The famous words of Chen Heqin, a preschool educator, are as follows:
1. Everything is for children and everything for children.
2. It is the most important part of children's moral education to teach children to obey the truth and the collective, and to cultivate children's conscious discipline.
3. Be a person, be a China person and be a modern China person.
4. Parents' education of children should be based on "persuasion" and should not be based on intimidation. Although seduction and threats make children obey, the happiness and unhappiness in children's hearts cannot be justified.
5. Parents should not say "no, no" to their children. If it is feasible, tell them to do it. If it is not feasible, forbid them to do it.
6. For educating children, parents had better use positive hints instead of negative commands.
7. Parents should not always command their children in an imperative tone. ..... If you must command children, then you must make them obey.
8. When others do good things or bad things, parents should show their approval and disapproval in words, and show them to children. Children are born ignorant, and the concepts of good, evil and right are gradually formed the day after tomorrow. ..... It is also a method for parents to show an attitude towards good and evil and right and wrong, and children are influenced invisibly when they listen to it.
9. Childhood (from birth to 7 years old) is the most important period in life, and all habits, languages, skills, thoughts, attitudes and emotions should be laid a foundation during this period. If the foundation is not stable, it is not easy to build a sound personality.
1. Don't suddenly order children to stop playing games or work. ..... Children not only like the way of doing things, but also like the result of doing things. Now, if we ask him to stop halfway, isn't it depriving him of the happiness of success, and making him form a bad habit of starting and finishing?