When you stand at the top, how many people look up to you; when you are at the bottom, how many people look down on you. How many people will follow you when benefits attract you; how many people will abandon you when benefits are gone. When I need you, I will say good things; when I no longer need you, I will turn around immediately. When I like you, you are the brightest star; when I hate you, you are the worst scene. I have to admit that society is too realistic, and I regret that I am not ruthless enough; I have to face that people's hearts are too fickle, and I regret that I am too serious. If you can endure things, you must endure them, but you must retain your pride and don't let others trample on you again and again; you can keep your feelings or throw them away, but you must have a kind of backbone to prevent tears from falling down. Feel the mood and understand the changing hearts of these people. Some people hide their knives in their smiles, while others use tricks behind their backs. Slowly understand, feel deeply, see through all these with eyesight; grow gradually, quietly become strong, and use your ability to make peace with life.

Sometimes I feel so lonely, but when there is too much news, I feel very annoyed. People are always so fickle.

Some people may not be around you, but you will smile whenever you think of them. In fact, you understand that no one at this age will live his life. If you don't have the ability to clean up the mess, don't indulge your fickle emotions. Touching cannot replace feelings, and nostalgia cannot bring back the past. What time steals is always the precious thing that you cannot see under your nose. Don’t always wrong yourself just because you accommodate others. May all your smiles come from your heart, be warm and affectionate. There is always a name that can make you curl up your lips and shed tears. After so many years, you will be fine again.

If no one loves me I will die. If I die, someone else will kill me. ----Teng Ping's "Fickle"

How many years can we know each other? One year of acquaintance is credibility. We've known each other for 2 years, it's love. We have known each other for 3 years, which is trust. We have known each other for 5 years, which is a responsibility. We have known each other for 6 years, which is valuable. Those who are still acquainted with each other after ten years should be invited into our lives. Those who have been with you for twenty years are your relatives the day after tomorrow. In this ever-changing era, pay more attention to the friends around you, be more understanding, be less calculating, and don’t forget those who are good to you. To the friends, brothers and sisters who will never leave us in life!

The longest thing is obsession, and the shortest thing is fickleness.

Don’t say that time is too short, don’t say that people’s hearts are fickle. All the journeys along the way will be the last scenery in the end——Xiaoyu Nannan "Xiaoyu Nananga Blue Rain"

The wandering prostitute smokes a cigarette and talks to the escaped prisoner. The boy who delivers newspapers squints at the girl playing in the alley. The aged mother-in-law cannot see and listens to the snoring in her ears. You tell me that time is too fickle. I said I will accompany you until your old age

Those so-called long-term, unchanging, eternal, and true love will turn into short-lived, fickle, temporary, and hypocritical love. .

People are fickle, and many fleeting thoughts can change the trajectory of everything. ----Wang Luqi's "Time Never Ends"

The past and present are different from the past, and people's hearts are also fickle, so just keep it in mind.

People are still fickle after all, otherwise why many things that I thought were a bit silly before now seem incredibly romantic in retrospect.

After what you said again and again, I never believed it. After all, we are all so fickle, and what we want to do and have may no longer be important in the next moment.

Three thousand things in the world can happen with a smile. An elegant life is light but interesting. Our life is like a burning incense. The past is gone. Happiness or pain, like the ashes of incense that burns to the end, will eventually fall. Life is impermanent and people's hearts are fickle, so why bother worrying about right and wrong? If you look down on it, right and wrong won't matter; if you let go, success or failure will just matter. Faced with all kinds of situations in life, it is a kind of elegance in life to smile and pass them by.

Stop complaining about the fickleness of the people around you and understand some truth. After all, people become more realistic as they live. Obsession cannot last forever. Short but fickle

1. This world is very powerful, and it will arrange things like suffering and experiences for everyone. And each of us is powerful beyond imagination. Will is indeed an indispensable force in life.

2. When you meet the right person, you can integrate your life with each other. No matter it is simple or complex, don’t hesitate. Between hesitation, he or she may become her or him. .

3. You are my warm gloves, cold beer, shirt with the smell of sunshine, and my dream day after day.

4. Love to me is not skin-to-skin contact, nor is it a vegetable or a meal. It is an immortal desire and a heroic dream in a decadent life.

5. Life can be wandering and lonely, but the soul must have a refuge.

6. Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.

7. Men are always tempted, tempted, and tempted again by women other than their own women. As a woman, she always forgives, forgives, and forgives the man she loves.

8. Once suspicion walks in through the front door, love will slip away through the back door.

9. Have you ever loved a distant person? He never makes you despair and is the courage and strength for you to continue living.

He is always young, beautiful, and radiant. He is always there, just like faith.

