Don't talk when you are poor.

Don't be humble and advise others.

Don't bear a heavy burden when you are in trouble.

This is a wise saying left by our ancestors, which is still applicable even in today's society.

don't talk if you are poor, and don't persuade others if you are humble. The two sentences have similar meanings. It doesn't mean that you are not allowed to talk, and your daily communication with people remains the same. It's just that when someone else's career encounters problems, the poor should not talk nonsense and participate in opinions. No one will care if you say it, and some will even laugh at you. Because you are poor, you have decided your position in people's hearts.

if nothing else, just watch the general wedding banquet, and the one who is the first is not respected and successful. The toast didn't start with the rich. "Don't believe it, but look at the wine in the table, and respect the rich first." It hurts the poor, but it is true.

some people may think that it doesn't matter if I am poor, as long as I am talented. By the way, if a person is talented, will he still be poor? Although many people complain that modern society is unfair, modern society gives everyone enough space to play. As long as you are good at something, you will never be a poor person (except in special circumstances).

It literally means that if you don't have that much strength, don't carry such heavy things. In a deeper sense, it is how much ability you have and how much work you take. If you are an ordinary person and have no talent, can you do it for a president? Don't bite off more than you can chew.

the last sentence; Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble, that is, don't ask relatives for help when you are in trouble. Because, if relatives give money to help you, they will be afraid that you will not pay him back, and if you don't help, you will feel hard. Many relatives have broken contact because of borrowing money.

I feel deeply at this point. When I was a child, my brother was seriously ill and spent a lot of money. At that time, my father's sister, a fellow nurse, was so scared that she didn't come into my house for five years. Originally, my aunt's family was quite rich, and my father wanted to borrow some money. When he saw this, he didn't go.

in the end, it was many friends of my father who sent money to tide over the difficulties themselves. Of course, my aunt's worries are justified. The debts owed by my family were not paid off until our brothers grew up. It took a long time to pay them off after five years, and we lost a lot of interest alone.

a few years later, although my aunt went back to her mother's house several times, I went to see her every year, and I always felt worse when I met her. As for my cousin, who lived in my home for several years when he was a child, he was embarrassed to see me and even avoided us. Now that we have entered middle age, we are even more alienated, and we are limited to walking around during the New Year. My father lamented that this relative, if I don't have it, will come to an end.

So, don't underestimate the wisdom of the ancients. In just four sentences, we can tell all kinds of things in the world, and human feelings are warm and cold.

don't talk if you are poor.

for example, if your friend is terminally ill and you are poor, what can you say? Don't be afraid, you say, everyone will have such a day?

For example, if your children are getting married and have no house, what can you say if you are poor? You said don't worry, it's true love to wander the streets?

it is the poisoned chicken soup that refuses to face the reality and is forced by poverty. The correct way is to cut the crap and roll up your sleeves and work hard.

I don't want to persuade people.

this sentence is the highest wisdom in the workplace. Just do what the leader tells you. Where is so much nonsense?

In the past, there was an example of Huawei. A newcomer just came in and wrote a million words to suggest company reform. Ren Boss's reply: Please send it to medical appraisal for mental illness.

take a break from the load.

There is a saying in Zhouyi: Virtue is thin and position is respected, wisdom is small and ambition is great, strength is small and heavy, and it is rarely as good as itself.

This tells everyone to be self-aware, not to aim too high, not to mention the vegetarian position.

is it realistic for you to let a three-year-old child carry a refrigerator up three floors?

At present, some bosses pay a monthly salary of 3, yuan to recruit a small soldier, but expect decathlon to be able to do the work that people with an annual salary of one million yuan can do. If you can't do it, blame the employees for not making progress. Who on earth drank too much poisoned chicken soup?

don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.

This sentence is the basic function of modern civilized society.

In modern society, citizens should be given basic protection. It is difficult to save, and the disease depends on it.

for example, when the flood comes, we hope to find relatives to flee? What's the difference between that and the Republic of China? We are counting on the people's soldiers and government assistance.

for example, when the epidemic comes, we hope to find relatives to take refuge? Wouldn't that expand the spread of the epidemic? It should be isolated at home, and at the same time believe in the government, and it should be cured.

of course, the government is not omnipotent. But relatives are even less so. Everyone is under great pressure, and their help is limited. They mainly have to rely on themselves.

