The title clearly tells us that the main purpose of writing is to have a good proper limit no matter how you treat yourself, others and things. We can write from this angle.
Life is an art, and the most important thing is to grasp the "degree". If the scale is not accurate, it may sometimes lead to thousands of miles away. But life is a big concept, including many aspects. When writing, we must turn the big into the small and the abstract into the concrete, so as to write a good composition. Take the "distance" in interpersonal communication as an example. The grasp of this scale is very particular. Nearly one foot is too close, and a foot far is too far. As people change from strangers to acquaintances and from acquaintances to acquaintances, the spatial distance between people will naturally change. With the shortening of space distance, the distance between people is also shortening. Only by grasping the scale of distance can we communicate better.
Of course, this topic is not limited to writing about life. Everything in life is the same. As long as you can grasp this measure, you can make ends meet. As for the style, it can be narrative, argumentative and prose.
Fan Wen:
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Height determines vision, angle changes thinking, and scale grasps life.
From a shoemaker to Nan Cunhui, a billionaire of Wenzhou Zheng Tai Group, he succeeded. The secret of success: even if a centipede has four feet, it can only take one step at a time, so be practical. Practical, I think this is the measure of life. Without a deep brand, there will be no brilliant achievements. Without such great thoughts and courage, there will be no lofty goals.
There is a story: three strong young people are building a wall, and a scholar asks them what they are doing. A sweaty young man couldn't wait to say, "Do coolies and build walls." Another young man said, "I'm in Gai Lou." However, the last young man said an amazing sentence: "We are building a beautiful city!" " "The scholar could not help but envy the young man who finally answered. 10 years later, the young man who built the wall still built the wall, but he was a little older and continued to do his hard work. The second became their foreman, pointing out what the workers were doing. Surprisingly, the third young man became a famous engineer, developed the city and realized his wish. People's standards are different, and the corresponding return effect is different. Without novel ideas and measures, you can't make any unusual achievements. Raise your standards a little, and the stage will be as big as your heart. You are not afraid that you can't do it, but you are afraid that you can't think of it.
Gou Jian, the King of Yue, suffered a lot after his defeat. However, he did not give up the day of success because of the immediate setbacks. He asks himself loudly every day: "Have you forgotten the shame of losing your country?" With this indomitable life scale and lofty life belief, Wu was finally destroyed in one fell swoop, which was a shame (jiān, wash). His great ambition is the measure of his life, and not everyone can achieve it. Without hellish training, how can he create brilliant motivation? How can you play an eternal swan song without bloody fingers? Yes, this scale and realm of life was achieved by the ancients, but can't we modern people do it? The answer is yes, and we can do the same.
In the face of thorns, we will not shrink back. Facing the swamp, we will stride forward without hesitation, regardless of the "trap" under our feet. With this scale of life, no matter how big the difficulties are, they will be overcome and will eventually usher in a day of victory. The so-called scale is the standard and basic attitude of being a man. Basic ideas. Without a yardstick, there is no goal in life. Just like a big ship wandering around in the confused sea, hesitating whether it is possible to survive, it is necessary to establish accurate scales and escape from the danger zone as soon as possible. Now that we are soldiers preparing for the battlefield, most of our living standards may have been established. Whether you can still have a place on the battlefield of masters like Lin depends on whether you have a life scale and goals. On the contrary, you will die in battle and never live. Friends, come on, we can't be swords!
God gave each of us a life scale to guide us to success. Grasp it, then you will be closer to success!