Tolerance (Chinese vocabulary)

Tolerance (forgiveness, tolerance) means allowing others to act or judge freely; patiently and without prejudice to tolerate those who are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views Opinions (Encyclopedia Britannica). Tolerant and generous, without care or investigation (Modern Chinese Dictionary).

Word definition

Word: tolerance

Pinyin: kuān róng

Antonym: narrow-minded

Synonyms: Considerate

Korean:

Japanese: forgiving

Original meaning: Tolerant and magnanimous, not caring or pursuing, tolerant of others. Generous and accommodating.

Tolerance (Book by Huang Zhongjin)

Forgiveness can be tolerated. "Xunzi · Fei Twelve Sons": "When encountering those who are humble and young, practice the meaning of tolerance."

Basic explanation

1. Be generous and tolerant

2. Tolerate; forgive; don’t care

Detailed explanation

1. Be generous and tolerant. "Zhuangzi · Tianxia": "Always tolerant of things and not cruel to people, it can be said to be the ultimate." "Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Fu Xie Biography": "Your Majesty is kind and tolerant, but cannot tolerate many things, so he is eunuch and wields power, and loyal ministers do not advance."

2. Tolerate; forgive; don’t care. "Song Book·Zheng Xian's Biography": "I have no academic knowledge, and the meaning of my words is particularly shallow. Compared with the remarks of the times, many sages are tolerant."

3. By extension, it refers to forgiveness. Li Yu of the Qing Dynasty's "Kite Mistakes·Rejecting Adultery": "It's enough if you don't obey. Why tell your mother that I'm not accompanying you? I beg you to forgive me." He has sharp teeth and eyes, but he is opposed to revenge and those who advocate tolerance should never get close to him."

4. A relaxed and calm look. Liu Yiqing of the Southern Song Dynasty wrote in "Shishuo Xinyu·Ya Liang": "Huan Gong set up a banquet in his armor and extended the court officials, so he wanted to kill Xie An and Wang Tanzhi. Wang Shiqun asked Xie: 'What should we do?' Xie The will of God remained unchanged, and he said to Wen Du: "The fate of Jin Dynasty depends on this line!" The king's fear is reflected in his appearance; his tolerance is reflected in his appearance. Cultivation

Tolerance is the most beautiful emotion. Tolerance is a good mentality. Tolerance is also a noble state. People who can tolerate others have their minds as broad and transparent as the sky and as broad as the sea. As broad and profound as we are, it is easy to forgive our family, friends, and acquaintances, because they are the people we love. However, it is the most difficult to forgive someone who has deeply hurt you or your enemy.

Tolerance is the most beautiful flower in human nature, and tolerance is the regulating valve for psychological health. In social interactions, it is inevitable that people will suffer losses, be misunderstood, and be wronged. Faced with these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality; tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance and broad mind; tolerance is a noble quality and lofty state; tolerance is the light of benevolence and a supreme blessing; tolerance is a The wisdom of survival and the art of life. It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows temperament and mind, strength and strength. A person who is not tolerant and only knows how to be demanding of others is often in a state of psychological tension, which leads to nerve excitement, vasoconstriction, and increased blood pressure, making the psychology and physiology enter a vicious cycle.

Hatred is a double-edged sword. When you take revenge on others, you will also be harmed. Therefore, the result of "retaliation" is that "both sides suffer". The life of a person with hatred in his heart is a painful and unfortunate life. Only by letting go of hatred and choosing tolerance will the knots entangled in the heart be suddenly released, and a peaceful and pure "sky of love" will appear in the heart - hatred can stir up Troubles, love conquers all.

In life, each of us will inevitably have friction, misunderstanding, and even hatred with others; at this time, don’t forget to be full of tolerance in your heart. Tolerance is warm and bright sunshine, which can melt the freezing point in people's hearts and fill the world with warmth.

Tolerance is the ocean that holds the sun and the moon, the sky that accepts sunshine and rainstorms, and the rocks that hold the green grass.

Tolerance is the spring breeze that blows away the seclusion and conservatism, and it is the spring rain that nourishes the dry heart.

Tolerance is the sweet and soft spring rain that can nourish the thirst in people's hearts and bring vitality to the world.