10. Some people’s lives have no scenery because they only flow through the most convenient water pipes made by others. Don't pay attention to those water pipes. Only when you really flow through one landscape after another can you become a river.

11. Eating ice cream in winter is very masochistic, especially wearing a bloated coat while standing on the street with the north wind blowing and eating ice cream. However, you will miss the person who accompanied you to self-abuse.

12. Even though he has thousands of advantages, he doesn’t love you. This is a shortcoming that you can never convince yourself to accept.

13. If you want to be loved by others, you must first make yourself worthy of love, not for a day, a week, but forever.

14. I have no complaints about this world. It owes me nothing, and it even allowed me to meet you.

15. It is better to be hurt by the truth than to be comforted by lies.

16. I have no complaints about this world. It owes me nothing and even allowed me to meet you.

17. There is a only way in the world, and there is no other way except you. People can walk. Where does it lead? Don't ask, just go.

18. Although we live lonely, there must be someone in the vast universe who can understand our own language, and one is enough.

19. Promises should not be taken lightly, and old friends will never let me down. I don't make promises lightly, so I live up to others.

20. Persistence is not as long as it is long, and fickleness is not as short as it is short. Editor: A clear conscience is the most comfortable pillow in life. Editor: She just wants a hug, but you are always reasonable. Editor: May time go slowly, and may old friends never be separated. It is not time that is ruthless, but the heart of the human heart. Fickle

1. Best friends usually tease each other and are the cruelest ones, but when you need them, they are the softest ones.

2. In fact, there are not so many ifs in this world. Sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity.

3. Sometimes it’s not that I don’t trust you, it’s just that I care more than others and am more afraid of losing you.

4. A friend is not the one who came first or the one who has known you longest, but the one who never leaves after coming.

5. You never know how strong you are, until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

6. For life, acceptance is the best tenderness, whether it is accepting the appearance of a person or accepting the absence of a person.

7. If you can't be together, don't give the other person any hope or hint. This is the greatest responsibility; after separation, don't disturb the other person and let the other person live peacefully. This is the final tenderness.

8. If you think too little, you may lose your dignity as a human being; if you think too much, you may lose the joy of being a human being.

9. I think there are always reasons for people to separate, but for some people, you should wait.

10. In fact, you will not meet many people who are really good to you in your life.

11. People actually don’t need too many things. As long as they live healthily and love sincerely, they are also rich.

12. If you can’t think about it, don’t want it. If you can’t get it, don’t want it. If it’s hard for yourself, why bother?

13. If you keep your mind pure and keep your mind, you will be able to reach the path. It is like polishing a mirror, removing the dirt and making it clear. If you cut off desires and have no desires, you will achieve your destiny.

14. It’s not that you don’t care about some things, but what you can do if you care about them.

15. Sometimes, when you choose to let go, it’s not because you can’t persist, but because you find that some things are destined to be impossible to achieve.

16. A good life means not thinking blindly, doing more, getting less, smiling often, and being content.

17. When you can't hold on anymore, you can say to yourself: "I'm so tired", but never admit in your heart: "I can't do it."

18. There is no absolute fairness in life, but it is still relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, you must bear more than others.

19. If it’s yours, it’s yours. We worked hard, cherished it, and had a clear conscience. The rest, leave it to fate.

20. Stranger - intimate lover - passerby, this is the magic of love. Those who reaffirmed their oath of friendship yesterday have become dispensable today. Love is so impermanent. Many breakups are unexpected, and before we have a chance to say goodbye properly, we never see each other again. It is not time that is ruthless, but the fickleness of the human heart. The motto of education_The motto about education_

The motto of education_The motto about education_

1. Human beings gain independence through hard work. The so-called independence means being able to do something alone without the help of others. Once children gain independence, they make rapid progress. Otherwise, its progress will be very slow. After understanding these principles, we will understand how to treat and effectively manage children. Children's own actions can guide him on the road to independence.

(Montessori: "The Absorbent Mind", "Montessori's Scientific Method of Early Childhood Education", People's Education Press, 1993 edition, page 462)

2. An important thing Let the child do it alone. Therefore, let the child do it alone while the child is learning to see and listen, and for a long time afterwards. (Hall: "Children's Psychological Development", quoted from "The Origin and Development of Modern Education", Beijing Language Institute Press, 1992 edition, page 225)

3. When influencing children, try to Don't dampen children's initiative; on the contrary, we must do everything possible to promote this initiative and consolidate the learning methods that children spontaneously master. (Krupskaya: "The Seventeenth Party Congress and the Tasks of Preschool Education", Volume 2 of "Krupskaya's Selected Works on Education", People's Education Press, 1987 edition, page 300)

