Teachers who have read the model essay 1 and don't complain participated in the "gongyi city Zhao Qian Chinese Teacher Studio". Under the arrangement of the studio, I recently watched The Teacher Who Doesn't Complain, and I was deeply touched. When I entered middle age, I was exhausted by involuntary fatigue from body to mind. Therefore, we often complain that we have the worry of increasing the burden, the helplessness, the pressure of career competition, the loss of youth, the daily trivial complaints, and the sadness and fear of future aging. ...
As teachers, we are busy with tedious and meticulous work, angry with students, and under heavy pressure because of heavy teaching tasks. Slowly, we began to complain about life and work. I sometimes complain about students: don't open your mouth and study early; Simple homework problems can't be done; Don't hand in the test paper; It's really worrying that a simple knowledge can't be done many times ... no one in the world is perfect, and no one will be completely satisfied with himself. People always have an invisible place, that is the blind spot of this person, that is the place where he stands. People's blindness makes us complain that we are meaningless, but we don't take the initiative to reflect and correct our behavior. As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." Since you can't be strict with your own perfection, you should also let yourself complain less about others and be more tolerant, kind and respectful.
Education is complicated. For every teacher, it is impossible to be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable to encounter setbacks and failures, especially for middle-aged me, family affairs, children's affairs, school affairs and my own affairs, just like a barometer, cloudy days from time to time, some cloudy days, sunny days, thunderstorms and dark clouds. My mood is influenced by trivial matters, and I often lose my temper and complain. Sometimes when people reach middle age, they must learn to bear, share and bear the hardships in life. When people reach middle age, they should learn to cherish what they have and welcome every day with a sunny attitude. As teachers, they need to have a mature sense of reason, a correct view of frustration, positive self-suggestion, good emotional control ability and a reasonable way of emotional excretion. In daily life and work, teachers should make their language full of sunshine, always treat students and education with a mother-like attitude, shape teachers' sunshine mentality and be a sunshine teacher.
Because teachers work with a group of observant and imitative children, their words, actions and actions are under the strictest supervision. Therefore, teachers must pay attention to self-love, and only by setting an example can they be a model. In addition to setting a good example image by self-love, teachers must also love others. Love for students is a noble moral emotion that teachers have towards the object of education when performing their duties, and it is the foundation of education. Because without love, there is no real education.
The teacher's duty is, in a word, "teaching and educating people". We often compare students to the flowers of the motherland, and teachers are hard-working gardeners. It is the important task of a gardener like a teacher to cultivate brilliant flowers with the rain and dew of knowledge and the sunshine of morality. Only when teachers make clear their mission and turn it into motivation can they constantly eliminate the influence of negative factors such as bitterness and tiredness on the road of struggle, and (2) they can adjust their mentality, keep forging ahead, make contributions to the education of the motherland, and thus realize their own life value.
Teachers often use this sentence to motivate students: methods are always more difficult than difficulties. But there are fewer people who really use themselves. There is a famous saying: "There are no students who can't learn well, only teachers who can't teach well." This is very reasonable. Students can't learn. It may not be that they are stupid, but that the method used by the teacher is inappropriate. Faced with more than 100 students, teachers always use one method to teach, but expect to get the same good results. You don't say! Each student's learning ability is different, and so are his skills in mastering knowledge. Some students are good at logical thinking, and some students are good at thinking in images, so the learning results are naturally different. Therefore, poor students are gradually formed: because they always don't adapt to the teacher's methods, their grades are getting worse. This can also be found from the fact that some students improve their academic performance by changing teachers. It is very demanding that the teacher should prescribe the right medicine for each student. There are so many adults in the class that the teacher can't have so much energy. Therefore, it is necessary to teach students in accordance with their aptitude and carry out small class teaching.
In real life, I often rush into the office with complaints, and the cup on my desk has already been filled with boiling water by my colleagues; I am on duty at noon, and my colleagues take the initiative to help me on duty; When I caught a cold, my colleagues helped me watch the class, and the students greeted me cordially and even smiled ... dribs and drabs, warm and harmonious, such a United and inclusive team, such a group of amiable and lovely children. What else can you complain about? After the dark clouds, my mood suddenly cleared up again.
