After giving birth to a baby, mothers wish they had three heads and six arms.

After giving birth to a baby, mothers wish they had three heads and six arms. After a mother has a baby, she is literally on call 24 hours a day. , never relax for a moment. The following is what mothers wish they had after giving birth to a baby. Let’s find out together! After giving birth to a baby, mothers wish they had three heads and six arms. 1

Mothers feel the same way. After giving birth to a baby, they wish they had three heads and six arms, and at the same time wash dishes, mop the floor, make milk, and dry clothes. , changing baby diapers and other work.

You can see the busy shadows of mothers anytime and anywhere every day. They are carrying heavy mommy bags in their right hands, and their right hands skillfully demonstrate the professional skills of holding a baby with one hand; at dusk, mothers lead their children , carrying vegetables and fruits, and large and small bags home, this is also a beautiful sight that can often be seen...and the children always only have to bear the responsibility of playing games happily! As long as there is no noise during the meal, my mother will be so excited that she is about to spill her flowers!

But in fact, from the time a child learns to walk, he has basic labor abilities, and at this time, the child begins to gradually understand what adults are saying. Although there is little that children can do to help, it is very helpful to encourage children's labor awareness.

Why is it so important to encourage children’s work skills in the infant and toddler stage?

1. Promote the child's physical growth

The child takes a shaky step and throws his diaper into the trash can, which exercises the child's walking ability; The child sat firmly on the bed, tried to put on his pants, and gradually learned to maintain the balance of the human body. The learning process of these small skills is the process of children's development of movement and coordination.

2. Workers allow children to think independently

During the process of learning to fold quilts, children will think about how to ensure symmetry on both sides; During the process, I will think about which button to button first, and which button to button next, until it is no longer easy to button the wrong button.

For adults, housework is something that comes easily and requires no thought at all. But for children, this is a process of solving problems and a brand new attempt. Therefore, don’t take away the opportunity for your child’s growth casually, let your child actively try!

3. Children have more opportunities to learn languages ??

Children will encounter many difficulties in the process of doing a housework. His English vocabulary is very limited and he doesn't know how to express himself, but under the guidance of his parents, he learned to express his meaning with his hands. Gradually, the content of his vocabulary continued to improve, the categories of parts of speech continued to develop, and he gradually learned to use detailed sentences to express his own meaning.

4. Encourage children’s confidence

When Yi Duoduo was more than one year old, he learned to peel a banana for the first time. After peeling it, he peeled it off before he could eat it. The banana apple was put into my hand. It turned out that she wanted to free her own hands to cheer. Then I discovered that she often cheered after doing something. This shows that in the process of learning new things, children will cultivate the confidence of "I can do it" and "I am awesome" and make themselves full of confidence.

Have you just started to let your children participate in housework?

I once watched an overseas video. A baby about one and a half years old, with a bottle and pacifier in his mouth, took off his clothes very skillfully, turned on the water in the bathtub, and then Climb into the bathtub by yourself and let yourself take a bath safely... (In fact, it is very unsafe for children to climb into the bathtub by themselves. They have fallen on their feet. Children should not be allowed to imitate this.)

The video helped me feel that children’s potential is infinite.

As long as the child is safe and not tired, there are many things that the child can try. There is no clear age limit for when to start letting the child do housework, but try to pay attention to safety, Not forcing, not very strong, and within the scope of the child's ability!

Babies after the age of three usually begin to learn various labor skills. For children before the age of three, what are the things that children can try to do?

1. Cleanliness and clothing

1. Throw away diapers

2. Put your doorknob into the sleeves of your shirt or coat, and learn to do it slowly Dress yourself

3. Unzip and button buttons yourself

4. Take off the clothes and pants that cover your head

5. Wear socks (parents) Put the cotton socks on the soles of the children's feet and let the children pull them up by themselves)

6. Take off the socks (parents take off the cotton socks to the bare feet and let the children take them off by themselves)

7. Take off the shoes (parents help to remove the shoe strings, and let the children do the rest of the process by themselves)

8. Pull up the pants (parents help the children to insert the children’s feet into the trousers)

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9. Take off your pants

10. Wear a hat and take off a sun hat

11. Like squeezing out toothpaste, little by little. Ask questions, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth

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12. Do you think the temperature of the bath is okay? 13. Wash hands, disinfect and wipe hands

14. Pass water

2. Eat

1. Sit on the dining table and dining chairs and eat with adults until the meal is over

2. Take a spoon to eat by yourself

3. Learn to use it well Drink from a water cup

4. Peel a banana

5. Peel an egg

6. Tear off the paper under the toast

7. Use a children's knife to cut some softer ingredients

8. Choose your favorite food

9. Clear your own dining table

3. Housework

1. Pick up the small toys into the storage box

2. Put the books back into the bookcase (children’s bookcase)

3. Put the baby food bowl into the specific Parts

4. Help relatives get newspapers and magazines

5. Open and close doors

6. Get your dirty clothes into the laundry basket

7. Throw garbage into the trash can

8. Send spoons or chopsticks to adults that need to be cleaned

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10. Help choose when shopping

11. Help fold quilts

Seeing the details of housework listed above, mothers can compare them. What housework can your baby try to do? In fact, if you think about how much your own child will do when he is three years old, you will feel very satisfied when you become a mother.

It is not too difficult to let children do housework once. The difficulty is that children want to do these things every day and cultivate the habit of participating in labor. There is no need for parents to hold a "little whip" "Catching up behind the buttocks and feeling the happiness and value of workers depends on how our parents guide us. After giving birth to a baby, mothers wish they had three heads and six arms 2

1. The baby is sick

This should be ranked first. When the baby gets sick, it's a disaster for the mother. If the baby is at home, the mother should always observe the baby's condition, stay by the baby's side, and dare not close her eyes all day and night. If the baby is in the hospital, the mother will be so exhausted that she not only stays awake all day and night, but also has to run up and down to comfort the uncomfortable baby. She is really exhausted physically and mentally. If the baby gets better soon, that's fine. If the baby's illness lasts for a long time, the mother may collapse from exhaustion.

2. The mother is sick

This is also very painful for the mother. Once she becomes sick, she is not only afraid of infecting her baby. What's even more sad is that the baby has to be taken care of in all aspects, and I can't be "lazy" or rest at all. No matter how uncomfortable you are, you must brace yourself up, cheer up, and take good care of your children. If the mother is sick and the baby is sick, the life will be unimaginable.

3. The baby is crying, and she has something she can’t get away from.

What a mother fears most when raising her baby alone is that something like this will happen. This is a situation. Here is squatting on the toilet, there is a baby crying, here is cooking, there is a baby crying... The mother is very busy, and when she is anxious, it is easy for the mother to feel isolated and helpless. For my mother, if someone could come to help at that time, it would be an angel sent by God, and she would be so happy that she would fly.

4. High mental stress

Not to mention the mental torture of raising a baby alone if he cannot eat well or sleep well. The key is to be under mental pressure at all times, afraid of the baby getting sick, afraid of the baby falling and bumping into each other, and having to endure the unreasonable accusations from others.

More importantly, because I have to devote myself to taking care of my baby, I can't go out to work, have no income, and feel disconnected from society, and I feel very insecure.

The experience of raising a baby alone is really unforgettable, but the exhausting work is not the most terrible thing. What is terrible is that after being tired, no one is caring or comforting, but there is no mercy. of blame. The pain was far greater than the hard work of taking care of a child.