The last two sentences of "Don't talk when you are poor, don't persuade others when you are humble" are "Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble".

This is an exhortation that has been handed down from the people in China, and even now it still has its practical significance.

Literally speaking, you can't live a rich life and are poor, even if you shout loudly, will anyone listen? I thought you were poor and crazy.

people with official positions, status and ability can respond to everything at once. How did the lower class people in the past have the right to speak?

It depends on your own strength, whether it is physical strength or ability. Doing what you can't do is called overreaching, which will make people look down on you more and more.

In the past, many people were snobs. Relatives who were rich and powerful were attached to the dragon and phoenix, and even relatives who were out of reach would come to the door, fearing to hide from those who were without money and power. In this respect, some people now behave the same way.

After the founding of New China, everyone has the right to speak, and the superior leaders will go deep into the grassroots to listen to the voices of the people, so as to establish prestige and do things for the people.

For everyone, we should first be good at ourselves. Only when we are good at ourselves can we be convincing and get the respect we deserve. "Don't talk if you are poor, but you don't deserve it." < P > Hello, everyone, I am a drinker in Jiangyang, a lover of folk culture research. Why do you suddenly want to talk to you about the proverb "Don't talk if you are poor, but don't persuade others if you are humble?" Because it doesn't come from historical classics, it is a folk saying, which is similar to the saying of "Zengguang Xianwen", and I don't know if it is popular, because wine sellers in Luzhou, a fourth-tier city, have never heard such words from the older generation.

I've heard the old man exhort me that "when I'm away from home, I can eat, but I can't talk nonsense". In fact, to put it bluntly, I mean to be cautious in my words and deeds. But unlike the above sentence, that means you should recognize the class problem. To put it bluntly, if you have no power and status, then you have mastered the truth, and no one will pay attention to what you say, and if you have these, then some people say that your fart is fragrant.

does it sound uncomfortable? I can't help it. It also exists. Augmented sages have long told us: human feelings are like thin paper, and world affairs are like chess. Poor people live in downtown areas, but rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. Don't believe me, but when you look at the wine in the banquet, you should respect the rich first.

people's snobbery can't be changed because of our persistence in simplicity. In fact, this sentence was told us in the Book of Songs thousands of years ago, that is, "to be wise and protect our health".

In Poem Elegance and People, it is said: "Be wise and wise to protect yourself, stay up all night, and take care of yourself."

The original meaning is that you can not only know good and evil, but also distinguish right from wrong, and keep it in this state, so as to achieve and protect your own morality from pollution. As a local people, you should work hard to serve the chief executive sooner or later and do his due duty.

But later, it became synonymous with low-key, forbearance, avoiding powerful people, hanging high, indifference, helplessness, etc., which obviously ran counter to the original intention.

sometimes it's not that you don't want to break through, but this kind of shackles build a high heart wall between people, which separates people's hearts and refuses to let the kind sunshine shine on the suffering and cold of the same kind.

until today, you can see very few breakthroughs. Although Cao said that "carnivores are contemptuous", he did break through the disparity in status and was recorded in history, but later, what about Cao Gui?

There is no record in history. Zuo Zhuan recorded such a thing: Duke Zhuang of Lu wanted to go to the State of Qi to worship the social gods, but Cao Gui dissuaded him from going, saying that it was not polite. If future generations saw it, they would be ashamed.

Duke Zhuang of Lu replied with a word, get out! You found that without him, you still answered the sentence "Don't talk if you are poor, and you are humble and don't persuade others." You thought that you would change the concept of class by making a little contribution to the grassroots, which was really too confident. It's not as wonderful as the ancients said, "making a fortune in silence", but unfortunately many people don't understand it.

Although we don't approve of discrimination, it's hard to be fair. Most people do things according to their likes and dislikes, instead of talking about things. Especially at a certain level, whether right or wrong, it's difficult to hear opinions, and it's even harder to hear them, so it's hard to be cold at the top. When you think you are suffering at the bottom, people at the top often lose their listening ability, which also leads to a series of vicious cycles. And listening is democracy, and it can last long. But how many people can jump out of this strange circle?

and there is a second paragraph in this passage, which says, "Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble." In fact, it tells us that people's abilities are limited, so we should do what we can, whether it is personal ability or helping others. It seems that relatives and friends should be the people you can turn to for help, and this kind of person usually looks like a brother, but at the critical moment, it is a stranger and ice-cold. Nowadays, there is another phenomenon, that is, people have suffered misfortune, and their relatives have refused to stay away. On the contrary, strangers in society have lent a helping hand, which makes people feel embarrassed.