Yes, we can't choose our own students, but we can change our mentality. In fact, no matter whether we are responsible, careful and tolerant, as long as we have a sunny attitude, we will have less troubles and more happiness. From now on, try to be a teacher who doesn't complain, don't complain about children's mistakes, don't complain about parents and don't complain about children's choices! With a tolerant heart, in a warm and harmonious office and family, welcome every day with a sunny attitude.
Be a teacher who does not complain. I am a teacher who pursues perfection in everything. As long as I take over the job, I always try my best to do it myself. This book is worthy of praise for its merits. But it is this advantage that has recently caused me to fall into pain and helplessness.
This semester, I teach Chinese in Class 4, Grade 5, and work as a class teacher. Large class size, poor students' knowledge, poor behavior habits, rural parents do not attach importance to education, so they let their children go. Recently, there are more and more students who don't do their homework, and criticism and education have little effect. This gave me a headache, so I became manic and began to complain often-why are all the children in this class so disobedient? Why are you so restless? Why is it so difficult to teach? Why do you dislike studying so much? Parents don't care what they do ... my mind is full of students' problems. When I complain, I always look angry in class. It is more difficult for students to see which students are not pleasing to the eye and are bored. Some students are a little distracted in class, and once I catch them, I will severely criticize them. It doesn't matter if they criticize the absent-minded students, other students sometimes suffer, either sitting still or copying the text; It should be better after class, but as long as you find some small friction between classmates, you will be convicted of fighting. Although they are often careful, they will never get my praise. After a long time, they gradually become more negative and confrontational. I, on the other hand, complain more about these children.
Seeing that I am so tired from work, I read the book "Be a teacher who doesn't complain" under the recommendation of my colleagues. This is like the warm sun in winter, which fills my heart with sunshine immediately and helps me point out the direction of my work. Makes me feel like a Jedi reborn. I can't help but sigh: it's good to be a teacher who doesn't complain!
Being a teacher who doesn't complain makes me understand that there is no child who doesn't make mistakes. The key is to ask them not to give up their studies and continue to work hard. In the face of children's mistakes, we should not be rude and harsh, treat each other coldly, and discriminate against students who make mistakes.
Put down the book and meditate: we adults can't guarantee that we won't do anything for 40 minutes in a class. What's more, we are dealing with eleven or twelve-year-old children. If they don't pay attention, they will make small moves. Sometimes it may be because our classes are not exciting enough. Think about it this way, adjust yourself this way, then don't we blame the students? Can you walk into the classroom with a smile on your face? Infect students with our smiles, and students will be happy to participate in classroom learning. For another example, many times, small frictions between classmates are not that important. It's like the growth of everything in nature. In the process of friction, sometimes you can learn the art of getting along with others. Therefore, our teachers can skillfully use these frictions, so that they can learn humility in friction and grow up gradually in friction. In this process, our teachers should be patient guides and guides, be tolerant of their mistakes and try to control their emotions. We don't have to make a fuss and be aggressive, nor can we suppress them as teachers and elders. This will not only solve the problem, but also make both teachers and students happy. Why not do it?
Research shows that each child's needs in the growth stage are different, and someone needs to instill guidance when he is ignorant; Put it down when you are old; When he is completely independent, there will be encouragement and spur. So you can't love students all the way to the end. Love should be hierarchical. Only by being good at guiding, using educational methods flexibly and prescribing the right medicine can genius appear in our hands! We give students happiness and hope, and they become our happiness and hope. Are you smiling at your hope, or are you miserable at your hope?
So, in the following days, I began to give up the idea of making all students "brilliant" and let my face smile more. Conform to nature, I teach students more attentively, feel and accept students' emotions, successes and failures. Gradually, I actually felt another kind of wealth that life brought me-the admiration of my classmates and their innocent smiling faces. And I also miraculously found that students are more active, more concerned about the class and more motivated to learn.
Yes, complaining can't solve any problems, and it won't give people any sense of accomplishment. On the contrary, it will make our negative emotions constantly superimpose, thus creating more unhappiness. Education and teaching is a kind of wisdom. "No complaints for teachers" makes me understand that teachers can't complain about others under any circumstances, which is also an indispensable educational wisdom.
"Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself", let's keep a happy mood and be a sunny teacher. Treat every child with a tolerant heart and let the children grow up happily in our care and care!
Do you want to make your life full of sunshine? Do you want to make you and your students happier? Then please read the book "Be a teacher who doesn't complain"!