Tolerance is the most beautiful flower in human nature. It can comfort people's inner injustice and bring happiness and hope to the world.

Forget hatred, stay away from hatred, tolerate everything with a tolerant heart, embrace everything, embrace everything, harmonious existence is the eternal theme.

Between husband and wife

When there are emotional conflicts between husband and wife, it is often easy to attribute all the fault to one party. Blaming and bearing grudges will only infinitely magnify the pain. At this time, both parties might as well consider each other from the perspective of the other party, so that they can discover their own shortcomings, so that they can be tolerant of the other half and solve the problem more actively.

Between parents and children

Some parents cannot tolerate any mistakes made by their children. Excessive harshness and constant criticism will leave a bad influence and shadow on the growth of their children. . In fact, parents might as well adopt a tolerant attitude and give their children a chance to admit their mistakes and correct them. Parents should make more changes, be more tolerant of their children's studies, and remember that growth is more important than grades. Set a tolerant example for your children from an early age.

Between colleagues

Colleagues should focus on the overall situation, put work first in everything, and do not be overly rigid about personal interests. Start from the big core work and be more tolerant on the basis of respect.

Between friends

Having a grudge or being unable to let go of being late once. These small problems often easily cause rifts in friendships. Therefore, tolerance is the most harmonious bridge between friends. It is better for both parties to sincerely tell each other's shortcomings and tolerate and correct each other.

Celebrity Interpretation

The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance from the Encyclopedia Britannica in his famous book "Tolerance": Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; patience And tolerate without prejudice opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in my country's modern Chinese dictionary is: being generous and magnanimous, without caring or pursuing.

Tolerance

The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (William James)

A generous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)< /p>

There are many situations in life where the goal you intend to achieve with resentment is entirely possible with forgiveness, and it is entirely possible with forgiveness (Sidney Smith)

Sincerely forgive and then forget (UK)

Forgiveness is human, but forgetfulness is divine (James Grant)

Tolerant people are the most impatient , People with strong tolerance are the least tolerant (Bernay)

The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo)

Those who have lived without tolerating others are Not worthy of tolerance from others. But who can say that tolerance is not needed? (Turgenev) God of justice, tolerance is the most perfect thing we can do (Wordsworth)

Only brave people know how to tolerate; cowards will never tolerate, this is not his Nature (Isaac Stern)

Tolerance is either good for people or harmful to people (Burke)

It hurts others' teeth and eyes, but opposes revenge and advocates Never get close to a tolerant person----(Lu Xun)

Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself. You must let go when you have to, and be merciful when you have to. If a person falls short, he cannot get sick. People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and everyone can be cut and mashed in his weakest areas. In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow each one to maintain his or her individuality. Broadness is used to help the strong, strong is used to help the wide, and broadness is used to help the fierce. Be generous and fierce, and pay equal attention to kindness and power. A combination of generosity and strength can make things happen. Broad and chestnut, strict and warm. Be sincere and generous. Kang Youwei's "The First Book of the Shangqing Emperor"

People's minds are narrow if they have many desires, and wide if they have few desires. Qing Dynasty. Jin Ying's "Proverbs Lianbi"

Tolerance

It is easy to do things if you have a lot of capacity, and you can provide shade if you have a big tree. Chinese proverb: When someone slanders me, it is better to tolerate it than to defend it. When people insult me, it is better to be able to transform it than to prevent it. Master Hongyi's "Farewell Records of Proverbs"

No one can be perfect except Yao and Shun. Tang Dynasty. Li Bai's "Letter to Han Jingzhou"

Guan Gong released Prime Minister Cao, but his husband had to be tolerant. Chinese Proverb

To be kind is to be forgiving. [U.S.] Frost's "New Hampshire"

As long as you bear it in your heart, your troubles won't concern you. Chinese proverb

Being patient makes a true gentleman, being able to bend and stretch makes a man a man. Chinese proverb

Don't let a small grudge lead to a close relationship, and don't forget old favors with new grudges.

