2. Democritus of Ancient Greece

“Forgetting one’s own shortcomings leads to pride and complacency.”

“Don’t boast even one cent of a cow; Pride and complacency will lead to failure. Looking at many things in ancient and modern times, success comes from humility and luxury. ”

4. Pythagoras from ancient Greece

“Whether it is others in front of you or yourself. Don’t do anything despicable when you are alone: ??the most important thing is self-respect. ”

5. Ming Wang Yangming

“A serious illness in life is just the word “arrogance”.

6. Mao Zedong in modern China

"Modernity makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. We should always remember this truth."

7. Modern China Wang Jinxi

"Once we have achievements, we cannot be like a ball that no one else can hit. It will jump as high as a light tap. The greater the achievements, the more modest and prudent we must be."

< p> 8. Indian Rabindranath Tagore

"Great men are more humble, while small people are more proud. The sun wears a simple bare dress, but the white clouds wear a brilliant skirt."

9 .Scottish Hume

"Obviously, pride and humility are exactly opposites, but they have the same object. This object is the self."

10. "Huainanzi·" by Liu An of the Western Han Dynasty "Original Taoist Training"

Those who are good at swimming will drown, and those who are good at riding will fall. Everyone is doing what they like, but it is their own disaster.

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1. "Wine Tour" Li He of the Tang Dynasty drank a glass of wine late, and the host served the guest a long life.

The master’s father was trapped in the west and could not return, so his family broke the willows in front of their door.

I heard that Ma Zhou was a new guest in the past, and no one knew him in the world.

Kong Jiang wrote two lines of writing on the paper, directly offending Long Yan to ask for his favor.

I am unable to perform the ecstasy. When the rooster sings, the whole world becomes white.

The young man should take care of his worries, but who thinks of the coldness and sits there humming.

2. "Wang Yue" How about Du Fu Dai Zongfu in the Tang Dynasty? Qilu is still young.

The clock of creation is beautiful, and the yin and yang cut off the dawn.

Zeng Yun is born in the chest, and the returning bird enters the canthus.

From the top of the mountain, you can see all the mountains and small mountains at a glance.

3. "Thirteen Poems of Nanyuan·Fifth" In the Tang Dynasty, why didn't Li He, a man, bring a Wu hook to collect the fifty states in Guanshan?

Please come to Lingyan Pavilion for a while. Are you a scholar with ten thousand households? 4. "Ode to a Discourse in the Hall" Zen Master Huang Heng of the Tang Dynasty was very busy in his daily life, so he held tight to the ends of the rope and made a fuss.

How can you enjoy the fragrance of plum blossoms without experiencing a bone-chilling cold?

5. "Scholar Bai's Thatched House" In the Tang Dynasty, Bishan scholar Du Fu burned silver fish, but the white horse went to live in the deep rock.

The ancients have used three winters' feet, and now they have opened more than ten thousand volumes when they were young.

The clear clouds cover the house, and the autumn water floats down the steps and breaks through the canal.

Wealth must come from hard work, and a man must read five cars of books.

1. Ochekhov "Dissatisfaction with oneself is one of the fundamental characteristics of any truly talented person.

"2. Democritus of Ancient Greece" Forgetting one's own shortcomings will lead to pride and complacency.

3. Chen Yi in Modern China "Don't brag even if you are proud.

Having seen many things in the past and present, Success comes from humility and failure comes from extravagance.

"4. Pythagoras of Ancient Greece "Don't do anything despicable whether in front of others or when you are alone: ??the most important thing is self-respect.

” 5. Wang Yangming of Ming Dynasty “The biggest disease in life is just the word “arrogance”

” 6. Mao Zedong in modern China “Modility makes people progress, pride makes people fall behind. We should. Always remember this truth.

"7. Wang Jinxi in Modern China" We cannot be like a ball that cannot be hit by others.

The greater your achievements, the more modest and prudent you must be.

"8. Rabindranath Tagore, India" Great men are more humble, while villains are more proud.

The sun wears a simple light dress. The white clouds are covered with brilliant skirts.

"9. Scottish Hume" Obviously, pride and humility are exactly opposites, but they have the same object.

This object is the self. .

"10. "Huainanzi·Yuan Dao Xun" written by Liu An of the Western Han Dynasty. Those who are good at swimming will drown, and those who are good at riding will fall. Everyone will do what they like, but they will bring disaster to themselves.

