Because people's social background, experience, educational level and ideological accomplishment are different. So people have different personalities. Therefore, tolerance means being able to accept people with different personalities, which is not only a moral accomplishment, but also a leadership art. Only with tolerant personality can we be good at uniting people with different personalities and coordinating their work, so as to give full play to individual initiative, enthusiasm and creativity and promote the continuous development and growth of our cause. Only in this way can one's wisdom and potential be truly brought into play, and the scope of communication will become wider and wider.
In The Analects of Confucius Yang Huo, there is a saying: "Forgiveness wins many people", which means that if a king is generous, he can win the support of everyone. In fact, in the process of meeting friends, we should cultivate the virtue of tolerance. Even if we find that "Tao is different, no common cause seeks common cause", we should "make friends with gentlemen and not be evil". Be "generous and gentle enough to be tolerant." Tolerate friends' small shortcomings and temporary mistakes. No one is perfect and always correct; It's hard to change after that. In the Analects of Confucius, Zhang Zi, Zi Gong said: "Mistakes of a gentleman are like food for the sun and the moon: when he goes too far, everyone can see them, not to mention everyone admires them. "As long as a friend is essentially good and white, and his fault is only a slight defect, he should be tolerant; If you make a mistake, once you know it, you should actively correct it and be more tolerant.
In the society we live in, everyone will encounter something unsatisfactory to some extent. Some things are even annoying and unpleasant. The same is true of getting along with others. You can't tell when there will be a quarrel. Maybe there will be a collision next moment and it will end in discord. Whatever the reason, it has a great influence on a person's mood. After a long time, they will have a negative impact on people's spirit and may have tragic consequences.
It is important to learn to be tolerant when you are alive. People can't always get everything they want in communication, and they can't work without different opinions. Human beings always advance and develop in contradiction. When the ideological understanding has not been unified and people and things have not reached a high degree of consistency, we should communicate sincerely, exchange views, seek common ground while reserving differences and be honest with each other. In a big sense, this is generosity, science, and the art of leadership. For a small room, it is kindness and tolerance to others. In fact, this small is not really a "small", but a "small" bigger than the big!
President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends. Am I not destroying my enemy? " It can be seen that sometimes more tolerant and open opponents may be our potential friends.
Tolerance is a kind of life wisdom. Wisdom can increase the connotation of tolerance and make it irresistible. Zhuge Liang was generous to others, and finally made Meng Huo feel ashamed. A tolerant life needs endless wisdom: without wisdom and tolerance, even if Shang Zhouwang leads a powerful army, it can't reverse the end of physical death and national destruction; If there is no tolerance of wisdom, even if Zhou Yu burned Chibi and was defeated, he could not help sighing that "since Yu was born, how can he have a good life?" Tolerance is the chip of the wise, which can increase the chances of success.
Tolerance is the bearing of life. Tolerance can tolerate people's inner narrowness, so that we can still be broad-minded in the face of narrowness. Tolerance is a thousand-year-old ginseng, and the length of life is the thickness of its value; Tolerance is an old wine, and the degree of brewing is its delicious concentration. Tolerance requires the moral character of good for evil. If we can treat our friends with tolerance, why should Wang Dao regret: "I didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of me". If we can treat brotherhood with tolerance, why should Cao Pi be ashamed of "being born from the same root, why be in such a hurry"? Being a man requires tolerance, because tolerance can turn "war" into "jade" in life.
Many friends help many. Although the lotus is good, it still needs the support of green leaves. Since ancient times, people have regarded weddings as a great blessing in life. Because of this, people call from the heart: Our friends are all over the world! For young friends, the desire to make friends is more urgent. Because, when young people step into the society, just like young eagles jumping into the vast blue sky and spreading their wings, they will inevitably encounter a "storm", so they need understanding, support and help.
Some people think that making more friends is a burden, socializing is too troublesome and wastes time. In fact, this view is wrong, because people can't leave home and wander in society all their lives, and once they step into society, they will rely on all kinds of friends. Therefore, many friends have many roads.
When Yela went to Beijing to apply, the mother and son were poor because of their father's death. Not only is the fare a problem, but it is not easy to have a full meal.
Suddenly one day, someone sent a book of 320 silver, which relieved their worries. It turned out that Wu Tang was awarded the wrong door by Yang Shan, the salt transport envoy of the Huai River and Huai River, and wanted to recover the book silver. But he was stopped by a tout, and he decided to spend three hundred and twenty pieces of silver to buy personal feelings, even if he made friends, so he didn't want the money back. Finally, Nora's family really became the noble Lan and Empress Dowager Cixi. Cixi's old feelings are unforgettable. After she listened to politics, Wu Tang was quickly promoted to governor of grain transportation.
It can be seen that people need the help of their friends most when they are in trouble, and they are also most grateful for their help. This kind of assistance, whether economic or moral, once it happens, will be remembered and unforgettable for life.
There is a limit to tolerance. We advocate learning and practicing tolerance, and we are by no means blindly accommodating, avoiding and not daring to fight against lawlessness, bad guys and bad things. It is by no means unprincipled tolerance. The tolerance mentioned here is a kind of natural, human and kind tolerance.
Tolerance is a kind of survival wisdom. He knows the way of the world, sees deeply, sees too much and lets go. Only by learning tolerance and forgetting can life be sunny, which is the necessary shade for children to grow up. Let's sow the seeds of tolerance and create the seeds of sunny life in this sunny under the greenwood tree!
Tolerance is the need of being a man, a man and a career. Learning to be tolerant will make your life better and richer forever. Only by being open-minded, detached and tolerant of others can one pave a broad road for his own success.
Will Roger once said, "So far, I haven't met anyone I don't like. Because every time I see a person, I always try to drive away the emotions that make me feel disgusted and look for the part that makes people like him. " Tolerance lies in tolerating yourself. As the saying goes, the road is as wide as the heart is. In the pursuit of power, the more tolerant people are, the more respect and love they get, and the greater the hope of success.
There is an old saying that "a prime minister can punt in his stomach", which shows that he is very generous! There is a saying that "there is no fish if the water is clear, and there is no friend if people are mean." It also emphasizes tolerance. Why did Liu Canbang win? Why did Xiang Yu lose? It's not the difference between tolerating others, tolerating their shortcomings and making good use of people!
Dark philosophy
Please try to find out the advantages of others. It is not others who benefit from forgiving others, but yourself.