfortably.

Not very flattering.

Cai Kangyong's description of happiness is as follows:

"An important criterion for me to measure happiness is whether I can always say no to many things I don't like.

Saying "no" is a very happy thing, because you don't have to push yourself into the mire.

In fact, the most comfortable relationship does not require flattery; The happiest thing is to say no to things you don't like.

Wang Leehom's divorce has caused a great sensation recently.

Overnight, the well-run "good man" in Wang Leehom was established and completely destroyed.

The three exits of the masses were cancelled one after another.

The fundamental reason is the disharmony of virtue.

As a talented artist, Francois didn't follow suit.

His ex-wife, Li Lianglei, decided not to put up with it any longer and asked for a divorce when Wang Leehom fled.

When a man decides to please himself, he has no weakness. No emotional label can stop its rationality and persistence.

Everyone knows the ending.

Wang Leehom was discouraged.

A hypocritical person will never become a real person.

Any relationship that needs flattery can't last. Things that need to be carefully kept are abnormal.

Love, affection and friendship are all the same.

Who will please you when you try to please others? Who cares about you?

Yi Shu said: "Life is only a few decades. The most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. "

Rather than please others, please yourself, know yourself and know yourself better.

He doesn't care much.

Zhou said: "Great saints must be modest, and great good people must be tolerant. Only smart people are positive, and good people are embarrassed. "

Caution is the beginning of loss. The more you care, the more you lose.

I know there is a problem. What's it like to compete blindly with others?

One answer is: "it's like chasing the enemy in a maze." I wanted to beat the other part, but I stuck to it. "

Yes, I think so, yes.

There is a classic story in The Analects:

The guest asked Zigong, "How many seasons are there in a year?"

Zi Gong replied: "Four seasons."

The guest replied, "There are only three seasons in a year. Why do you say four seasons? "

Zi Gong corrected it, so two people with different opinions argued.

Confucius heard this voice and said to his guests, "There are only three seasons in a year." Hearing this, the guest left happily.

Zi Gong doesn't understand. Confucius said, "This man is young. He is obviously the incarnation of locusts. They live in spring and die in autumn. They have never experienced winter. Of course he will discuss the four seasons. "

In life, such people are not many. Subjectively, they are not wrong, but objectively, they are obviously wrong.

But you can't always solve it. Cognition determines understanding. The level of others is lower than that. Breaking the sky is throwing pearls in front of pigs.

It is wise not to care too much.

Not too weak.

Read a story.

Xiao Wu is kind, kind, especially clean and a little weak.

Staff dormitory, get along with people with different personalities in different places.

Because he speaks beautifully and rarely refuses others, he often brings rice and water to his roommate.

After a long time, everyone will get used to it.

Others have bad habits. Even though they get off work late, they still like drinking, playing cards and smoking.

Once, Xiao Wu came home from work and found the door locked. He knocked on the door for a long time, but no one answered.

Then the door opened.

Roommates are sleepy and complain that their dreams are disturbed.

Xiao Wu apologized many times.

It was not until he saw the mess that his bed became a mess. This is the first time he got angry and shouted to everyone: I will clean the sanitary equipment in the future. Don't clean, as long as it's not dirty!

Angry Xiao Wu folded the steel pipe on the iron bed with one punch, and everyone suddenly calmed down. They were angry when they first saw you, and your eyes were scary.

After that, others began to consciously keep the room clean and tidy.

Writer Yu Hua has a famous saying: "When we treat the world violently, the world suddenly becomes kind."

Actually.

The eternal truth is that people are good at riding horses.

No matter how honest you are, when things happen, don't be weak and don't give up.

Many people can make progress in life.

When they retreat and become weaker, another group will become stronger.

Not all concessions and weakness can be exchanged for good results.

People get along well with others. If they are still uncomfortable after a period of running-in, I believe your feeling. This man is different from you.

Get along with others, don't cry roast meat, don't force yourself; Don't worry too much, get out of the way. Don't be too weak, they are wrong.

Friends, family, lovers, knowing how to measure, will last forever.

In the rest of your life, if you can meet friends who don't need to please, don't care, and treat others sincerely, please cherish this relationship.