It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.

3. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

4. It is not pitiful when you know you are confused, but it is most pitiful when you don't know you are confused.

People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

6. Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

7. There is no need to look back. Who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?

8. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your opinions in a hurry.

9. Why put the poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?

10, we can't get it. We will always think that he is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him.

One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.

1 1, the world is only stable, not perfect.

12. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

13, the more you pay attention to others, the less you pay attention to yourself, understand?

14, hating others is your great loss.

15, everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

16, emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease.

17, fate is not to muddle along and drift with the tide, but to do our best to listen to destiny.

18, don't be too sure of your opinion, so you will have fewer regrets.

19, when you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.

It is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.

2 1. A person who is full of jealousy, dishonest in heart and incorrect in speech cannot be regarded as a person with correct facial features.

22. silently caring for and blessing others is an invisible charity.

23. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

24. To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere.

25. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

26. It is better to accept the facts than to reject them. This is called resignation.

27. Adversity is a necessary process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.

28. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.

30. Forgiving others means leaving room for manoeuvre in your mind.

3 1, you insist on taking simple things seriously, so you will be very painful.

32. Tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?

33. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.

34. If you have a selfless love, you will have everything.

35. Don't be angry and sad when others say that we are not good. You don't have to be happy to say we are good. There are good and bad in it, depending on whether you can use it.

36. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people suffering in the world than we are.

37. Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable. So you must follow the fate, follow the fate.

38. Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.

39. Anyone who can think of others from their perspective is compassion.

40. People who worship themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.

4 1, the heart is the biggest liar, others can cheat you for a while, but they will cheat you for a lifetime. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

42. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.

43, you don't have to argue with cause and effect, cause and effect will never mislead people; You don't have to argue with fate, which is the fairest judge.

44. If you want to master eternity, you must control the present.

The world doesn't belong to you, so you don't have to abandon it. What you want to abandon is persistence. Everything is for my use, not for my use.

46. I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.

47, others can violate the cause and effect, others can hurt us, hit us, slander us. But we can't hate others for it. Why? We must keep a complete nature and a pure heart.

48. A bad mouth should never come from our mouth, no matter how bad it is. The more you scold him, your heart will be polluted. Think about it, he is your good knowledge.

49. It will be a blessing if you can spend a day in peace. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.

When you face things with troubles, you will feel that everything is karma and the world will become ugly and hateful. Although we can't change the world around us, we should change ourselves and be compassionate.