Qing Dynasty. Jin Ying's "Lianbi of Proverbs"

The saint is noble and generous, but the world is humble. "Xinyu. Shu Shi" by Lu Jia, Han Dynasty

The East China Sea is wide and deep, with hundreds of rivers descending from it; although the five mountains are tall, they do not resist dirt and dust. Three Kingdoms. Cao Zhi's "When You Want to Travel to Nanshan"

Forbear a word, calm down an anger, endure a thing, and avoid a thing. Chinese proverb

If you don’t think twice about anything, you will eventually regret it. A person who can endure a hundred times will have no worries. "Eternal Words to Awaken the World" by Feng Menglong of Ming Dynasty

People are supposed to have a conscience, and even the cruelest heart will have a short and beautiful memory of forgiving others. [Jie] Seifert's "City of Tears"

Forgive others more and forgive yourself less. Chinese Proverb

It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend. [English] Blake's "Jerusalem"

Tolerance is the source of help; tolerance is the source of great virtue. "Shang Shu. Zhou Shu. Jun Chen"

To be tolerant is to be great, and to be without desire is to be strong. "Ancient and Modern Couplets"

When you come out of the cave, you are invincible, and you can spare others and spare others. Song Dynasty. The Taoist Master Shanqi's "Queju"

The benevolent man loves all things. "Historical Records. Zhao Family"

If the mountains are sharp, they are not high, and if the water is narrow, they are not deep. Liu Xiang, Han Dynasty, "New Preface to Jie Shi"

Those who are discouraged draw their own pictures, and those who are narrow-minded are easy to gain. Ming Dynasty. Zhu Zhiyu's "Zhu Shunshui Collection. Gong Min"

With magnanimity and tolerance, everything can be harmonious. "Facts of the Song Dynasty. Holy Instructions of the Ancestors"

Evil people are bold, villains are popular, and gentlemen are generous. Chinese proverb

One who does not tolerate others is not worthy of being tolerated by others. [Russian] Turgenev's "Roting"

The sky and the earth are wide in my heart, and there are always boats to ferry people. Chinese proverb: Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big; rivers and seas do not accept small streams, so it can be deep; a king does not exclude the common people, so he can understand his virtue. Qin. Li Si's "Book of Remonstrance and Chasing Guests"

If it is too strong, it will break, and even if you look at it, there will be no disciples. "Book of Jin. Biography of Liu Wei"

Only by being able to tolerate villains can one become a gentleman. Ming Dynasty. Feng Menglong's "Zengguang Zhitanbu"

He is able to serve others, so he has a guilty conscience; Li Zhi, Ming Dynasty, "Burning Books. Gao Yan Shuo"

One forbearance can support a hundred courages, and one moment of silence can control a hundred actions. Su Xun of the Song Dynasty's "Mind Skills"

Act on the convenience when it is convenient, and be merciful and merciful. Ming Dynasty. Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West"

The way to govern a country depends on being strong and broad.

Kindness is used to help the strong, and fierceness is used to help the broad. Government is based on harmony.

The will is as strong as iron and the strength is as large as the sea.

Only by respecting others can others be respected.

Those who cannot tolerate others do not deserve to be tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgenev

A great man has two hearts: one heart bleeds and one heart forgiving. ——(Lebanon) Kahlil Gibran

Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius·Li Louxia"

Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Helpus)

The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (William James)< /p>

The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)

Sincerely forgive, and then forget (UK)

Forgiveness is human nature, and forgetting Is Divine (James Grant)

Unforgiveness is often not the mistake itself, but the attitude of others who are unwilling to admit their mistakes.

Sometimes our tolerance is actually just to prove that we are right - the logic of dead-end love

Only brave people know how to be tolerant; a coward will never be tolerant, this is not his nature (Stern)

Want to be gentle and smooth, but don’t want to observe and understand clearly

Let a hundred flowers bloom and a hundred schools of thought contend

Strictness is love, looseness is harm, Being indifferent will turn bad

Tolerance

Pampering is harm, being strict is love

Training you is loving you, pampering you is harming you

Deep love, strict responsibility (France)

Lack of strictness at home invites thieves, and laxity in people invites danger

Lack of strictness in teaching leads to failure as a teacher

If you want to be a circle, the rules must be strict

A gentleman loves others with virtue, and a villain loves others with tolerance

Be lenient when you rebuke others, and be strict when you rebuke yourself

Be strict with yourself and be kind to others

Forgive others with affection and treat yourself with reason

Be hard on yourself and be kind to others

Treat others with the spring breeze and the cold wind Treat yourself well

Treat yourself generously, and treat yourself lightly; blame yourself generously, and blame others lightly

