Forcing yourself to succeed is telling yourself that success is by no means a star lying in the gentle moonlight; Force yourself to succeed, that is, tell yourself that success is by no means an illusion that you can reach out in a beautiful dream! A "force" tells itself that it must face unavoidable pressure, and a "force" tells itself that it must face difficulties. People don't push, they don't succeed!
The Ming dynasty, represented by the heyday of the feudal centralized dynasty, was exhausted and in crisis in the Zhang era. The decline of rivers has forced people with lofty ideals to try their best to save the Ming dynasty, which has shown signs of decline. And Zhang is a leader among people with lofty ideals. Seeing the deterioration of the current situation, he wrote such a poem with great anxiety: "The sea of dust is dark and the clouds are full of Zhongzhou. My eyes are extremely moving, but I am worried when I look at them. " A deep sense of hardship forced him to stay in a leisurely life. In the days when his colleagues were intoxicated with singing and dancing pavilions, he worked behind closed doors, studied the laws and regulations of dynasties and analyzed government affairs. The irredeemable social atmosphere forced Zhang to show bold and sharp courage, so that the reform that might have been unable to move forward finally succeeded. Without the crisis of the Ming Dynasty, how could Zhang make up his mind to reform? Without the accumulation of the Ming Dynasty, how could Zhang Can Juzheng turn back? Without coercion, the reform will not succeed; Without coercion, there would be no ZTE in the later years of the Ming Dynasty!
Zhang was forced to save the country, and there were countless examples of self-achievement and success because of being forced. The lack of kingcraft, the decline of rites and music, and the compulsion of Confucius, on Poetry and Book, made Spring and Autumn Annals, and became a generation of great scholars and descendants of Deze, with eternal glory; Qu Yuan was exiled and wrote Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind, he can't speak Mandarin ... They are all forced by the sinister social environment and their own tragic experiences, turning their inner depression into works that will be told for generations, achieving themselves and creating brilliance!
A lazy person who never pushes himself is hard to succeed. As we all know, the road to success is full of thorns. When you are in it, if you don't force yourself to break through and stand still, isn't failure inevitable? There is an old saying in China: "Don't be idle, you will lose your head", which not only tells us to cherish time, but more importantly, tells us that a person's youth is precious for a lifetime. I don't force myself to work hard and seize the time to achieve my career, but I am confused and will try my best to make excuses for my lack of achievement and not force myself to pursue success. The result must be. Zhong Yong was immersed in the talent of childhood, without considering progress or forcing himself to think of higher goals. Didn't he end up a mediocre man?
Of course, "coercion" is limited, and we must also talk about methods. Nowadays, in order to "force" their children's so-called "potential" and get them admitted to prestigious schools, many parents spend a lot of money to send their children to Olympic math classes, specialty training classes and gifted juvenile classes ... At an early age, they were forced to lose confidence by various test questions and competitions that exceeded their abilities, to be afraid of learning, and to lose the sunshine and vitality that teenagers should have. What is the meaning of this "compulsion"? Blindly "forced", the result can only be failure!
2 1 century, the pace of the times is accelerating and the competition is becoming increasingly fierce. The "power" from the heart has more become the "power" from the outside, but in any case, people always have to move forward and pursue success. Force ourselves, as long as it comes from pure motivation, as long as the size is right and the method is right, "force" is the driving force for our success.