It is rare to be confused, and suffering a loss is a blessing.

Rarely confused means that people rarely become confused when they should pretend to be confused. People sometimes need to be confused. Living in confusion and thinking simply may not be a bad thing for life. Being confused is not stupidity, but being open-minded and magnanimous in dealing with people, being able to take things and let them go, not being too persistent, and being confused when you should be confused. Appropriate stupidity in life is a kind of virtue, and it is also a kind of wisdom. In the face of the overly complicated world, be simple and do things simply. Don't be anxious when meeting people, don't be annoyed when things happen, and use the rare and confused ability to be at ease with the situation to brew the mellow wine of life.

When Zheng Banqiao was the magistrate of Weixian County (now Weifang), his cousin sued his neighbor for a section of the wall foundation of his ancestral house, asking him to write a letter to Xinghua County to win the case. After Zheng Banqiao read the letter, he immediately wrote a poem in reply. The letter spread thousands of miles away is like a wall, so it doesn't matter if it is only a few feet away. The Great Wall is still there today, but Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen. Later, he wrote two words: It is rare to be confused, and suffering a loss is a blessing. "It is rare to be confused" is a famous saying passed down by Zheng Banqiao during the Qianlong period of the Qing Dynasty. It is his way of being an official and his way of life. Later generations marveled at the rich philosophy contained in these four rare words: "muddleheaded", so they hung them in the form of a banner at home as a warning for their daily lives.