The young monk who fought there had a little monk in a temple who had an argument with a peasant woman at the time of alms. Finally, the two men tore at each other, and as a result, they both scratched each other's faces. Later, other monks in the temple came to persuade them to leave and send the injured little novice monk back to the temple. After knowing the situation, the old mage didn't teach the little novice monk a word, so he set out to find cloth for the peasant woman in the offering, personally took the little novice monk to apologize and gave the cloth to the peasant woman. In this way, the peasant woman is sensible. She also said in front of the old mage that it was her fault and that she should not quarrel with the little novice monk who came to alms until she started. It was already dark when I came back from the farmer's house. The old mage didn't pay attention and tripped over a stone. After the little novice monk helped the mage up, he kicked the stone hard. The old mage said to the little monk, "The stone is in its original place, but it hasn't moved. I accidentally stepped on it. I can't blame it at all. I found it by accident this time. I should apologize to the stone ... "Little novice monk leng for a while, finally realized the mage's enlightenment. He blamed himself and said apologetically, "I'm sorry, master, it's my fault. I will pay attention to personal cultivation in the future. " In the journey of life, most of the muddy bumps are stepped on by yourself. Stumbling in work and life is mostly caused by various reasons. Many times, it's not that we get into trouble, but that we get into society. We should find the reasons from our own aspects, strive to improve our moral concepts, improve our sense of responsibility to society, and enjoy life and work enthusiastically with a sincere heart. When interpersonal relationships have a sticking point, do more self-criticism and think more about others.

2. Be good at relying on the strength of others, and keep the famous sayings (philosophical sentences) and celebrity examples of your ultimate success.

In a threesome, there must be a teacher: choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. -"Shuer" Confucius

3. Life philosophy stories and feelings

1, short story of life philosophy Part I: One kiss and one sparse.

Zen master Jiashan Shanhui and Zen master Shen Ying in Dingshan talked about Buddhism while walking. Zen master Ding Shan said: "If people can always realize that everything in the world is illusory and not even persistent in Buddhism, they can transcend life and death." Jiashan also expressed his insights not to be outdone: "If people can see their Buddha nature in the flow of life and death, they will not be confused by life and death, and they will be able to transcend life and death."

We went to Dameishan to meet Damei Master of the Dharma Field and expressed our opinions. Jia Shan asked Damei Changfa, "We don't know whose opinion is right?" "One kiss and one sparse." It means a right and a bad. Jia Shan asked, "Who is right?" The master of Damei Dafang replied, "Go back first and talk about it tomorrow."

Early the next morning, Master Jiashan went to ask Master Damei, "Which statement is right?" Master Delta often shouts: "The right person will not ask, and the person who comes to ask is wrong."

The life perception of Zen is a method that transcends both sides, does not stand or abolish, and points directly at people's hearts. Jia Shan believes that to transcend life and death, you must have a Buddha in your heart. Ding Shan believes that to get rid of life and death, even the concept of "Buddha" should be eliminated. When there is nothing, it is like saying "there is only half a glass of water left" and saying "there is still half a glass of water", but the views are different.

Jia Shan didn't understand, so he had to ask right and wrong, so he fell into the difference between words and thoughts. No wonder the Zen master of Damei Dafang called him wrong. When Zen asks right and wrong, it falls into binary opposition. Therefore, if Zen scholars insist on the distinction between good and bad, right and wrong, right and wrong, and size, it runs counter to Zen.

2. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 2: Zen on the Water Car

Five Elephant Monks feel thirsty when they walk. A young man in Lu Yu stepped on a waterwheel in a pond, so he asked the young man for a glass of water to drink. The young man said in an envious tone, "Zen master, if one day I see through the world of mortals, I will definitely become a monk like you." However, after I became a monk, I don't want to live without a fixed place and wander around like you. I will find a place to live in seclusion, meditate well and stop showing my face. "

The Zen master smiled and said, "Oh! Then when will you see through the world of mortals? " The young man replied, "I know the nature of waterwheels in our area best." Everyone in the village uses this as the main water source. If I find someone who can take care of my waterwheel, I can find my own way out and become a monk. " Master Wuxiang said, "You know the waterwheel best. Please tell me, what will happen if the waterwheel is completely immersed in water or completely out of water? "

The young man said: "the waterwheel is completely immersed in the water, not only can it not turn, but it will even be washed away by the rapids;" Completely out of water, the car can't get water. Wu Xiang, a Buddhist monk, said, "The relationship between the waterwheel and the water flow has explained the relationship between the individual and the world: if a person enters the WTO completely and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed into the world of mortals by the wave of five desires; If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle. After listening to this, the young man said happily, "Zen master, what you said really benefited me a lot." "

Life has learned that if a person completely enters the WTO and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed away by the tide of five desires. If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle.

3. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 3: Master Hongyi Bows

In the world, being afraid is afraid of being serious. Master Hongyi (Li Shutong) is the most serious, and everything is serious. Zhao Yan, the grandson of Ye Shengtao, wrote in The Old Man that once he was giving a music lesson to a student, a group of students surrounded him to watch him play the piano. A student farted and distracted everyone. After class, Li Shutong said seriously, "It's convenient in the future, please go outside." Say that finish and bow deeply to everyone.

In class, a classmate slammed the door when he went out. He immediately caught up with him, kindly asked him not to do this, and bowed seriously as usual. The students said that Miss Li's bow was stronger than anything else.

A student stole something from a classmate, and Xia Zun, the supervisor, asked for advice. Li said it was because the teacher didn't educate well. The invigilator should apologize to the students first, and then announce that the thief will come forward. If no one comes forward, the teacher will apologize and commit suicide. This gentleman is joking. If he speaks so seriously, the students will definitely stand up. Xia is Li's good friend. Although he agrees with Li, he is worried that the students will not stand up. Li Shutong said seriously, "Then commit suicide. Don't cheat the students." After a day of hesitation, I took another approach.

Liu Zhiping, a musical descendant of Li Shutong, has no financial resources to study in Japan. In order to help his disciple and reassure him, Li Shutong wrote a letter to his disciple seriously, detailing his income and expenses, which reassured Liu Zhiping. Li Shutong later became a monk. Before becoming a monk, he prepared a large sum of money for Liu to study until graduation. When the money was confiscated, Li wrote and said, "If I can't borrow this money, I will still work until you graduate."

The life experiences of the above four cases fully show that Li Shutong is "serious in everything" and "the most serious". In this regard, people may have different views on whether he is suspected of "making a mountain out of a molehill" and whether he treats life with awe and rashness. However, its earnest spirit is commendable and very human. The last example is amazing.

4. Life Philosophy Story 4: The Dream of Three Trees

Once upon a time, there were three trees. They all have their own dreams. The first tree wants to be a treasure chest, which contains all the precious things in the world, such as gold, silver and jewelry. The second tree wants to be built into a gorgeous ship, carrying the emperor and dignitaries. The third tree wants to grow into the tallest tree in the world, so that it can be closer to God.

Many years passed and a group of loggers came. The first tree was cut down, and the lumberjack said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to a carpenter. " This is good news, because carpenters can make treasure boxes. The second tree was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to the shipyard. " This is good news, because the shipyard will be a big ship.

The third tree was very scared when it saw the woodcutter coming towards it, because as long as the woodcutter cut it down, it meant that its dream was shattered. However, it was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "I haven't decided what to do with it yet." Let's cut it down first. "

Have the dreams of the first tree and the second tree come true? The first tree was made into a manger by a carpenter to hold horse feed. The second tree was made into a fishing boat by the shipyard and used to fish for fishermen. Their ending, like the third tree, is far from their dreams.

However, one day, two people passed by the manger, a couple. The woman gave birth to a boy, who was put in a manger. The first tree suddenly realized that the boy was the couple's most precious treasure in this world.

