1. People who have no goals will always work hard for those who have goals; not having a crisis is the biggest crisis, and being satisfied with the status quo is the biggest trap. 2. Place the right bet and win once; follow the right person and win forever. 3. The boss can only give you a position, but not a future. 4. Educational qualifications represent the past, financial resources represent the present, and learning ability represents the future. 5. What you see and hear changes your life, and it can ruin your life before you know it.
2. Some simple words 1. Be realistic and hypocritical occasionally, because if you don’t do that, it will be difficult to get along. 2. Control your temper and be silent occasionally, because impulsiveness may lead to irreversible things. 3. No matter what you do, think about it. 4. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a chance to betray him a second time. 5. No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust..
3. 9 tips for self-growth ① Speak in a caring and self-blaming tone, blame yourself before blaming others; ② Find solutions instead of excuses when encountering problems; ③ Maintain good health ④ Develop a recording habit and don’t rely on your head; ④ Never give up on anything; ⑤ Remind yourself to record inspiration at any time; ⑥ Listen carefully without interrupting others; ⑦ Consciously and sincerely praise others more than three times a day; ⑧ Plan everything in advance and try to achieve your goals Visualization; ⑨ Always treat others with a smile.
4. Those who can see through things are full of life; those who cannot see through things are faced with difficulties everywhere. Those who can afford it are responsible for everything; those who cannot afford it are negligent. Those who can let go are always on the right path; those who cannot let go are always astray. For those who can think openly, there will be spring everywhere; for those who cannot think clearly, there will be withering everywhere. It's up to you who you are; your small self is the big world. ——Master Hsing Yun
5. Don’t compare your life with others, because you can’t understand other people’s experiences. No one can control your happiness, except yourself!
6. If you see through things, you will know how to proceed; if you see through people, you will know how to get along; if you see through things, you will know how to get along; , you don’t want to do things; if you see through the favor, you don’t want to be a human being. So just use the snacks and just accept the rest. Is it difficult not to care about other people's words? Your mouth belongs to others, but your life is yours.
7. What doesn’t kill me will only make me stronger. (So, thanks? Those people and things that bring us hardships.)
8. Some things are too great and we are not that capable, and some things are too small and we are too lazy to do them. When you are unable to achieve something high or low, be careful, as you may achieve nothing.
9. When you climb up, be kind to the people you meet, because you will meet them again when you fall down.
10. Whenever you do something, it is best to pursue only one goal that you care about most, and give in to the rest. This way, you have a higher chance of achieving your goal. For example: if you do this thing, the most important thing is to learn experience, then don’t worry about money; if you do that thing, the most important thing is money, then don’t worry about face. And so on. If you want to do something, you want to gain experience, make more money, and have face... Such a wonderful thing, you have to wait for it. . .
11. Career always comes first. Although money is not everything, but there is absolutely nothing you can do without money. Although this sentence is very vulgar, it is absolutely true, so before the age of 30, please put most of your Focus on your career.
12. Don’t take money too seriously. Don’t complain about your low salary, bank savings below 4 digits, and no future. All you have to do now is study hard, no matter how high your diploma is. How to apply theory to practice still requires a long training process. Society is always the most comprehensive university. The knowledge it allows you to learn is far more important than what you learn in school, so in the same way, you also Don't mind too much about low academic qualifications. There are still very few people who can buy a car or a house by themselves before the age of 30.
13. Learn to be considerate of your parents and don’t think we are nagging. When you become a father, you will know how pitiful parents are. In my eyes, you are still a child. I am really old. Now I have to coax you. I am happy. Maybe just a phone call and a small gift from you can put my mind at ease. It is easy to do.
14. Making good friends will have a great influence on your life. Don’t make too many fair-weather friends. At least you must have one friend who can help you at critical moments. If you meet such a person, just If you grasp it well, it will be useful in the future, no matter whether he is rich or poor now.
15. Don’t believe too much in love. There must be love in your heart, but please don’t say it and don’t believe the vows in those Aunt Qiong Yao’s novels. There is no eternity in the world. The most important thing is responsibility, but a woman’s heart is as deep as the bottom of the sea. If it changes, everything will be in vain. All you have to do is take action when it's time to take action, and don't hesitate when it's time to let go. Love before the age of 30 is not fake, but most people don't have the ability to truly grasp it, so learn to do what you can.
16. Every time you are ready to react in a past pattern, ask yourself if you plan to stay stuck in the past, or if you plan to carve out a new path for the future.
17. There are always opportunities. If you cannot seize them, don’t blame others because you are not good enough; don’t treat time like garbage. Only by cherishing time can you improve the quality of life; The straight line between two points may not be the shortest. Sometimes, you can reach the end point faster by taking detours; if you make a mistake, stop; if you don't get it, give up.
18. The philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master.
19. The great man said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey.
20. The artist said: You cannot extend the length of life, but you can expand its width; you cannot change the weather, but you can control your mood.
21. The Buddha said: Things change according to the mind, situations are created by the mind, and worries are all caused by the mind.
22. 8 sentences to read when confused ① Deal with the mood first, then deal with it ② The most difficult time is the time closest to success; ③ Don’t worry about the vague future, just work hard for the clear present; ④ Tolerate other people’s offenses against you; ⑤ Don’t be jealous for no reason; ⑥ Only look for ways to succeed, not excuses for failure; ⑦ Don’t look at what I have lost, only look at what I still have; ⑧ Treat all difficulties with the most relaxed attitude.
23. Sometimes, what you are waiting for is not something, an opportunity, or someone, but what you are waiting for is time. Wait for time and let yourself forget. Wait for time and let yourself change. Giving up means getting, fet-it=for-get-it.
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