Rebuke yourself with the heart to blame others, and forgive others with the heart to forgive yourself

p>

Forgive others as much as possible, but never forgive yourself (Silas)

Let go when you have to, and be merciful when you have to be merciful

There are those who fall short. , you can't help but get sick (Xue Xuan, Ming Dynasty)

People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and smashed (Ji Kindness)

In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow each one to maintain his or her individuality (Schopenhauer)

Tolerance is used to help the strong, and to be strong is to be generous, tolerant Combining force with force

Combining kindness with force and giving equal emphasis to kindness and power

Combining kindness with force can achieve success

Be broad yet cautious, severe yet gentle〈 Huainanzi>

The way to govern a country depends on being fierce and tolerant (Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty)

Related prose

Tolerance is the supreme virtue in human life. Because tolerance contains the human soul, because tolerance can transcend everything, because tolerance requires a broad heart. Because tolerance is the most important part of human emotion, this emotion can melt the ice in the heart. The lack of tolerance will cause the personality to deteriorate from greatness to even less than ordinary.

Tolerance

Life requires tolerance. Everyone will have dissatisfaction in life, and everyone will have failures. When you encounter a barrier that is still insurmountable despite your best efforts, please don’t forget: tolerance is a broad and vast sea that tolerates everything and can After resolving everything, he will take you and follow him to rush forward mightily.

Tolerance is a silent education. Only tolerant people have truer beliefs. The most rare thing is the kind of giving without expecting anything in return, because it is based on love and tolerance: to obtain the forgiveness of others, you must first forgive others. Although we don’t ask for anything in return, good quality will always reveal its value in the end, which makes people even more touching. It is better to help others than to blame others. If you criticize and blame others for their mistakes, it will only make people more disgusted and may arouse a rebellious mentality to make the same mistakes again and again.

Sham Shum, a famous Hong Kong female artist who was much loved by the audience, passed away in Hong Kong at 8 am on February 19, 2008. I feel extremely sorry for her passing away, because she had many virtues that others did not have. The most outstanding point is that she was a very tolerant person, and she was a person who was highly respected for her ability to tolerate others.

When Shun Dianxia was a very popular gold medal emcee in Hong Kong, she hit it off with Zheng Shaoqiu, a little-known man who was hit hard by life. She ignored the pressure of public opinion and fully supported Zheng Shaoqiu's career and comforted his emotions. After living together for nine years, he resolutely registered his marriage and risked his life to conceive a daughter for him. However, less than two months after their daughter came into the world, Zheng Shaoqiu fell in love with her. Their ten-year relationship fell apart in one fell swoop, and it ended with Shun Dianxia being dealt a heavy blow. Many years later, the talk show "Behind the Palm" hosted by Alex Shum on TVB was launched, and the first guest of the first episode turned out to be Zheng Shaoqiu.

The two sat opposite each other. When the program ended, Shen Dianxia suddenly asked Zheng Shaoqiu unexpectedly: There is a question I have wanted to ask you for a long time. I will take this opportunity to ask you today. You only need to answer Yes or No. This The question is, did you truly love me many years ago? After Zheng Shaoqiu heard this, he almost thought for a moment, and then replied firmly and seriously: I really love you! As soon as these words came out, Shen Dianxia immediately burst into tears, and then a happy smile rippled on her charming face. It seems that all the suffering and grievances that have gone through for many years have disappeared in those six words: "I really love you so much."

Yes, it is difficult to forgive those who hurt yourself, but those who can do this are noble. With a broad-mindedness rarely seen in women, Fat Sister forgives those who have hurt her and creates a harmonious interpersonal environment for herself. Her wisdom in turning curses into blessings is truly amazing. So I say, tolerance means that a person's self-love has reached a level that enables him to be honest, cheerful, and willing to make progress in life. Tolerance means good-natured understanding and love and care after understanding; therefore, tolerance The greatness lies in coming from the heart. True tolerance is always sincere and natural; tolerance is a wise way of life. Suffering is a blessing. Misunderstandings, abuses, and ungratefulness are not taken into account. This kind of suffering is actually A kind of tolerant wisdom, tolerating others with a broad mind and a sincere attitude is equivalent to giving yourself a magical gift; the pleasure brought by tolerating others is supreme in itself, and it makes us realize that we are worthy of being treated. Being worthy of tolerance also makes us realize that people without a tolerant heart are flawed and dangerous.