4. Positive encouragement is better than negative stimulation, but the encouragement method should not be used too much, otherwise it may lose its effectiveness. If the stimulation method is used properly, it is also very good, but it can only be used occasionally. That’s all. (Chen Heqin: "Family Education", Volume 1 of "Chen Heqin Educational Collected Works", Beijing Press, 1985 edition, page 613)

5. For the sake of adult life achievements, regardless of children's abilities and needs, it is A suicide policy that respects childhood means respecting the needs and opportunities for growth. (Dewey: "The School of Tomorrow", "Dewey's Famous Works on Education", Education Science Press, 2006 edition, pp. 105-106)

6. The criterion for judging the quality of interest is always whether it makes children Grow fruitfully. Practicing an interest without contributing to growth is indulgence. To be most conducive to growth, three conditions should be present: enduring interest; challenges arising from environmental demands that mobilize the best efforts within; and ultimate success. (Kebochu: "Principles of Teaching Methods", People's Education Press, 1991 edition, page 136)

7. We must liberate children's space and let them come into contact with flowers, plants and trees in nature. , green mountains, green waters, the sun, the moon, the stars, as well as the scholars, farmers, (com) industry, and businessmen in the large society, the three religions and nine streams, freely ask questions about the universe, be friends with all things, and learn from the three hundred and sixty practices of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign countries . (Tao Xingzhi: "Creative Children's Education", "Selected Works of Tao Xingzhi on Education", Education Science Press, 1981 edition, page 308)

8. Experience tells us that pampered children are better than other children More people died. As long as we do not make them do more than they are capable of, using their physical strength is less harmful than conserving their physical strength. Therefore, they train their bodies so that they can endure the harsh seasons, climate, wind and rain, and endure hunger, thirst and fatigue (Rousseau: "Emile", The Commercial Press, 1978 edition, pp. 23-24)

9. Some people are too strict, and some people are too laissez-faire. Both situations should be avoided. If you leave your children alone, their health and lives will be endangered, and they will suffer a lot in front of them; but if you care too much and don't let them suffer at all, they will suffer even more in the future. Great suffering. (Rousseau: "Emile", Commercial Press 1978 edition, page 85)

10. Knowledge is as pleasing to the understanding as light is to the eyes; children like it extremely Knowledge, especially when they know that their problems have been noticed by others, and their desire for knowledge has been encouraged and praised by others. (Locke: "Education", Education Science Press 1999 edition, page 102)

11. Like any other living thing, children are good at activities that truly belong to their nature. Therefore, they must follow the laws of nature. Do things, eliminate excessive fatigue in school, and try to make learning as free and enjoyable as possible. (Erasmus: "The Education of a Christian Prince", quoted from "The Origin and Development of Modern Education", Beijing Language Institute Press, 1992 edition, page 45)

12. Children can be respected Yes, he often thinks about the realm above the stars and the moon, the situation below the ground, the use of flowers, and the language of insects; he wants to fly into the sky, and he wants to sneak into the ant nest. Therefore, books for children must be very careful and carefully prepared. It is also very difficult to get up. (Lu Xun: "Learning to Read Pictures", quoted from "Lu Xun's Educational Thoughts and Practices", People's Education Press, 2001 edition, page 415)

13. The world of children is completely different from that of adults; if If you don't understand first and just do it blindly, it will greatly hinder the development of your child. (Lu Xun: "How Do We Be Fathers Now", quoted from "Lu Xun's Educational Thoughts and Practices", People's Education Press, 2001 edition, page 273)

14. Learning is active and includes Positive psychological development. It involves the assimilation of the organism starting from within the psyche. It is no exaggeration to say that we must stand in the shoes of children and use children as our starting point. (Dewey: "Children and Curriculum", "Dewey's Famous Works on Education", Education Science Press, 2006 edition, p. 67)

15. Nature hopes that children will be like children before they become adults.

If we disturb this order, we shall produce premature fruits, which are neither plump nor sweet, and will soon rot: we shall produce young Ph.D.s and senile children. Children have their own unique opinions, thoughts and feelings; if we want to replace their opinions, thoughts and feelings with our own, it is simply the most foolish thing (Rousseau: "Emile", Business Press edition, 1978, page 91)

16. In the period when children's abilities are first externalized, the desire to imitate arises. Learning to speak and imitating singing for the first time are all based on this desire to imitate. This desire to imitate is innate in children and should not be ignored. This desire to imitate, like other talents, has the capacity to develop. (Pestalozzi: "Letter from Mother and Child to Friend Grieves", Volume 2 of "Selected Works of Pestalozzi", Educational Science Press, 1996, page 271)

