The adult world is far more complicated than we imagine, which corresponds to the word "people's hearts are sinister".
In the adult world, there is no absolute fairness, and not everyone treats others sincerely. Not all sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity; not all efforts can be exchanged for gratitude.
When you are brilliant, some people worship you and look at you with admiration; of course, some people are jealous of you, disrespect you, and deliberately attack you.
On the road of life, we are bound to face all kinds of people, but we must never let people who deliberately harm you become a stumbling block in your life. Good people are bullied, and good horses are ridden. The weaker you are, the easier it is to be bullied by others.
We need to maintain our kindness, but this does not mean that we can let others bully us. Kindness must also have an edge.
When someone looks down on you, is rude to you, or deliberately denies you, it does not mean that you are really bad and really not good. Learn to believe in yourself, be firm in your own ideas, and continue to be a better version of yourself. Just win.
Those who look down on you and are deliberately rude to you are undoubtedly trying to discourage you, make you so angry that you lose your sense of control, and even lose your mind, making you lose confidence and doubt yourself. .
So, the more others look down on you and are rude to you, the more confident you must be and the more plausibly you must maintain a peaceful mind and show your strength.
In interpersonal communication, if someone is rude to you, doing this is the most powerful counterattack.
The weaker you are, the easier it is for others to treat you as a weakling and be bullied by others.
When someone is rude to you, first of all, you have to think about whether your image is too weak and you are regarded as a soft persimmon.
The essence of weakness is that you have too low self-esteem. If you look down on yourself, others will naturally look down on you.
Confidence is the confidence of a strong person, so that he can show a more determined look and an unquestionable look.
You should hold your head high and chest out with confidence, and your eyes should be inviolable and sacred. The look in the eyes of a strong man can make many people shut up without daring to say a single word.
If you are a confident person with a strong aura, no one will bully you, and you will most likely be able to convince yourself. Even if others have activity in their hearts, they dare not show it in front of you.
The more others look down on you and are deliberately rude to you, the more confident you must be and use your eyes and aura to push them back instead of just being cowed.
In interpersonal relationships, there are always people who deliberately try to trick you, making you lose face in front of everyone and unable to hold your head up.
When someone is deliberately rude to you, you must not be irritated by him and lose your composure.
If you cannot control your emotions well, you will easily lose control and do impulsive things.
When you are carried away by anger, lose your temper, and do something outrageous, then you have fallen into the trap of someone who is deliberately rude to you.
So, even if someone is rude to you, you must maintain a peaceful mind.
Only when you have a calm mind and are not overwhelmed by anger can you face it rationally and respond in the most appropriate way.
The more the other person deliberately irritates you, the calmer you will be. If you just smile slightly, it will be him who is angry, not you.
No matter how angry you are in your heart, don't show it on your face, but use words to win back the situation for yourself.
There is a word called "The more frustrated you become, the braver you become". This word can not only be used on the battlefield, but can also be used in interpersonal relationships.
In interpersonal interactions, the more someone looks down on you and is deliberately rude to you, the more you have to express yourself better and show your better and stronger side.
Your own excellence and ability are the best reply to those who are rude to you.
The more the other person looks down on you and the more rude they are, the more you show your more perfect side, leaving the other person dumbfounded and speechless.
This requires belief in oneself. Others' denial doesn't mean you really can't do it.
The more others look down on you, the more convinced you are that you are the best, the best one. Not denying yourself and recognizing yourself are the confidence and capital for you to fight back.
This way of proving oneself with actions not only shows one's demeanor, but also wins back dignity and face for oneself.
This is a brave way to face, it is also a kind of wisdom and ability, and it is the demeanor of a strong person.
In interpersonal communication, there are all kinds of people. There will always be people who are envious and jealous of you, and there will always be people who are rude to you and deliberately embarrass you.
What we should do is not to let anger control our emotions, nor to fall out directly.
But you should change your image, stay calm while maintaining confidence, and then show a better side of yourself.