It's not that the society is too indifferent, but that there are always things in human nature that we dare not imagine. To put it bluntly, the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny. What should we do? In fact, I think that life may be different if we abide by the old adage of keeping ourselves sane, instead of changing our taste, lowering our demands on others and strictly restraining ourselves.

Yes, people are poor, don't talk, don't talk, don't persuade people. This is especially true from the past to the present. Don't go forward and be a guest, don't lean back and have no money. Don't try to be brave when you don't want to be self-aware, but you must strengthen your strength if you want to stand tall. The short ten words have a profound truth.

People are poor, don't talk, don't persuade people, and the last two sentences are more classic, you know?

that is, don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.

People are poor and don't talk. People are poor simply because they don't have money. Why don't they have money? It's not just because they don't have enough ability.

first of all, you should know that money is a person's face, but also a person's courage. If you don't have money, it means that you are doing badly. Why do others believe you and how can they listen to you?

I don't want to persuade others, which shows that I am low in status and don't know much knowledge and truth. Otherwise, I would have been getting along well, so I don't need to persuade others earnestly.

It is difficult for people to influence and change a person. Just be yourself. There is a folk saying that a wise man does not need to give directions, and that is what he means.

No matter what you do, you should first have a clear understanding of yourself and self-evaluation, and do everything according to your abilities.

For those things that are beyond one's ability, one will face great pressure, feel that one's strength is beyond one's ability, and bring great pain and trouble to oneself, and some will lose more than one's gain.

Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble. There will inevitably be ups and downs in your life. When you encounter difficulties and are struggling, you will feel cornered.

The best way is to build up firm confidence, grit your teeth and try your best to overcome the immediate difficulties.

First of all, we have to understand a truth. From the perspective of human nature, people like to do icing on the cake, and few people can do it in a timely manner.

relying on mountains will fall down, and everyone can run. Only when you are strong, it is the last word that you are talented. It is best to give up the idea of helping your relatives.

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If you are poor, don't talk,

If you are humble, don't persuade others.

Take care of the burden,

Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.

These are four proverbs left by the ancients, which can also be regarded as the experience of the sages. Literally, they are actually very easy to understand, but according to ordinary people's understanding, it seems that these four sayings are too pessimistic and negative to be accepted easily.

can't people talk when they are poor? You can't persuade people in a low position, you can't carry heavy things when you are weak, and you can't even ask relatives for help in case of disaster? What's the point?

at first glance, it's really cold and warm. But what the ancients really want to persuade the world is that when we are at a low position or at a relative disadvantage, we should do what we can to avoid unnecessary troubles and disputes.

when people are poor, they should talk less and keep a low profile in front of everyone, so as not to be ridiculed and lose face. If you are in a low position, you should advise others less, because what you say is not convincing, easy to refute and boring. Don't try to be brave and bear any heavy burden if you are equally weak, so as not to be able to bear the mistake, you should do what you can. As for the disaster, try not to involve relatives, solve it yourself if you can, and don't bother others.

What the ancients said is also reasonable, otherwise it will not be passed down for thousands of years, don't you think?

don't talk if you are poor, and don't persuade others if you are humble. Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.

The first two sentences of this sentence mean that a person should never talk nonsense when you are down and out, and should listen to other people's opinions more. Don't persuade others when you are in a humble position, and don't talk boastfully. If you are a clay idol crossing the river, you are not qualified to speak loudly and teach others lessons. You are not strong, of course, and you will be looked down upon.

The last two sentences say don't carry a heavy load when your strength is weak and not strong enough, which will only make you tired, and you will get more and more tired. If you don't live well, don't go to visit your relatives. If your relatives see that you are not doing well, they will hide far away, just like avoiding the plague. The so-called poverty is not asked in the downtown area, and wealth has distant relatives in the mountains, which is a true portrayal of the above four sentences.

Our life is not always smooth sailing, and we will encounter setbacks and difficulties of one kind or another. When we are rich, don't look up and despise the poor, because you came from a poor time, so don't be discouraged when we have nothing, and learn with an open mind. As long as we firmly believe, people are not short of ambition and live from it.