17. Exploring children's Psychoeducation must begin with a psychological exploration of the child's energies, interests, and habits. Every aspect of it must be mastered with reference to these considerations. (Dewey: "My Creed of Education", "Dewey's Famous Works on Education", Education Science Press, 2006 edition, page 3)

18. Children are a mystery. Children who are materializing are spiritual embryos. , he needs his own special environment. Just as a physical embryo needs the mother's womb and develops there, so the spiritual embryo needs to develop in an environment filled with loving warmth and rich nutrition, where nothing can harm it. (Montessori: "The Secret of Childhood", Jinghua Publishing House, 2002 edition, pp. 39-40)

19. There is a tendency or need to grow in a certain direction within a person. This direction can generally be summarized as self-realization, or psychologically healthy growth. (Maslow: "Exploration of Existential Psychology", Yunnan People's Publishing House, 1987, page 139)

20. Children have all the qualifications of human nature, but they have not yet been developed. Just like a bud that has not yet bloomed, once the bud blooms, all the petals will spread out. The same is true for human education. People's natural aptitudes must be carefully observed, and only by mobilizing these innate aptitudes can success be ensured. (Pestalozzi: "Letter from Mother and Son to Friend Grieves", Volume 2 of "Selected Works of Pestalozzi", Educational Science Press, 1996, page 232)

21. In our cultivation In the children's efforts, outer actions are the means of stimulating their inner spiritual development, which in turn is expressed through outer actions. These two factors promote each other and develop together. Work enables children to develop their minds, and the full development of their minds will encourage them to work better; work progress makes children feel happy, and their minds will further develop. (Montessori: "Montessori Method", "Montessori Scientific Method of Early Childhood Education", People's Education Press, 1993 edition, page 297)

22. We study children's psychology and Learning psychology should be analyzed from social contradictions. The constraints on the effectiveness of education and the development of education cannot be solved simply from education itself, but should be solved scientifically. Its solution should be coordinated with the problems of the entire social system. The focus of our research is not on abstract children, but on children under a certain social system. (Xu Teli: "Education Lectures", "Xu Teli Educational Collected Works", People's Education Press, 1986 edition, page 202)

23. In general, children ① like to play; ② curious; ③ gregarious; ④ easy to imitate; ⑤ likes outdoor life; ⑥ likes success; ⑦ likes others to praise him. When we teach children, we must first understand their psychology. If education can be carried out according to the psychology of children, then education will have good results. (Chen Heqin: "Family Education", Volume 1 of "Chen Heqin Educational Collected Works", Beijing Press, 1985 edition, page 601)

24. If knowledge does not suit the mind of this or that child, it is inappropriate. of. Because human hearts are as different as plants, trees, or animals; this must be dealt with in this way, that must be dealt with in that way, and the same method cannot be used on all people. (Comenius: "The Theory of Great Teaching", People's Education Press, 1984 edition, page 153)

25. Precocious intelligence rarely bears good results. The so-called precocious students refer to students who are shamelessly driven, conceited and eager to show themselves off as soon as they start studying. But what they use to show off their skills is just the little things they have just learned. There is no deep and solid inner strength here. They are just like seeds that are scattered on the surface of the land but sprout before they are ripe, and they are like rice but not rice. Weeds have already withered and become empty before the harvest season. (Quintilian: "Principles of Oratory", "Selected Works of Quintilian on Education", People's Education Press, 1989 edition, page 26)

26. Nature is often stable and unrevealed, sometimes The individual's nature, which can be subdued but rarely completely extinguished, grows into weeds or weeds, so he should irrigate the former in time and get rid of the weeds.

(Bacon: "Collected Works of Bacon's Essays", The Commercial Press, 1963 edition, page 143)

27. Developing children's personality Our responsibility is: to comprehensively develop each student's personality and discover his talents , to form the talent for artistic creation, so that he can enjoy a multi-faceted and perfect spiritual life. (Suhomlinsky: "Suggestions for Teachers", Educational Science Press, 1981 edition, page 120)

28. The highest goal of education is to stimulate initiative and cultivate independence. Broadly speaking, this is the ultimate goal of all education. (Di Stowei: "German Teacher Training Guide", People's Education Press, 1990 edition, p. 85)

29. Teachers should follow their nature and learn more according to their ability. That’s okay. (Wang Fuzhi: "Four Books" Volume 10)

30. The principle of adapting to nature is the highest principle of all education. In education we deal with people and it is a matter of educating them. Therefore, I say with certainty: in human education, generally speaking, everything depends on not violating human nature; individually speaking, everything should be adapted to the individual characteristics of each person.

(Distohui: "Selected Works on Education by Distohui", Russian edition in 1956, page 221)