1. Everyone’s life is affected by the general environment

2020 is an unusual year. In the past, If we encounter such an era with many natural and man-made disasters, how many people will have to leave their homes, their families will be destroyed, their wives will be separated. Fortunately, everything is getting better now.

Epidemic, life and death, closure, school suspension, unemployment, bankruptcy, these words are too unpleasant. In the recession, everyone is affected, and everything must be reset to zero. .

Before the flood, no drop of water thinks it is guilty; when the avalanche hits, no snowflake is innocent. You and I are part of the world, and the world is also a part of you and me. The world affects us, and we have to have our own way of doing it.

2. Life is difficult, the only way to survive is by oneself

Family finances. I just bought a house and lived in it after renovating it. 80% of my income has to be repaid. However, due to the epidemic, the other half lost their jobs. My income has become a problem and my life is in trouble.

In fact, life does not suddenly fall into despair, it just feels that it is becoming difficult step by step.

The qualification to practice has been revoked previously and the entire industry has been cancelled. It's not your own problem. Then there was the epidemic, and he was robbed by his partners - occupying the magpie's nest. The greedy nature of human nature came to life when there were certain opportunities without appropriate restrictive mechanisms.

This year, you and I have all felt the difficulty of life. We have no courage to laugh at others, and we can only sigh with empathy.

Years of savings have been frozen due to policy adjustments and irregular lending practices. It is difficult to go back and treat you as if you never came. It’s not just you and me who can’t go back.

Untie your heart. Being angry now can only aggravate the symptoms of physical discomfort. Wait silently for the results. Do what you can and don't be too ambitious. Every difficulty is an opportunity to hone your inner world. If you increase your strength and guard it silently, you will become stronger.

Things are not easy. In the past, the manuscript was reviewed once a day, then twice a week, and now it is only reviewed once a week. The days of torment every day are no longer too torturous. Instead, the mentality has calmed down. I can get through it as long as I can, but I will make more modifications to get there. Maybe there are also financial problems in the receiving department, because the epidemic has affected all industry fields and people.

Maybe the unit has been downsized, and it is difficult enough for the receiving teacher to hold multiple jobs, so he can only squeeze out a little time to solve the problem here. The manuscripts here are no longer an important section, and they cannot bring in more income. We can only adjust the big head and the small head in a timely manner.

Balance your mentality to face it. Sometimes I feel annoyed, thinking that the other person not only cannot help me, but also makes me more stressed, causing mood swings and insomnia. However, remind yourself not to think too much about unhappy things, which will make you sink into random thoughts. It is better to distract yourself and simply do something else. After calming down, you will fall asleep without realizing it.

Originally, I didn’t write to make money, but to give myself something to do and something to rely on when I wake up every day. Later, I felt that I needed this little money in life, and giving up would affect my life. My mentality changed, and I felt that it was difficult to move forward.

When you are in a bad mood, you should find out in time that you cannot maintain a good balance.

When life is difficult, you can only calm down, change your way of thinking, and think of all the most difficult possibilities. Instead, you will feel a little more relaxed with a little looseness. By taking this step by step, the days will pass day by day. As soon as tomorrow passes, we wave goodbye to 2020, goodbye, and never see you again.

3. We still need to continue to work hard in life

Life is not easy, and complaining is useless.

The only way is to change yourself and implement all the specific matters that may be changed. I counted today and found out that I have answered more than 130 questions and participated in the daily check-in group for three months. I have written more than 70 articles regardless of length, good or bad, good or bad. How many times have I not wanted to continue working hard? I persisted because I was already involved. Indeed, one person cannot walk far, but a group of people hold on to each other for warmth.

Although more than half of the total income is spent on mortgage repayments, fortunately there is still a stable income. Although it is difficult, fortunately the country is fully able to control it and the epidemic has not spread. , every small family can still live a normal life.

Although many problems are plaguing us, saying goodbye to 2020 may not change immediately, nor may the difficulties disappear, but we can give ourselves confidence that we can only persist.

No matter how difficult it is, you can get through it and get through it.