1: First of all, she must have a good impression on you. You can relax your mind and don't have to chase after her so tightly. You can ask her what kind of emotional way she likes, vigorous or flowing, or beautiful and romantic (if you really want to chase a girl, you must learn to start with people around her, get to know her through her relatives and friends, and let them put in a good word for you). Get what you want

2: You'd better observe her communication with other men quietly, and see how she usually treats the opposite sex, whether she "stops at ceremony" and whether she knows how to keep a certain distance from them. To put it bluntly, it is to see if she likes playing with ambiguous girls or especially wants to please men. I firmly believe that there is no real pure friendship between men and women (my gender is female). If she just treats you better than other men, There is nothing special for you (you will give up time for you, turn off other people's invitations or things that have been arranged), so her gentleness is probably just to make you continue to like her.

3. If you think she likes you, but she just refuses to nod, then you need to impress her with sincerity and security. Security can depend on illusion, but sincerity is real. For example, do you know what she likes? Find out what she thinks about something? Women want to be understood, recognized, and free. Although a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea, the core problem is still the desire to be loved. If you look at the problem from this angle, she will feel that you know her. As for how to show sincerity, if you really have the sincerity to chase her, you will know how to do it. The simplest thing is to ask her to a restaurant, it is better to learn to cook one or two dishes yourself. You should keep in mind every month when she is uncomfortable, and buy longan and jujube tea at worst. Women like men to do stupid things for her (don't do too much, one or two things are enough for her to remember)

4: No woman is perfect. If she is timid, it may be because she thinks she has shortcomings, but you can't see them. She may worry that you were just infatuated before and don't like her after knowing her shortcomings. (If a boy's feelings are obvious at first, many women will have this concern.)