Self and others

The handling of interpersonal relationships is related to your life and career. When people get along with each other, there are method issues, and there are also moral issues that are more important than methods.

Some people say that there is no eternal friendship in the world, only eternal interests. The coldness of the world seems to prove this. But if we think about it calmly, isn’t friendship between people also a benefit in itself? Therefore, it is very important to treat personal interests well in handling relationships with others:

Don’t take personal interests too seriously. On the balance of interests, there are the interests of the country and the people on one end, as well as the interests of the unit and colleagues.

Don’t be too demanding of others. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. When getting along with others, you must not only accept the advantages of others, but also accept the shortcomings of others. To be demanding of others is to isolate yourself.

Jealousy is the ugliest human emotion and the most tormenting emotion. Being younger than you, having higher education than you, and being more capable than you is a symbol of social progress, because there are also people in front of you who are older, less educated, and less capable than you. Don’t always put small shoes on others. You must know that small shoes are not comfortable on your own feet.

Learn to give to others. For those who are frustrated, give them confidence, and for those who are confused, give them understanding. Those who can give value spirituality, while those who cannot give value material things; profound people are good at inspiring, while shallow people are willing to do things for you. The best thing to give is to give help in times of need. Harmony in interpersonal relationships is the joy of life.