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Li Shimin’s famous sayings about guarding against arrogance and impetuosity: 1. Take the wealth that belongs to you, and avoid drinking without name.

Always be self-restrained.

If you can follow what I say, you will be rich and famous for a long time.

2. Use copper as a mirror to straighten your clothes; use ancient times as a mirror. , you can know the ups and downs; you can know the gains and losses by using people as a mirror.

3. Everything must be based on people. The country is based on people, and people are based on food and clothing. /p>

4. The key to government is to recruit people. If they are not talented enough, it will be difficult to govern.

Today’s appointments must be based on virtue and knowledge.

< p> 5. The king depends on the country, and the country depends on the people.

Carving the people to serve the king is like cutting off the flesh to fill the belly. If the belly is full, the body will die.

< p> 6. If the people are worried, the country will be in danger, and if the country is in danger, the king will be ruined.

7. Since ancient times, the Chinese have been valued and the barbarians have been despised, but I love Emperor Wen the same way. His mind is worthy of the name of God's Khan.

8. Open the door to speaking out.

Gogol once wrote a script and invited him. A poet helped him pick out his mistakes, but the poet fell asleep unknowingly while listening. Gogol thought that he had failed this time and burned the manuscript.

Hypothesis. How could Gogol become a world-famous literary master if he didn't strive for perfection and improve himself humbly?

It keeps our minds clear and our conduct is not barbaric. Will customs create a favorable environment for us to survive, grow, and build a career?

There is a famous story about "harmony between generals and prime ministers" in "The Chronicles of the Eastern Zhou Dynasties". He was worshiped as prime minister and placed above Lian Po, but Lian Po refused to accept it.

Xiangru was neither arrogant nor impetuous. He focused on the overall interests of the country and repeatedly avoided Lian Po's attacks. Later, Lian Po finally realized that he Deeply moved, "I bare my flesh and bear the thorns, and ask for forgiveness at the door of the Lin family."

"Excessive humility equals pride and complacency."

“It is a serious mistake to be arrogant and belittle oneself.

"Blind modesty is like babble in a dream, meaningless; timid modesty suppresses a person's personality and damages his self-confidence; pretentious modesty is treating disgusting things as interesting, which is not only useless but also annoying. .

During the Three Kingdoms period, Lu Dai had a high position and a prominent reputation, but he was able to listen to criticism with an open mind.

His friend Xu Hou was honest and upright, and often criticized Lu mercilessly. Dai's shortcomings.

Lu Dai's subordinates were dissatisfied with Xu Hou and thought Xu Hou was too arrogant, and told Lu Dai about this.

But Lu Dai respected and got closer to Xu Hou.

After Xu Hou died, Lu Dai burst into tears and complained: "Xu Hou! Where will I go to hear about my faults in the future? "Zhang Luxiang in the Qing Dynasty once said: "If you have a guilty conscience, you can benefit everywhere."

The alias of modesty is sincerity.

You must see the shortcomings and continue to work hard.

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Just like Lin Chong, who was sent to Cangzhou, passed by Chai Jinzhuang and met the ignorant Coach Hong. If he didn't knock him down with a stick, what else could he do? Although the Prime Minister has many things to do and is busy with official duties, he still has to go deep into the masses to understand the situation wherever he goes.

In the 1960s, he once visited Shanghai for inspection and met with movie actors. During the cordial conversation, some of them expressed their warm comrades. He suggested: “Prime Minister, write us a book! But he signed back and said: "If I write a book, I will write about the mistakes in my life, so that living people can learn from the mistakes of the past."

"The progress of the humble is never-ending.

Just smile lightly at the good comments.

They are great eagles, flying in the sky .

Humility is the key to heaven, giving the humble a path to success.

Newton said: "If I can see far, I stand on the shoulders of giants."

The great Madame Curie just smiled faintly in the face of human success.

Celebrities and great men in human history are all so humble, so each of us must develop an "open-minded" mind and a spirit of "humility and prudence, guard against arrogance and impetuosity".

Let’s use our limited life time to explore more knowledge space!

1. "Assess the situation, guard against arrogance and impetuosity" and another sentence means to wait for the opportunity to act, and to win by attacking later.

2. From Sun Wu's "The Art of War" 3. Full text: Not taking the initiative is wisdom, using defense as offense, using softness to overcome strength, assessing the situation, guarding against arrogance and impetuosity, waiting for opportunities to act, and winning by attacking later.

