Question 1: How to develop a sense of humor. Characteristics of Humorous Language
Writer Prizvin once said: Life can be dealt with without philosophy, but without humor only stupid people can survive. Humor is the flash of a person's knowledge, talent, wisdom, and inspiration in language expression. It is the ability to capture ridiculous or humorous imagination. It is a response to various incongruities in society. The revelation of unreasonable absurd phenomena, biases, shortcomings, and contradictory essences and the description of some unconventional knowledge words and deeds. Humorous language can release our inner tension and pressure and turn it into a relaxed smile. In communication, humorous language is like a lubricant, which can effectively reduce the friction coefficient between people, resolve conflicts and contradictions, and enable us to calmly get rid of the difficulties we may encounter in communication.
Humorous language often makes people laugh. However, not all language that makes people laugh is humorous. Humor also has its own characteristics.
The power of elegance and elegance
Elegance and elegance of humor always hide the truth in witty conversation, embodying the touching power of truth, goodness and beauty. So humor must be optimistic and healthy. The mood is elegant.
Although humor contains elements that make people laugh, it is by no means a glib, mystical or pretentious gag. Generally speaking, people with a sense of humor are not lacking in cultural education and moral cultivation, while an uneducated person will not have a sense of humor and will only tell some shallow and vulgar jokes to win people's sympathy and laughter. Real humor must reveal profound, serious and abstract truths in a healthy and elegant tone, light-hearted and joyful forms and emotions, so that taste and philosophy can be harmoniously unified.
It is said that the first few editions of Encyclopedia Britannica included five pages of love entries, and the content was very specific. However, after the fourteenth edition, this entry was deleted, and the new entry on the atomic bomb also occupied a considerable amount of space. One reader felt indignant about this and accused the editorial staff of despising this most beautiful human emotion and being keen on murderous weapons. To this, Jost, the editor-in-chief of the book, gave a very humorous answer: For love, reading an encyclopedia is not as good as personal experience; and for atomic bombs, reading this book is not as good as trying it yourself.
The editor-in-chief’s answer is undoubtedly very humorous. More importantly, it contains a deep philosophy. It compares love with atomic bombs, which not only answers the readers' questions, but also expresses that he, like the readers, longs for the best human feelings and does not want the atomic bomb to truly become a murderer. Thought. Simple and clear penetrating power
Humor is mostly a few words and understatement. It does not have a complete structure and tortuous plot like a novel, nor does it have fierce conflicts like a comedy. It should have a special kind of penetrating power, with the strength of a small weight weighing a thousand catties and the breadth of a sentence that can travel thousands of miles. For example, the answer given by the editor-in-chief of Encyclopedia Britannica mentioned above humorously expresses a deep and broad meaning in just two sentences. Because of this characteristic of humor, when we use this skill in communication, we should express ourselves in the most concise and clear language, and avoid being sloppy.
Here is a piece of humor: Three squinty-eyed prisoners stand before a squinty-eyed judge. The judge stared at the first prisoner and asked: What is your name? The second prisoner thought the judge was asking him a question, so he replied: Iri. I didn't ask you! The judge turned his attention to the second prisoner, but the third prisoner replied: I didn't say anything!
The story is very neat and tidy. If we want to tell a story, we should get rid of all the branches and vines like this. Especially when introducing characters, we should be concise and don't use too many words such as this and that.
Quotes on Relationships
A true genius knows when to turn a blind eye.
Succeed by surprise
Speak words that others cannot think of and express meanings that others cannot think of. This is the purpose of humor, that is, the so-called novelty and winning by surprise. This will often make your language Have special persuasiveness to achieve better communication...>>
Question 2: How to improve your sense of humor and how to cultivate your sense of humor
Some people say that a sense of humor is innate Yes, most people can't learn it; but I think that humor can be cultivated. As long as the method is appropriate and the effort is deep, everyone can become a master!
How to develop a sense of humor? The best way to develop a sense of humor is with jokes. First listen to other people telling jokes, and then collect jokes widely. Of course, the jokes you collect must be those that have made you laugh. Once you have collected enough articles (at least a hundred or more), you can then classify them, study them in detail, and try to figure out the artistic conception. Be sure to find out the laugh points of each article, as well as the way to deal with the jokes (the so-called "sharp turns"). If possible, memorize it and try to repeat it to someone in your own words, and then observe the other person's reaction as a reference for self-correction.