Tolerance is a broad and profound realm and artistic conception. It is the cultivation of human beings. It is the experience of living in the world, the art of treating others, and the mind of being a human being. It can tolerate the joys, anger, sorrows and joys of the world and make people leap forward. A new level: Being kind to others means being kind to oneself. Being in trouble with others means being in trouble with oneself. Only when we view life with tolerance and considerate others can we have a relaxed and comfortable life and live in joy and friendship. among. If you are more tolerant when you fail and stop complaining to yourself, you will have less regret and frustration in your heart, and you will be able to support a strong me in your heart. Tolerating others is also tolerating yourself, protecting yourself, and leaving some space for others. You will get a blue sky. A tolerant person can meet opportunities everywhere, be harmonious and complete, and treat life with a smile.

Tolerance is the most noble virtue. No one is so poor that he has no chance to express tolerance. No one is stronger and prouder than the person who practices tolerance. How broad a person's mind is, how many people he can win. If you pay tolerance, you will gain endlessly.

“The widest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the human mind.” If everyone is more tolerant, human beings will have more understanding and more understanding. A portion of truth and kindness, an additional portion of cherishment and beauty, the ups and downs in life will also turn into colorful music. Learn tolerance in life, and you will understand many truths. Giving of yourself, learning to be tolerant, being willing to appreciate and praise others, and always maintaining the flexibility to grow and learn more - all this produces happiness, harmony, contentment and career success. This is what a person's colorful life should be like.

There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit the other on the neck. As a result, the bitten one took the initiative to comfort the one who was ashamed and upset because of the bite. horse. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching virtue between heaven and earth, which is tolerance.

The tolerance of animals in the fable is repaying evil with kindness. In Buddhism, the tolerance of Maitreya is "the belly can accommodate everything in the world." How do we understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a state.

Tolerance is like water

Usual "tolerance" means to forgive others for their temporary faults, not to spend money and money, not to hold grudges, and to be a generous person in a gentle manner. Tolerance and gentleness are often more effective than excessive revenge when encountering conflicts. It is like a cup of clear spring, which can wipe away the temporary hostility between each other and make people calm down, so that they can see the original cause of things clearly. At the same time, I also saw myself clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and eventually the two reconciled. Just imagine, if it fights tit for tat and fights back in the same way, apart from hurting both sides and losing blood, what else can it bring? Therefore, it can be said that the national horse in the fable is actually very wise. Its wisdom lies in "repaying evil with kindness".

Tolerance is like fire

Because a higher level of tolerance means not only not caring about personal gains and losses, but also being able to warm the hearts of others with your love and sincerity. Tolerance with a calm mind is already rare; tolerance that provides help in times of need is even more valuable and moving. From the fable, we see that the horse that made the mistake has realized its own absurdity and is ashamed. At this time, the tolerance and comfort shown by the bitten horse are like a flame, bright and warm. Tolerance not only melts each other's ice, but also radiates the heat of love into each other's hearts. In an era that has been commented by some as "materialistic", where the bottom-up space is shrinking day by day, isn't it the tolerance that happens between two horses that people lack? Choosing tolerance means choosing understanding and tenderness, and at the same time choosing the vastness of life.

Tolerance is a poem

Tolerance is a poem of life. Tolerance at the highest level is not just reflected in the handling of certain events in daily life, but is sublimated into a broad mind towards the universe and a poetic attitude toward life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the broad-mindedness and fraternity of the heart towards all life in the world. The horse in the fable cannot reach this state, but this state is so real and profound for humans.

