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Confucius said that "a gentleman is harmonious but different", but how can he be harmonious if he is different?

what's the answer? Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you? ! You get along with different people in the world. Everyone is different, with differences in region, family, age, gender, personality and psychology. You must be tolerant to be harmonious. Gentleman is harmonious but different? , the first thing to do is? Gentleman? . In Confucius' exposition,? Gentleman? With? Little people? Is a relative concept, in a nutshell, Gentleman? It refers to a person with good personality and moral conduct; ? Little people? Is a gentleman's? Antonym? People who like to gossip, sow dissension, watch the fire from a distance, and fall when they are down. Therefore, a gentleman and a villain are not on the same moral level. ? Gentleman? Willing to make peace? Little people? Unwilling? And? ; ? Gentleman? Good? And? , little jealous? And? ; A gentleman wants peace and harmony, but a villain just wants to kill people.

so,? The connotation of gentleman's harmony but difference? What is it? Modest attitude. A gentleman treats people and things. Gentle? Always be humble and speak? Gift? With peace. Modesty is not afraid of things, but acknowledging differences and respecting each other. I give you face, you don't give me face, and a gentleman is not good. Gentleman's humility is in the hope of helping to resolve conflicts and solve problems. Do things peacefully. There are interests, there are ge ge, there are contradictions, and they put down their bodies and negotiate with each other. Analyze the advantages and disadvantages, find the limits of mutual acceptance, and take a step back; For those who don't accept it, you can temporarily shelve the dispute, control the differences, and solve the main problems. Don't fight over a trivial matter, which will affect the overall cooperation. You do yours, I do mine, and they don't interfere with each other and are mutually beneficial.

be generous and tolerant. A gentleman pays attention to beauty and * * *, which must be based on harmony. ? Can a big belly accommodate things that are difficult in the world? You don't have to be vengeful for small profits. ? The prime minister can punt in his stomach? , illustrates a person's caliber. When we are alive, we need to change our thinking and realize the realm of generosity and tolerance. Inclusive of differences can make our world richer and more exciting! As the saying goes, Would rather offend a gentleman than a villain? Because a gentleman is tolerant, while a villain always remembers hatred.

but this doesn't mean that a gentleman is easy to bully, and even a gentleman will be bullied? It's tolerable. Why not? ! In a word, interpersonal communication? Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you? , then heaven and earth are in harmony, otherwise there will be smoke everywhere and ShaSheng bursts. Our country and people, with more than 4, years of civilization, have been civilized for a long time, and there are many gentlemen. It is important to keep harmony while being different, which also provides China wisdom for promoting world harmony! China is like a gentleman today, and the United States is like a villain today. Look at the differences between the two countries and you will know why!