Regarding telling jokes, there are four points to note:
1. Don’t listen to a joke twice - no matter how good the joke is, it will feel boring the second time you hear it.
2. Jokes cannot be explained - they can only be understood. Too much description will make it boring.
3. Don’t give the other party too high expectations - the most taboo thing is to start with this: "Today I am going to tell you the best joke in the world...".
4. Don’t laugh before others laugh – you must “laugh after the world laughs”
Once the joke is told smoothly, you can start to “satire”; compare with the joke , satire needs more refined language to show its characteristics of "quick", "accurate" and "ruthless". Of course, in addition to the person being satirized, satire can also bring joy to everyone. The materials for satire come from two major categories:
1. Different experiences - for example: childhood memories, different likes and dislikes... etc.
2. Challenge taboos - politics, sex, physical defects, personal image or traits, authority...etc. As for the ways of sarcasm, there are many different ways to do it. As long as you fully master the "sharp turn" technique and use the most concise language to respond quickly, accurately and ruthlessly, you can "kill wind, fire, thunder and lightning, kill "Demons and demons". Commonly used methods include: direct attack, homophones and different characters, continuous pursuit, overt praise and covert derogation, and making false claims in the east and attacking in the west. Practitioners must work hard to get to the next level.
After mastering all the techniques of satire, the mastery of language will definitely be able to reach an extremely concise and accurate level. For the practitioners themselves, with their reaction, sensitivity, and ability to grasp key points, Wait, you will definitely reach a state that is not easy for ordinary people to reach. At this time, you can enter the realm of "silence is better than sound at this time."
In the realm of "silence is better than sound at this time", shrugging shoulders, blinking eyes, and curling lips can all connect with people's minds and make people enjoy the fun; at this time, practitioners , to use the words of a martial arts novel, he is already a "super master"!
The practice of humor has reached the highest level, when humor has broken away from the technical level and has been sublimated into an attitude towards life (or a outlook on life). At this time, he (she) can see the interest in everything, and can put himself or herself in a happy state at any time. No matter where he or she is, he or she can make good friends and spread laughter. During the Qing Dynasty, the humorous and talented Jin Shengtan was sentenced to death. Before the execution, he gave the executioner a red envelope. When the execution was completed, the executioner opened the red envelope and saw that there was only a note inside with four big characters written on it: "What a fast knife!" ”
A person who is humorous enough to see through life and death can be said to have achieved enlightenment!
Humor can be combined with various new knowledge through imagination, and you can easily create many humorous ideas, but the most important thing is to understand what humor is. In my understanding, the original humor was actually when public figures had some accidents in public places that easily made the media make a fuss about it. At that time, they used ingenious expressions and transformation methods to turn the dilemma into reality. I remember that former British Prime Minister Winston Churchill and the famous musician Handel both showed their extraordinary humor. Humor can show personal magnanimity and on-the-spot wit.
We must understand that true humor is not just about telling jokes, but about capturing the "feeling" between people, and this feeling. The story of "Entertaining Parents in Colorful Clothes" in Twenty-Four Filial Piety is about an old man in his sixties who, in order to be filial to his parents who are in their eighties, dresses up as a child every day and tries to please his parents by singing and dancing. This is how he can let go of his posture. ; And if an office manager is relaxed and humorous from time to time, his performance will definitely be higher than that of a supervisor who lectures his subordinates with a straight face every day. This is also a way of letting go.
As long as you are willing to put down your dignity, whether it is between friends, between parents and children, or between husband and wife, let people feel that it is pleasant to get along with you, and then there will be... >> < /p>
Question 3: How to improve your sense of humor? Brother, first of all, if you want to be humorous, it will be much easier if you have the heart to do it. The biggest fear is that you will feel that you are humorous instead of being humorous.