For those who have a grudge against the dullness and misfortunes of life, please choose to be tolerant. This does not damage your dignity at all, but helps people to cross mediocrity in the long river of life. Only with a tolerant ideological realm can we understand the true meaning of life. Tolerance is also an art of life. Picture

Tolerance is not inconsistent with "discipline yourself and treat others kindly". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Being kind to others" also requires looking at the target first. Tolerating those who do not value tolerance is to be indulgent; to be tolerant to those who are not worthy of tolerance is to tolerate; to be tolerant to those who are unforgivable and conscientious is to be indulgent. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a science of life.

On the road of our lives, what happens is by no means as simple as two horses. Life is often complicated and often dull. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that the complex becomes pure after being filtered; it is precisely because tolerance is like fire that the ordinary becomes increasingly clear through burning; and because of this poetic tolerance, life is given art and life is eternal.

On an October day in the golden autumn, the air was crisp and the sun was shining brightly. It happened to be a weekend. The villagers were invited to gather at the farmhouse. During the chat, Mr. Wang said: After a daughter got on the bus with her 60-year-old father, , found that there were no seats, he cursed and forced an 84-year-old man to give up his seat. Before the old man could give up his seat in time, his father, who weighed more than 300 kilograms, had to sit on the old man. The old man had no choice but to stand up and give up his seat tremblingly. But the daughter refused to give up and her curses were still unbearable. Everyone in the car couldn't stand it anymore, thinking that no matter how weak the old man was, he would still retaliate. Little did he know that the old man said next: "I'm so sorry, don't blame me for being sick and make you so angry!" There was a sudden silence in the car. The old man's unexpected behavior made everyone in the car stand in awe!

The old man’s words were very resounding and echoed in my heart for a long time. Being able to tolerate uncultured and selfish people is difficult to do without an open mind. It seems that the old man's mind and self-cultivation are extraordinary, and he can achieve the state of a saint. Although Mr. Wang did not criticize the behavior of the father and daughter too much, I think it is self-evident that when these two contrasting people are put together, who will be respected and who will be despised.

I read a short article on the Internet about two college students who were listening to a song in the dormitory. They got into a fight because they had different opinions on the song. Under the persuasion of his roommate, Student A was pushed back to another dormitory. I originally thought that the matter was over, but when I returned to the dormitory, Classmate A became more and more angry. He picked up a fruit knife, broke into Classmate B's dormitory, and hit Classmate B's chest hard when everyone was unprepared. Stabbed twice. When the classmates in the dormitory reacted and rushed Student B to the hospital, he died due to ineffective rescue efforts. A young man's life disappeared without value, while another young man who was also full of youth had to bear the shackles of his soul in prison. How much hard work and sweat two families have to put in to train a college student, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, how should parents who have lost their beloved son face life in the future! It is true that one misstep can lead to eternal hatred.

Tolerance is a virtue. As the saying goes: "The prime minister's belly can sail, the general's forehead can run horses."

"This is the style of a gentleman and the behavior of a wise man. "The sea is open to all rivers, and it is big if it has tolerance; if it stands on a wall, it is strong if it has no desires." This is the truth. The famous French poet Hugo believed: "The widest in the world is the ocean, and it is bigger than the ocean. What is wider is the sky, and what is wider than the sky is the human mind. "Lin Xiangru was tolerant when he allowed Lian Po three times, Zhuge Liang was tolerant when he led Meng Huo seven times, and Bao Ziya was even more tolerant when he recommended Sun Shuao regardless of past suspicions. These tolerant minds have been recorded in the annals of history and are still shining brightly today, reflecting the light of human nature.

Tolerance is a kind of wisdom. It not only embodies the kindness of human nature, but also embodies a kind of wisdom and skill. It makes the souls of noble people become clearer and the souls of despicable people become more dirty. On the road, he met a person who often criticized his articles. This person made rude remarks in front of Goethe and blocked his way. Goethe smiled slightly and stepped aside without making any judgment. Others were very angry. , advised Goethe to retort. Goethe smiled and said: "If I were like him, wouldn't I also become a madman? "Goethe's approach is a kind of wisdom. "The noblest revenge is tolerance." There is no need to argue with a madman. With the wisdom of tolerance, it will make selfish people even more embarrassed.

Tolerance actually means Be patient. Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." If there was a little bit of tolerance, a little bit of calmness and patience, a little bit of understanding and peace, that college student wouldn't have caused a shocking tragedy over a trivial matter.