4. Use defense as offense: Use defense as a means to defeat the enemy.

5. Use softness to overcome hardness: Respond to the opponent's aggressive language and harsh conditions with calm and gentle language and attitude, making the opponent feel like punching a sponge with no effect.

6. Review the situation: review: study carefully; time: current situation; degree: estimate; potential: development trend.

Observe and analyze current trends and estimate changes in circumstances.

7. Be wary of arrogance and impatience: guard: be alert; be on guard; impatience: be impatient; be wary of pride; beware of impatience.

8. Wait for the opportunity to move: wait for the opportunity: wait for the opportunity, move: take action.

Wait for the right opportunity to take action.

9. Interpretation: It is also a wise choice not to take the initiative to attack during war. Use waiting as a means to attack the enemy, and slowly deal with the enemy so that the opponent has no way to deal with it. Based on observation and analysis The current situation, assessing the changes in the situation, and waiting for the right opportunity to take action can actually lead to victory.

Be open-minded and guard against arrogance and impetuosity.

—— Jie Luxun’s "Three Kingdoms Killing" Be wary of arrogance and impetuosity, talk less empty words, work hard and do more practical things - folk proverbs: Six points of improvement: 1. Make efforts that are not inferior to anyone else 2. Be modest and prudent, and guard against arrogance Avoid impatience 3. Reflect every day 4. Be grateful for life 5. Accumulate virtue, do good deeds, and be altruistic 6. Don’t be troubled by emotional troubles - "The Analects of Inamori Kazuo" The strong will make themselves stronger, there is no one born in this world There are only those who are willing to be trash, so avoid arrogance and impetuosity, stick to your beliefs, and work hard to fight for them - Slytherin's "Harry Potter"...

Human beings are impossible Always be in a good mood. Since there are setbacks and troubles in life, there will be negative emotions.

A mentally mature person is not a person without negative emotions, but a person who is good at regulating and controlling his emotions.

There are many ways to deal with emotions, but staying mindful is the most important and critical.

Most people’s confusion and pain are caused by their lack of awareness, their inability to see themselves clearly, and their inability to understand others, so they are confused and restless.

But looking at yourself is also the most difficult thing to do, because your ego is so big that it is difficult for you to let go and become humble.

Also because we don’t know how to cultivate our minds and cultivate our nature, we look for ways to calm down. The source of negative emotions can be negative experiences. It can also be said to be negative inertia. The events that arouse your negative experiences are just borrowed. It's just a catalyst.

If the emotion exceeds the scope of one's control, the best way is not to release or suppress it, but to do nothing. Learn to calm down first, because when the negative energy is too great, it will be released indiscriminately. You may not even be able to bear it yourself, and it may easily affect others.

Suppression is absolutely impossible, because the source of the problem is suppression.

When you are confused, you must first calm down, take care of your emotions, do not agree with them, do not judge them, let them appear, put your feelings where your heart is, regardless of whether your eyes are still filled with tears or your breathing is rough.

The heart is the largest emotional control center. To stabilize your emotions, you must start from the heart and learn how to center your mind.

As for the method, everyone has to find it on their own.

There are many, many Dharma-doors. The key is not the Dharma, but your intention and willingness.

Believe that you have the ability to go all out and have a bright future.

We need to be the masters of our emotions and refuse to be controlled.

Emotions are not the same as events.

It’s the emotions that got aroused and bad, not the event itself.

We just can’t figure it out, and we identify that I am the totality of that emotional state. We are asking for trouble, pleasing emotions and impulses, but losing ourselves.

We can calm our emotions through self-control and stay awake and autonomous. This is mature mind management.

Self-control is not the same as suppression, because the former is an action after awakening, and the latter is a reaction of being lost.

The so-called knowing self-control is to learn a set of methods to deal with emotions that suits you. Once you see yourself being attacked by emotions, you must protect yourself immediately and remind yourself that it is just a pure inertia of thinking that uses weakness to defeat reason. , find appropriate ways to disperse the concentration of negative emotions, such as exercise, meditation, yoga, watching movies, volunteering, creating, talking to close friends, going to a spa, dressing up, etc., to draw out all the positive energy.

Helping yourself requires determination and perseverance, and it must be a path that must be walked and completed alone. It is also the responsibility of growth.

Self-treatment is always the most practical and practical method of self-protection, and no one can rely on it