You have a foundation for practicing humor, because you can make witty remarks when you are with your buddies. The crux of the problem is that you are not confident enough in front of your girlfriend. You love her very truly, truly, and care about her very much. child. I don't advise you to change your mentality, and I don't teach you to treat love with a normal heart, then it will change the taste, unless your feelings for her have faded. In front of her, you suddenly become clumsy and glib, but you are no longer you, what do you think?
Finally, here is a prescription: let you penetrate the true meaning of gentlemanly humor into your bones: go read two books, one is called "Nobody Hurts", the author is Wen Wen Wen, you are on Sina You can find it by directly entering the title of the book in Reading. This book seems to have been published in 2006, or 2005, I can’t remember clearly. Language is uniquely interesting.
The next book is "You Can Go to College When You're Full", the author seems to be called Hard Cao Xiaowanzi.
This book is at the starting point. You enter the title of the book at the starting point and read it from the beginning after you find it. It is not just for you to memorize a few funny words, which is useless. In that case, you have to be able to find a specific book. The scene is contrived. After watching it, you will know what the humor is.
If you have no feelings or gains after reading this, then you can slap me with big ears!
Bomber wishes you good luck and a happy marriage.
Question 4: How to improve your sense of humor and make yourself optimistic. Optimistic people may not necessarily be humorous, but humorous people must be optimistic. A person who is narrow-minded and negative will not have a sense of humor. Humor belongs to those who are open-minded and enthusiastic about life. Even in a dull and unsatisfactory life, do not let yourself become discouraged, let alone complain or sigh with other colleagues, but maintain an optimistic attitude and let yourself become humorous. Because optimism and humor can eliminate hostility between each other, create a close interpersonal atmosphere, and help yourself and others become relaxed and eliminate fatigue at work. Expand your knowledge. Humor is a manifestation of wisdom, which must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he have rich conversational skills, witty remarks, and appropriate humor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, one must engage in extensive activities and enrich oneself. This requires us to read as much as possible and broaden our knowledge. When you have accumulated a wealth of knowledge, you will be confident and comfortable in contact with various people on various occasions. Appropriate associations. Humorous language is often exaggerated, but it is different from the exaggeration of ordinary language and is surprisingly ingenious. People who speak humorously must be rich in associations. American philosopher George Santayana chose a day to end his professorship at Harvard University. That day, when he was giving his last lecture in the Harvard University auditorium, a beautiful robin sat on the windowsill and kept singing. Santayana looked at the bird in rapt attention. For a long time, he turned to the audience and said softly: "I'm sorry, everyone, I have to excuse you, because I have a date with spring." After saying this, he walked out with a smile. . This beautiful closing sentence was full of poetry and humor, which won warm applause from the audience. Consciously training your ability to respond quickly and analytically to things will help your association. Keep accumulating. Read more, watch more, listen more, and learn more. The more humorous materials you have, the more materials you can imitate, learn from, and refer to. For example, often reading some literary works, reading some humorous stories, brain teasers, etc. are all good for cultivating your own sense of humor. Finally, when you use humor, you must pay attention to the occasion and the objects it is applied to, and it must be friendly and healthy. In this way, others can feel your talent and wisdom when listening, and those jokes full of vulgar taste will only be disgusting.
Question 5: How to improve your sense of humor. In fact, humor means that you see things from a different perspective than others.
A very common thing, but if you look at it from another angle, you will find how funny it is.
For example, go to the zoo. When the animals bark, you turn around and say to one of your friends: "Look over what your peers are talking about?"
Another example is that you and mm are chatting online, and then you want to poop. Just say: I will remove the toxins from my body and wait for me. Or there was no reply for a long time. Then mm asked you what you were doing. You said: I'm going to study how toilets are made. . etc. .
I won’t explain them one by one. .
It will come naturally if everyone uses different angles to observe things.
Everyone knows that when people in China go out to eat at a restaurant, the waiter will politely say please go slowly.
At this time, you tell your friend: Don’t walk so fast, they ask you to walk slower.
I still remember once having a barbecue with some friends. . Then a plate of skewers came up that I don’t know what they were. . I took a bite but didn't finish it. Even my friends didn’t know, so they asked the waiter to ask. . The waiter didn't know it was coming after looking for a long time. . I took the remaining half of the skewer and told her to try it. . Everyone laughed. . Of course she can't really eat it. .