Human nature is a mystery. The invisible thing has two sides. Once people lose tolerance, they will become narrow-minded and selfish. When the 84-year-old man showed the tolerance of human nature to everyone, it was a kind of wisdom and skill. In a conflict that was about to break out, he undoubtedly gave the selfish father and daughter a hard slap in the heart. I think the father and daughter wanted someone to take the initiative to give up their seats for them, or they wanted to find a place to sit. How to get through the cracks?

"Tolerance makes weak people feel that the world is gentle, and makes strong people feel that the world is noble. "Friend, you might as well let your life have more tolerant wisdom, let your mind slowly become calmer, face life calmly and happily, and life will become warmer and better.

Qinggao (Chinese word)

Pure and noble, not interested in fame and wealth, not being associated with others, often refers to being unwilling to join other groups, being solitary and admiring oneself

Basic information

Word: aloof

Part of speech: adjective

Basic explanation: pure and noble, not interested in fame and wealth, not involved in the world, mostly refers to unwillingness to be in the company, solitary and admiring oneself

Antonyms: vulgar

"Qing Gao", this is one of the most frequently used words by intellectuals in the 1950s and 1960s. It is rarely seen today. Take a look at the current writing, whether it is a long article , short essays, essays, essays, which article or sentence talks about purity? Times have changed, but the flowers have fallen away, and the "purity" has been lost with the years.

When it comes to the word "qing", the Chinese people. There is no doubt that there is a special preference for this. In Chinese vocabulary, many good praises are often attributed to the word Qing: outstanding talents are called Qingcai, those with noble aspirations are called Qingshi, and elegant articles are called Qingwen. Officials who are honest and dedicated to their duties are called honest officials, pure friendship is called "qingjiao", and there are also "qing", "qing", "qing", "qing", etc. Almost all respectable characters, behaviors, physical properties, and affairs must be labeled with "qing" The word "Qing" combined with the word "Gao" is definitely a top-level praise, otherwise, it would have been a heavy burden on the spirit of intellectuals.

The heart is higher than the sky. They are tall, do not flatter themselves, regard themselves as moral and ideological kings, do not pursue material desires, and spend their lives exploring the truth while improving their personality and reaching a great ideological realm. After a few decades of life, the vision will be very far away.

Detailed explanation

Interpretation 1: Pure and noble, "Lunheng·Dingxian" written by Wang Chong of Han Dynasty: "The meaning of Hongzhuo comes from. A turbulent dynasty; a noble and noble life is evident in a world of decline and chaos. "Confucius Confucius Kang Zhi": "A man who is honest and upright should not be burdened by selfishness, and should not worry about benefits. He should choose the best way in the world and follow the right path in the world." "Baopuzi Yimin" written by Gehong of Jin Dynasty: "If a husband is filial to his friends, benevolent and righteous, and conducts his career with high standards, he can be said to be a virtuous person."

” Du Fu of the Tang Dynasty, Part 5 of “Ode to the Ancient Relics”: “Zhuge’s fame spreads throughout the universe, and the portraits of his ancestors and ministers are highly respected. "Zou Taofen, "Schools and Shopping Malls": "Most people recognize that education is a noble cause and the foundation of a country. "

Interpretation 2: Refers to being unwilling to join the group and admiring oneself alone. "A Warning to the World: Li Banned the Immortal, Drunken Grass and Scared the Barbarians": "The emperor knew that Li Bai was noble and could not bear to force each other." "Ba Jin's "Talking about "Open Garden": "This person is conceited, has high vision and low hand, and thinks he is nobler than anyone else." ”

Interpretation 3: The position is noble and noble

Yan Zhitui of the Northern Qi Dynasty’s "Yan Family Instructions: Involved Affairs": "The rest of the literary and righteous people are mostly indirect and flashy, and have no involvement in worldly affairs." , the slightest fault, and he cherishes his actions and beats Chu, so he is in a high position, and it is beneficial to protect his shortcomings. "Mr. Luan Cheng's Last Words" by Su Xun of the Song Dynasty: "Zhang Wending came back to life after his death and said that he had seen a high status. " Minggui Youguang's "Nai Zhai Ji": "Therefore, the doctorate at that time was noble. ”