A few years later, several people climbed onto the fishing boat that was put on hold by the sea. From their conversation, the second tree learned that one of these people was a king who had just been defeated. After rescuing the fishing boat, the king made a comeback and became one of the greatest kings in history. After the local church was built, the third tree was made into a cross. The church is the closest place to God in the world.

Life Comprehension When dreams deviate from our pre-designed path, don't be disheartened, because sometimes dreams will come true in unexpected ways.

5, life philosophy short story 5: Good and evil are only in an instant.

An old monk sat on the side of the road, his eyes closed, his legs crossed, his hands clasped under his skirt, lost in thought. Suddenly, his meditation was interrupted. Interrupted by the samurai's hoarse and pleading voice, "Old man, tell me what heaven is!"! What is hell! "

The old monk didn't respond, as if he had heard nothing. But gradually he opened his eyes and a smile appeared on his mouth. The warriors stood by, anxious as ants on hot bricks. "You want to know the secrets of heaven and hell?" The old monk said, "You are really a rude person, with muddy hands and feet, unkempt hair and dirty beard." The sword is rusty, and you can tell at a glance that it is not well kept. You ugly, your mother dressed you up as a clown, and you came to ask me the secret of heaven and hell? "

The samurai cursed savagely, and then "brushed" his sword on the old monk's head. His face was flushed and the veins stood out on his neck, and he was about to cut off the old monk's head. The sword was about to fall when the old monk suddenly whispered, "This is hell." For an instant, the samurai was amazed and awed, and was full of pity and respect for the old monk who dared to teach him a lesson with his life. His sword stopped in mid-air and his eyes were filled with tears of gratitude. "This is heaven." The old monk said.

Life's perception of good and evil is often between thoughts. All evil thoughts, words and deeds are hell for yourself and others; All good thoughts, good words and good deeds are paradise for yourself and others. If everyone can abandon evil and do good, even hell can become heaven. Therefore, everyone should sit still and think about themselves, always look at their hearts, get rid of evil thoughts in their hearts, and give up words and deeds that hurt people. Let your heart become pure, and you will get real inner peace and tranquility.

(3) Extended reading of philosophical stories about self and others:

The story of life value: don't let yesterday's depression overshadow tomorrow's dream! At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.

Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands.

He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.

"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless.

But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or untidy, you are still priceless. "Tip: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in what friends we make, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!

4. Philosophical stories about challenging yourself

The story of lying in the heart and tasting courage in history, the story of hanging beam to bone, are all stories that challenge me.

5. Write a composition on the topic of "self and others" to help give some inspiration.

Relational questions, the proposition intention is to inspire candidates to pay attention to others, not to care about themselves and ignore others because of certain interests.

Genre selection:

Narrative style:

Tell a story about how you treat yourself and others.

Self-centered, do not think about others to reflect on the past;

You can also tell a story about your happiness in the process of caring for others.

Debate style

It can explain how to treat yourself and others.

Content selection

You can write about caring for the world and calling for true feelings, caring for families and expressing affection, or you can write about caring for the weak and seeing human feelings; You can also cut to the chase from the perspective of listening to others, approaching others and helping others.

In short, when writing, you should choose materials that can touch yourself and others, and you can organically combine narrative, description, discussion, lyricism and other expressions, so as to write excellent works with sound and affection.

Main reasons:

① Misread the topic of "self and others" as "self sees others" and regard "self" as a calm objective narrator rather than an active participant.

Put aside the topic and write a simple narrative about human beings.

The theme is not put forward to reflect the relationship between "self" and "others". The work has a narrow vision and lacks rational understanding.

Innovative scheme:

Perspective innovation-The fairy tale Candle Smile was compiled. In order to illuminate others, the candle burned itself, but without regrets, it kept smiling.

Theme innovation-intercepting typical fragments of getting along with people in real life,

String together to express the theme of "caring for others and being happy with yourself".