The main principle of improving self-confidence is to magnify your flaws. . . and change your thinking. .
For example, many boys who are short will collapse when they see a girl who is taller than them. So was I at the beginning. . Don't dare to get close at all. Later I changed my mind. I deliberately magnified the shortcoming of my short stature and didn't care whether I hid it or not. Don't take her seriously. He walked up to her and compared her height. . And then said: Wow. . You are a chamber pot taller than me. . I'm really not done growing yet. . .
And what you think. People with low self-esteem would think that if I walked out holding hands with a girl who was taller than me, everyone would see me. . I feel very shameless. . Can't hold my head up. .
Yet confident people think. . I am so short that I can hold hands with a girl who is taller and more beautiful than me. . It's really sad that other boys are so tall and can only admire them from the sidelines. .
Finally I want to say something. .
It really doesn’t matter whether you are tall or short, and girls rarely mind. As long as you are humorous and talented, it doesn’t matter. .
Suppose your male friend laughs at you. . Your girlfriend is taller than you. . . You can use your humor and say it's okay. . It's the same in bed. .
How to improve your generosity and magnanimity. .
If something happens and nothing you do can change the outcome, there is no need to do it.
I remember one time I went to dinner with my girlfriend. . A man and two women came next to me. . At first everyone was laughing and joking. .
One of the women took out a digital camera to the man and asked him to take a picture, but the man failed to hold it and dropped it on the ground.
The woman's face changed instantly. . As a result, they had a meal in this awkward situation. . Is it necessary?
If you do this, the man can buy you a new one or something. . I don't object. . But. . The result has not changed and the relationship has deteriorated.
Boys must pay attention to this, it is very important.
Don’t give others the impression that you are petty.
For example, if you are eating hot pot with a few girls, you lend your phone to one of the girls. . She accidentally dropped it into the soup when she gave it back to you.
Everyone must be panicking. . But now you feel 100 unhappy. . Can't show it either. . Because the phone is already in the soup, time cannot flow again.
Nothing you do now can change the outcome. But it can change everyone's perception of you. .
You can say with a slight smile: I only know that my mobile phone is waterproof, but I don’t know whether it is waterproof or not. .
Or smile at your girl and ask: Do you want to help me confirm whether my phone is afraid of burning? Ha ha. .
Your favorability will be greatly increased. . Let’s compare. . Rather than being angry, wouldn't it be better this way? .
Question 6: How to improve your sense of humor. My friends generally think that I am a humorous person.
I agree with this. A big part of why I became like this is because I saw a sentence when I was in the first grade of junior high school: People's emotions are contagious, and your happiness will make the people around you happy together. Your sadness will make those around you sad.
Then I kept thinking of ways to make myself happy, so when I looked at things, I would always think about how to look at them from a funny perspective~. Slowly I became happy, and at the same time I enjoyed the happiness of the people around me~
As for suggestions, I recommend an online author: Liu Xiahui. Among all online writers, he is now number one. The writing style is humorous, and the description and story composition are also good. The early works were more like stallions, but now they are much better~
If you can accept it, it should be able to make you a little more humorous~~~
By the way, there are many other online programs such as "Rampage". If you pull them out and watch them when you have nothing to do, they can still effectively increase the amount of laughter in your mind! ! !
Question 7: How to improve your speaking connotation and sense of humor. A sense of humor cannot be developed overnight. I suggest you watch more comedy movies.
But a sense of humor also requires connotation, which means you also need to cultivate your connotation and read more good books, such as articles by Lu Xun and Qian Zhongshu, which have deeper connotations and are sometimes humorous and obscure. . With connotation, humor is real humor, otherwise it is just a funny clown.
Question 8: How to increase your sense of humor and say that the master was born in 1988? Pan Jun?
Dad talks about so-and-so next door every day
Similar to me Most of them already have sons,
I didn’t have a partner yet, so I said I was too impatient,
but ended up saying “I won’t get married again,”
Your adopted son can’t beat someone else’s grandson.”
Damn, is he his biological father?
Question 9: How can men improve their sense of humor and taste? Talk more, read more humorous books, and learn more gentlemanly manners