There are three relationships with, namely, Qi, He and Gu. The first two paragraphs ended in nothing, each with its own reasons. Qi liked it, too, but the princess looked down on it and disagreed with him.
In the face of affection and love, Qi also chose the former. Later, when Qi Xiaogong could choose Ming Lan, Ming Lan stopped waiting for her.
In the second paragraph, his favorite is the old lady Hong Wen, a medical family, honest and considerate. Ming Lan once married such a man with high expectations, but he will be cherished all his life.
Later, he's cousin Jean thoroughly saw how powerful he was. My cousin's family is poor, and the royal family has helped a lot. My cousin used to be a concubine for others, but she was given safflower soup by Xiaosan, which led to lifelong infertility. Seeing that her future was bleak, she said what kind of concubine she wanted to be.
He was in a dilemma in Hong Wen, unable to make a decision. Ming Lan won't accept her husband's easy concubinage. He loves, but he can't stand the pain of his cousin Cao.
Looking at how soft-hearted, his heart quietly disappointed. What is the lowest point of Qi and He? One is weak and the other is soft-hearted, which is unacceptable to Ming Lan.
She knows that marrying a man is the lowest place after all. It is difficult for a cowardly and soft-hearted man to entrust him with his life. Isn't that what happens in real life? Men have all kinds of good things. If you have shortcomings, you can't accept them, and all good things can't make up for them. So when choosing a man, you should look at his shortcomings and see if you can get along with him in the next few decades.
02 "Sister Shulan took a wrong step and has entered a poor lane. Now that you are in a poor lane, you should turn around in time. It's too late to wait forever! "
This is what Ming Lan said when solving the marriage problem in Lan Shu. At that time, Lan Shu married a scholar Sun, and everyone thought that scholarly family would always be treated well.
I didn't expect Sun to be a self-reliant scholar, and at the same time, he was bohemian and unreasonable. He visited the Lan Shu family with his mother. At that time, Lan Shu's dowry was rich, and he was still a slave's world. Both Zhuangzi and he took him to slips.
However, Sun doesn't cherish Shulan, and he is still partying outside. Every time there is a conflict between Shulan and Sun, Shulan's family sends them to Tiandi and Zhuangzi in order to settle the conflict, hoping that the other party will appreciate them and get along well with Shulan.
However, the concessions of the Sheng family have brought Sun an inch. She married a dozen concubines and got a prostitute pregnant. Lan Shu was forced to go to no way back.
Sheng Jia is also in a dilemma. If Lan Shu divorces, it will definitely have an impact on the future of the other daughters of the Sheng family. But if you don't divorce, Shulan can't live in the Sun family.
Later, it was to reassure the Sheng family and let the bamboo slips agree to leave. Ming Lan is more characteristic of modern women. Family interests are important, but so is the future of women.
She knows that marriage often determines a woman's life, but life is long. Don't spend it on a rotten marriage. How many women face a bad marriage, don't have the courage to leave, and then roll in the mud, and finally ruin their lives.
Stop loss in time is the only rule of marriage.
Do you know that Li Niangzi is guarding Niangzi Pass? Neither father nor brother nor master can resist a million soldiers in the face of battle. "
This picture of Li Niangzi guarding Niangziguan was left to Ming Lan by Wei Xiaoniang. This painting is of great significance to Ming Lan and Wei Xiaoniang's hope for Ming Lan. She hopes that Ming Lan can be independent and strong.
Ming Lan did it, and he did it well. In the final plot, Gu was framed and imprisoned, and his family was ruined. As Gu's wife, it is bound to be affected.
At that time, Mrs. Wang suggested leaving with Gu first, and then reuniting after coming out. In this way, her child will not have to bear the shame of the son of the guilty minister, which is good for his future.
However, instead of choosing the best way, I chose to avenge Gu. It seems simple to rehabilitate, but what Ming Lan is facing is the unity of all the bad guys.
Xiao Qin joined hands with four rooms and five rooms, and the family behind Mrs. Wang, Mannia and the White House, all poured dirty water on Gu, even though there were thousands of mouths.
Ming Lan didn't give up. Even if she cared, she could give it all. Just gave birth to a child 15 days, and began to run around. She quietly collected evidence and drummed in court to express her grievances.
The emperor didn't see her, but she knelt all night until she fainted. Later, civil strife broke out in the imperial court, and thieves tried to attack the family again and again. Ming Lan did his duty. In the face of the enemy, she is fearless, settles down her children and fights against foreign soldiers like a man.
Ming Lan's courage and perseverance are impressive. Not only in this respect, but also on the issue of marriage, she also has her own experience.
Gu dotes on her and helps her with everything, but she also knows that she must learn to take on the housework of the whole family by herself, so as not to let Gu look down on her. Husband and wife love each other, and the other party will do anything for you, but there are still decades, and the other party cannot protect you for a lifetime. The most important thing is to learn to handle it by yourself.
Ming Lan's three sentences taught China women a lesson. Transparent, timely stop loss, brave and independent, this is what women should look like. Through the collision between times and individuals, the drama Know No conveys the foundation of women's foothold in this world.
Ming Lan is an example. Even in that society, she can still carve out her own path. Throughout the ages, women who really have a good life have always been like this. They don't give in to reality, don't cherish the past, cherish the present and manage themselves well, so as to get happiness.
As Ming Lan once said to grandma, "Granddaughter will remember grandma's teachings and live with her heart. No matter in good times or bad, we will never underestimate our enemies, be ambitious, be arrogant, neglect, complain or give up lightly. Who knows, maybe God will open his eyes and his granddaughter will eventually ... spring blossoms. " May you and I meet our own spring flowers like Ming Lan.