Stylistic innovation-writing novels,

Create a character who ignores himself and seeks benefits for others, highlighting the brilliance of human nature.

Classic material

1 We want to be happy, so we should also wish others happiness; We want to be free from pain, so we should also pray for others to be free from pain.

A countryman opened the door on the morning of New Year's Day and found a clay pot with ashes in front of it. He knew it was the curse of his neighbors, and two generations had enemies. He didn't come to the door angrily, but took a clay pot, filled the ground with soil and planted a lily. ...

One day, the flowers bloomed, and he quietly sent this potted flower to the door of his enemy. That day, the enemy came to the generous countryman's house in shame to apologize. Touching others with your own words and deeds will make the world a better place.

Appreciation of excellent works:

I can only go for a ride with you

In the course of everyone's life, there are always different ups and downs.

On the second day of National Day, my friend said he was leaving, and I insisted on seeing him off at the station. However, he stopped me: "It's a long way to see you off, Xiu Yuan." You can only accompany me to the school gate anyway. " I don't say anything anymore, but I feel something moving in my eyes and my vision is blurred.

Perhaps, everyone is just a fragment interspersed in other people's lives, destined to accompany others forever. You love your parents and wish them a long life, but no matter how filial you are, they will walk in front of you, and you can only accompany them for a journey; You love your brothers and sisters, hope they grow up healthily, and always want to use your body to shelter them from the wind and rain. However, no matter how tall you are, one day you will walk in front of them and you can only accompany them. You value the friendship between friends, but in the end, either your friend leaves you or you leave your friend, so you can only go for a ride with your friend …

Because you can only accompany others once, you should learn to care about others. When they are hungry, one of your apples is the best care; When they fail, your encouragement is the greatest comfort; When they succeed, your smile should be the brightest ... the night becomes bright because of the addition of lights; The sky is more charming because of the stars; Other people's lives will become more colorful because of your participation.

Because you can only take a trip with others, you should learn to cherish it. Parents can only support you to grow up. Don't expect them to be your eternal pillar, which can support you all your life. You should be filial to them, don't wait. Friends can give you warmth, but this warmth is open, not unique, so you are not letting friendship slip away from you; Four years of college will soon pass, so we should cherish everything around us and don't miss each other again.

You should learn to give up, because you can only go with one person. In order to share the happiness of friends, maybe you have to miss the date with your lover; In order to share the troubles of friends, maybe you will stay up all night; In order to be filial to your parents, maybe you won't have time to March; Because ... although you gave up some, you got far more than you gave up.

Because you can only go with others once, you should learn to take care of yourself. The beacon of life is in our own hands. We can't always rely on others, others can only accompany you. We should learn to take care of ourselves and be our own masters in our own lives.

My friend's words suddenly made me understand a lot. You are just a passer-by in other people's lives, and you can only walk with them for a while, which means that what you give others is limited, so how can you ask others to pay infinitely?

Response measures:

(1) Clever use of rhetoric, showing literary talent.

Love is a ray of sunshine in winter, which dispels the cold frost; Love is a shower after a long drought, nourishing a broken heart; Love is a bright light in Wang Yang, which indicates the hope of a new life. (From the full text of "Bringing Love to Others" in Jingzhou, Hubei Province)

I often hear the old man say, "I have crossed more bridges than you!" " "At that time, I was thinking, what is a bridge? Is it just a "bridge" where two old locust trees overlap in the west of the village, and we still have to go to school? (Selected from the full text of "Beautiful Bridge" in the senior high school entrance examination in Shanxi Province.

② Describe the environment and set off the background.

Outside the classroom, the whistling north wind is banging on the wall with dense raindrops, ringing "Chen Wenjing". In the classroom, an all-around competition exam is in a white-hot stage. (selected from the full text of "Building a wall in my heart" in the senior high school entrance examination in Xiantao, Hubei Province)