The day before yesterday (July 22nd), I came home from work and came to someone's door downstairs. The host downstairs is seeing their friends off. Coincidentally, this friend of theirs is the owner of the photo studio where I often develop photos. We are all acquaintances, and we talked enthusiastically. When we were leaving, we clearly heard the host downstairs talking to the boss's wife about me: "He is a good man. Last time I saw him give gloves to the uncle who sold second-hand goods. "

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I was shocked to hear that. They didn't talk about it. They don't even remember such a thing. Now I think it's just a pair of particularly strong gloves I brought back when I was playing (used when riding a downhill slide). Thinking about second-hand goods, old Wang Can had a protection when he tidied up with his bare hands, so I took it out from home and gave it to him. Maybe the neighbor downstairs happened to be passing by or selling secondhand goods and saw this scene.

Speaking of the evaluation of good people, I can't help but recall what the boss's wife once said to me: "You are a good person and often take your parents out to travel." Giving someone a pair of gloves and taking my parents on a trip may be a trivial matter or a matter of course, but being remembered by the viewer may not necessarily prove what kind of good person I am. Come to think of it, maybe there are not many people and things like this around us, or maybe there is a famous saying: "Life is not lacking in beauty, but in discovery."

I am ashamed of their praise and praise. I dare not pretend to be a good person. Freud believed that personality structure consists of three parts: id, ego and superego. In their eyes, the so-called good man like me should only be the external embodiment of the superego. I don't have the courage and determination of Lu Xun to "squeeze out the' small' under the fur robe". Ordinary me has the most primitive nature of human nature: self and id.

I remember reading an article suggesting that we should not test human nature. The main plot is a Danish medical scientist who won the Nobel Prize. In his later years, he is going to look for a successor. A young doctor is chosen from many people. However, medical research is boring, so Finson decided to give Harry some consideration. The assistant suggested, "Sir, as far as I know, this young doctor comes from a poor family. You might as well ask your friend to hire Harry at a high salary and see if he will be tempted. " If he is tempted by money, he naturally doesn't deserve to be your disciple. After listening to this, the doctor thought for a moment and replied, "Thank you for your proposal, but I can't accept it. I always agree with this view, don't look down on others from the moral high ground, and never test human nature. The assistant was puzzled. The doctor explained, "He comes from a poor family. Why can't he have a desire for money?" If we have to set a difficult problem to test him, for example, if I give you a well-paid job, will you do it? "And the answer must be no, then, for him, his heart must be tangled, because he has to make a dilemma in front of real life and dreams. Besides, he followed me to study medicine, and there was no need to go. Why should I long for him to be a perfect person? " In the end, the young doctor became a disciple of the doctor and became a very influential doctor in Denmark. Later, when the young doctor heard that the medical scientist refused to test his humanity, he said with emotion, "If my teacher uses huge interests as bait to evaluate my humanity, then I must have fallen into this trap. Because, at that time, my mother was ill in bed and needed medical treatment, and my siblings were waiting for me to send them to school. In that case, I wouldn't have achieved what I am now. "

Man is a multidimensional synthesis (good+bad). Our society should create an atmosphere to produce outstanding talents and fully tap them. "Don't look down on others from the moral high ground and never test human nature", otherwise it may ruin a person or even a good person. The standards of good people vary from person to person and from time to time, but it should be the mainstream of our society to have good thoughts and always maintain positive energy in our hearts. It's really hard to be a good man who can turn the tide and save mankind. For most people, the opportunity is really slim. However, as the old saying goes, "Don't do small good, don't do small evil." Starting from yourself, starting from now, starting from small things, everyone gives a love. Such a world will certainly be more exciting!